Chapter 2090
Wang Da said: "You have already hurt Helanting. Now."
I said, "It's even more painful to break up after the talk is not suitable."
Wang Da said: "No, for strong people, they will not be hurt. You have never heard that saying, love has always been the candy for the strong, not the medicine for the weak. No, it is not this sentence, love is the love of the two strong people, not the deep suffering of the two weak people. You are a strong man, she is stronger than you. For a strong man like Helanting, are you still afraid of hurting her deeply? Just kidding."
I nodded and said, "What you said is right. Her person is not easy to be injured. She is a strong man. But now that she is like this, can she still be saved?"
Wang Da said, "Why can't you win back? You said she was angry because she was jealous. Why was she jealous? Because she liked her, wouldn't she liked you just because she was jealous? As long as the relationship was still there and her love for you was still there, she could get it back. Besides, this really can't be blamed too much. None of you broke this layer of paper, and you didn't admit it was a betrayal."
I said, "I think I think you're right."
Wang Da said: "It's impossible that my feelings and love for you will disappear just for this time, right? Since the relationship is still there, what can't be done? Let's see what method is used, right?"
I nodded and agreed.
Wang Da said: "But if you really get her, you must be prepared to abide by your words and deeds in the future."
I said, "If you don't go out and wander, you won't have female friends, you won't have any charms, you won't have entanglement, you will have a pure life, you will have a sunrise and go to the sun? There is no nightlife. Right."
Wang Da said: "Yes."
I said, "Haha, haha."
Wang Da said: "If you can't do it, don't argue with each other at that time. Then break up again."
I said, "This is not very difficult, the biggest difficulty lies in the Black Pearl."
Wang Da said: "You should make your relationship with her a little clearer."
I said, "How can I figure it out? If I want to figure it out, she will mess up. If she is really with Helanting, Hei Mingzhu will definitely interfere."
Wang Da shook his head and said, "It seems that there are too many women around him, which is also a trouble."
I said, "She has seriously affected my life. But I can't leave her. If I leave her, I will die. If I leave her, neither of these two guys will follow me."
I pointed at An Nan and Wu Kai.
Wang Da said: "Okay, then what do you want?"
I said, "Actually, I still want to try to get together with Helanting or something. What if the place is good? If the place is not good and there is a quarrel, then it will be resolved slowly."
Wang Da said: "I think you are a sperm on the brain. You just want to push someone down. If you say you really love you, I won't believe it!"
I said, "Didn't that man fall in love with women because of sperm damage? You said that you have true love for your wife, Long Xianxian. If she is as ugly as a pig, I think you can afford to love them."
Wang Da said: "That's true. Men love because of sex, and women love because of love."
I said, "Women will love sex too. If you don't believe it, go and see what women have in prison."
Wang Da said, "I want to go, you can take me in!"
I said, "If you break the law, you will be arrested. Brother."
Wang Da said: "Let's not talk about anything else for now, let's analyze Helanting's current thoughts."
I said, "I analyzed that she wants face now, and she is hurt and hurts her face. Then she may suddenly refuse to pay attention to me."
Wang Da said, "The situation is not that bad. You have never confessed your love, it is not a boyfriend or girlfriend, so how can you betrayal? You bite to death and say that Helanting said that if you hold hands and even if you are together, then you don't say it yourself. How can I know? Since we have not spoken together, there will be no so-called boyfriend or girlfriend, at most, it will be just a matter of playing together. We were friends before, but now, we are still friends."
I nodded.
Wang Da said: "Then, what you need to do is to maintain a good relationship with her, and then wait a few days after she gets angry, you will continue to look for her and have a good relationship with her, just like before."
I said, "And then continue to model her, touch her, and kiss her like before?"
Wang Da said, "No, I can't do this again this time. She will think you are just for fun. After making the two of them get back into a hot relationship, you will guide her to the couple and lovers. She must think about you, Zhang Fan treats me as something, and plays whenever you want. At that time, you have to tell her that it's better for us to try together. I will guarantee that I will concentrate on you and will not play around. If it's not suitable, I will return to be friends and never bother her. There is no pressure on her, she is just trying, and what can she do with you. She also thinks that if it's really tried, it's not suitable to return. At that time, you will say everything you want, and you will just try when you're together. Of course, when you go to bed, it's just a try between boyfriend and girlfriend. You have done everything you should do, so why bother with me? After trying, do you think she can still bring back the previous step with you and be friends?"
