After World War I, roundabouts were widely used in wars, battles, and combat operations. The Chinese--people--people--leakage--release----arms have widely taken roundabout actions in previous revolutionary wars, playing an important role in annihilating the enemy. In future wars, the army's firepower, mobility and assault power will be further improved.

The depth of ground troops' detours will be increased, the speed will be accelerated, and it will be more widely cooperated by aviation, airborne troops and long-distance firepower.

Since the roundabout tactics are very suitable in war, according to the roundabout tactics, our ancestors also created the roundabout tactics.

Rounding plan: Go around in a circle to achieve your goal.

In the world of human relationships, many people are "rhythmia" and "a stubborn". Such people should learn some roundabout techniques and can get the greatest benefits in human relationships by following curves.

Be able to flexibly change the course of doing things. Sometimes it can achieve beyond imagination.

It is very useful to be a roundabout plan without the battlefield. Even in modern society, it is very useful to be a roundabout plan.

For example, how to get along with people who are difficult to get close to or "get close"? This is the best opportunity for you to use roundabout plans.

People who travel far away will naturally find ways to get around the road when there are mountains blocking the road or stumbling on stones. If you use this method to the world, you will be able to achieve your goals in circles. In other words, you will not go straight and curved.

Some words cannot be said bluntly, so they have to be said in a roundabout way; some people are not easy to approach, so they are bound to open roads across mountains and build bridges across water; if they can't figure out what the other party sells in their gourds, they have to throw stones and ask for directions and find out the details; sometimes in order to relieve the other party's hostility and relax their vigilance, we go around and circle, and even use the roundabout tactic of "the king and the left and right" to trap it.

Many people in life are "rectile" and "stubborn". They "bump down the wall and never look back" in dealing with people, and even ten bulls cannot be pulled back.

Such people should learn some roundabout techniques, so that their brains can have more recesses, more curves in their intestines, and more nerves can grow more endings.

In a nutshell: Go around a few circles to ensure that you can get the greatest benefits in relationships.

Those who are difficult to get close to have a strong sense of vigilance, so if you want to get close to them directly and obviously, you will not succeed in the Nine-Level Nine. However, if you use a roundabout way when you get along with them, the result will be different again.

The deception effect of the roundabout plan will reduce their vigilance against you, thereby achieving your goal of getting closer to them.

The roundabout plan is not only very useful when people get along with each other, but also very useful in the official field. There are countless examples of this.

For example, during the Jiaqing period of the Ming Dynasty, the "official officer" Li Yueqing was honest and honest. Once he discovered that the scientific investigation was fraud, he immediately wrote a memorial to the emperor, but the emperor ignored the matter. He reported again, but it made the emperor angry. He deliberately exposed the crime and sent an order to put a seal on Li Le's mouth, and stipulated that no one was allowed to expose it.

He sealed his mouth and could not eat. It was equivalent to convicting him of death. At this time, an official stood up next to him and walked to Li Le, scolding loudly: "You have to say too much, you deserve the crime!" While cursing, he slapped Li Le twice and immediately broke the seal.

Since he helped the emperor scold Li Le, the emperor certainly couldn't blame him.

In fact, this person is Li Le's student. At this critical moment, he "spoken" and cleverly saved his teacher. If he ignores the situation and makes a fuss about his "straight" advice, not only will he not be able to save the teacher, but he will probably be unable to escape the burden.

The use of this method is really clever. Li-Le doesn't understand the principle of "lubrication first" between people, and is still far from his own students.

You should know that our traditional culture pays great attention to circles.

The famous humor master Lin xx summarized that Chinese people (especially scholars) asked for help, just like writing eight-legged essays.

The first paragraph:

Chinese people rarely do things directly like foreigners who "come for something" because they are not elegant. If they are young guests, they seem even more presumptuous. When they meet, they are very particular about making things in their words, and they have the beauty of starting, inheriting, turning and turning like eight-legged essays.

It has not only style but also structure, and can be roughly divided into four paragraphs: the first paragraph is to talk about greetings and evaluate the climate. Such as "respecting surnames", "big name", "long-term reverence", "long-term violation" and "heavenly weather" all belong to this category.

Lin-Yu-tang calls it the content of meteorology. It must play the role of "being at peace and being at peace before being at peace", that is, connecting feelings. These contents do have great commonalities in people's life space and will not be resisted.

Second paragraph:

The second paragraph is about reminiscing about the past and pursuing the old friendship.

This is a deeper level. It is a deeper process to transition from the life space that everyone has to the more special part of each other. Lin Yutang jokingly calls it "historical science".

"Maybe there is your nephew Ling and a classmate, maybe you lived in Nanxiao Street, and he lived in Wuliangdaren Hutong, so the relationship became harmonious. If everyone is from Peking University, they know Zhimo, Shizhi, and even Gu Hongming, Lin Qinnan...then they will be more intimate and long-lasting." If this section is done well, the relationship between the two parties may be really harmonious.

Paragraph 3:

The third paragraph is about talking about current affairs and expressing feelings. This is political science.

"The relationship is harmonious and the momentum is strong", so we can join forces to attack and enter the realm of chatting. The range of lateral and horizontal lines is very wide, "including: if China does not perish, it is a lawless principle, a national policy, a national salvation policy, and a review of the political leaders of the Three Kings of the Gu Yue, the Three Kings of the Grass, Horses and Two Bows and Horses, etc.