I raised my thumbs up and said, "Great trick!"
Wang Da said: "Then the two tried to be together. If they quarrel for some reasons, then, since they can't get along, then go back and be friends. Although they are hurt, they are not that hurt. And you get everything you deserve, and the person who gets her. The most important thing is that you have to improve yourself, completely conquer her, and get her heart!"
I said, "It's a good thing. Listening to your words is better than reading for ten years. I really admire you too much. Where did you study this thing?"
Wang Da said: "I thought about your situation yourself. You are still a psychology doctor, why don't you understand this?"
I said, "I have completely abandoned it and I have given all my learnings to the teacher. Besides, this love psychology thing is not within the scope of psychology we have learned."
Wang Da said: "You are not a master of picking up girls."
I said, "Yes, a master of picking up girls, but the problem is that Helanting is not a girl. You have to know one thing, I can probably know her psychological thoughts when I pick up girls, but about Helanting, I really can't figure out her mentality at all. She can be completely, no matter what, she is expressionless. If she deliberately hides it, she is like this."
I pretended to be Helanting's facial expression.
Wang Da said: "This is interesting. Conquering such a big beauty is truly interesting."
I said, "Okay. I'll do it as you said."
Wang Da said: "Don't think about so many things, do it first."
I said, "Listen to this."
Everyone drank for a while, chatted for a while, and they all parted.
Wu Kai and Anan have gone back.
Lying in bed, I couldn't sleep at night again.
Because of the entanglement with Helanting.
The most important thing in life is to choose. What kind of friends you choose, what kind of job you choose, what kind of team you choose, and what kind of partner you choose, basically what kind of life you choose.
There is no so-called success or failure, there is no right or wrong. It may fail to choose any path, and it may succeed to choose any path.
The key is to make the most advantageous choice after you can weigh the pros and cons.
I was thinking about how I could choose.
Should I choose Helanting, or should I not choose Helanting?
I am a person who has both sensibility and rationality. I pay attention to my psychological feelings and physical feelings. I like Helanting's body, but I am really disgusted with her personality. If she acts like her, I will really not get along with her. Wang Da said, "Go on and talk about it first, and then slowly get in. The so-called running-in is actually to put it bluntly that I will accommodate Helanting, and it is impossible for her to accommodate me."
I guess even if I walk with Helanting, I won’t be able to walk for long.
I am afraid that Helanting will be seriously injured, and I am also afraid that I will be seriously injured.
What I fear most is that I am seriously injured.
If I really walked with Helanting and broke up, I would probably feel even more uncomfortable than her.
Wang Da is right, love is the love between two strong men, not the deep love between two weak men.
Compared with Helanting, I am not a strong man.
She is much better than me.
However, when she encountered the betrayal of love, she was still seriously injured. She had been hurt for so long before she got out. Because love is the weakest part of a person and the weakness of a person.
When I was still studying, what kind of love I believed in is tolerant and respect each other? In fact, after walking with Yu Jingjing, I realized that this broken love was tolerant of her and accommodate her love. Later, she cheated on me, which made me feel in pain.
I have always longed to find a harbor where my soul can be stored, that is, I find a woman who understands me and is willing to accept me, just like Liu Zhihui.
But there is only one Liu Zhihui in the world.
But what I worry about is either unreasonable, or the asymmetry of the two of them in their material identities. Her family is better than me and she is much richer than me. With this, she can be arrogant in front of me. I need to be brave and strong enough, ambitious and tolerant, and accommodate her.
Maybe I was thinking too much and hesitating. God knows if it will be easy to get along with after the talks continue. Could she change herself?
I made up my mind to pursue Helanting, first get Helanting in hand, and then carry out the so-called running-in.
If it really doesn't work, just break up. At least you have it before. So what if you are seriously injured? Yu Jingjing almost made me commit suicide at that time. Didn't I survive it?
Chapter completed!