There are also statistics on how many years to how many years you have to follow Sun-General. For example, you heard Sun-General-General's speech once in the third year of Xu, and this year is the Republic of China-20-9 years, and it deserves 3-thirteen years in total, which is called following the General-General-33 years."

This period is done well, the relationship is more harmonious, the momentum is strong, and even I regret meeting each other too late, and it is as if I were to have a knife inserted into my arms. At this point, I think it was time to start writing suddenly and talk about the story at the camera.

Paragraph 4:

Therefore, this fourth paragraph is called economics - "small things" entrusted to it.

You stood up politely, picked up your hat, and then turned around and said: I am having a little trouble with serving. Don’t you know someone? Can you write a letter of introduction? This paragraph should be natural and casual, and do not put a lot of pressure on the other party or make the other party feel that you should owe him much. Instead, you should use the previous story to lay the groundwork, suddenly end the writing, and summarize the full text.

Of course, some people may say that the above things are just one-sided words from me. There are not so many "circumcision plans" in modern society. In fact, round-trip plans are indeed very common in modern society. However, there are many times when modern people do not call round-trip plans a round-trip plan, but rather close-knots.

You heard it right, getting close is actually a roundabout plan. If you don’t believe it, you can think carefully about the difference between a roundabout plan and a close plan. Soon you will find that getting close is actually an application of a roundabout plan.

In reality, such examples are actually very common. I don’t mention any very special examples, just talk about roundabout plans, that is, what role does it have when you are in a relationship!

When the person you are looking for is usually a young and strong character, who happens to be "old from above and young from below", so when necessary, in addition to taking the husband-people-road-line, taking the route of the elderly and children, approaching the goal in a roundabout way, and bringing each other closer together is something worth thinking about.

There are actually many reasons for how to do it.

1. The elderly are easily accessible to children.

The elderly are at home due to physical weakness, or retired from work at home due to their age, and have no work to do housework, and have no place to talk. Therefore, they often appear lonely.

If someone takes the initiative to approach the elderly, even if the elderly are temporarily relieved of their loneliness, the elderly will naturally be very happy.

Furthermore, psychology shows that the elderly are gentler, more charitable than middle-aged and young people, and are also easy to get close to, while children are simple, curious and love to move: a Tang poem, a story, a strange face, and a praising can quickly win the closeness of children.

2 Elderly, children like you to get close to you.

Generally speaking, the elderly are knowledgeable and experienced, and have a large number of emotional or rational "experience products" stored in their spiritual warehouses. Whenever they have the opportunity, they are always happy to talk, hoping to influence and move future generations, and can also be regarded as receiving even a little comfort in their thinking in life.

In fact, the elderly keep their home for many years, and there are very few opportunities to impart experience in such rumored stories. Therefore, the elderly’s physiological and psychological manifestations show great harmony and ease.

Especially for young people, they are always happy to take the initiative to greet and have a warm conversation.

As for children, if you treat them sincerely with a childlike heart and bring them novel joy, the children will immediately worship you as a "happy king" or "hero" and get close to you.

In a word, the elderly and children have special physiological and psychological reasons, they like to get close to you.

3 Through the elderly and children, you can get along with the whole family.

The elderly are elders, while the Chinese have traditions of respecting, respecting and filial to the elderly.

If the elderly are happy and happy, the whole family will be active and happy. Chinese people also attach great importance to the inheritance of the family and regard children as the future of the family. This is the case with the grandparents and the fathers.

Moreover, most children in modern families are "single-skinned", and their families are even more pampered and loved by them. If they can play with their children, family harmony will naturally come true.

Of course, if you want to do this, you have to pay attention to some things.

There are several points to pay attention to when taking the route of the elderly and children: 1. Understand and accumulate knowledge about the elderly and young people.

In addition to emotional investigation and observation, we should also make rational accumulations appropriately, such as through newspapers, magazines, TV and movies, accumulate knowledge about fitness, leisure knowledge, children's game knowledge, intellectual stories, etc. in order to "get the best skills and take advantage of the topic."

2 You must take the initiative to get close to each other and make family matters.

Talk is the most direct means of information exchange in communication. When entering a family and meeting the elderly and children, if you want to meet each other, you will have a harmonious atmosphere of "stop meeting". The doormen should take the initiative to bring out the topic and open the conversation, rather than waiting for the family (the elderly and children) to search for topics and barely ask questions and answers.

Because in a short period of time when both parties have just met, it is more likely that the visitors will find suitable topics if they are mentally prepared. Moreover, you will also show respect for the elderly; for children, you will show closeness and eliminate strangeness.

3 Do not underestimate it and treat it with caution.

Be a humble attitude towards the elderly, be kind in nature, and be courteous. On the one hand, this shows your humility and honesty, and on the other hand, it shows your respect and respect for the elderly.

It is not advisable to talk big in a few words, "hang up" the elderly or stomp their own words and deeds, but it can only be treated coldly by the elderly or even chased away.

Children are well-behaved by nature, and are prone to joy and crying. A little discomfort can lead to "storm and rain". Therefore, when interacting with children, you must consider their preferences and grasp the right attitude due to their love.

We must exchange loyalty and childishness for joy. We must not be condescending, pretending to be false and false.

The essential meaning of the question of "circumcision" is to flexibly change the route of doing things. When things are not going well, moving his child's brain and hitting the old man's ideas is an amazing way to gain favorable feelings and establish relationships that cannot be ignored. (To be continued, please search for astronomy, novels are better, updated and faster!
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