Chapter 1600 Laziness(2/2)
Find out the main manifestations and causes of laziness in yourself, make up your mind to overcome the thought of enjoying sleep and cultivate a firm character. Laziness reflects a person's fragile will quality and a mental state of not seeking progress. To overcome laziness, one must "bear" a little responsibility for oneself, do not blame the environment, and blame others
To overcome laziness, you must set a goal and persevere in completing it:
1. The goal should not be set too high at the beginning. It is generally something that can be achieved in the next month. To achieve some easy goals, strengthen confidence, and further determine the difficult points.
Second, the most difficult thing to do is to have a strong will and not compromise with yourself. Lazy people can't stand the temptation, indulge themselves, and can't hold on. I suggest that no matter how cold the weather is, you can keep running every morning without exception, and you can exercise your will.
If a person does not have a tenacious spirit to fight difficulties and has no strong will, he will inevitably find excuses for laziness. He should check himself frequently, urge himself to overcome his own laziness and shakingness, and develop a tenacious character that is not afraid of difficulties and does not bow to difficulties.
We must strictly demand ourselves with thorough self-learning.
Only those who truly understand the value and meaning of life and regard life as a responsibility, a mission, and a creation can truly consciously whip themselves and overcome laziness.
3. In addition, being hardworking means taking the initiative to find meaningful things to do. If you get used to it, you will not be lazy.
Our long-term work and family pressure will cause some people to develop negative thoughts, that is, laziness. We will soon learn that this kind of thought is not always there, but only exists at a certain time or after a certain thing.
Laziness is really a strange thing. It can make you mistakenly think that it is comfort, rest, and blessing; there are various ways to change the lazy lifestyle.
For people who often feel depressed, this lifestyle will directly change the behavior manifested as depression, which can easily eliminate the depression. As long as we persist, the lazy and depressed mood will be wiped out, and all we get is youth and vitality.
But in fact, what it gives you is boredom, fatigue, depression, and depression; it deprives you of hope for your future, cuts off your friendship with others, makes your mind narrower and more suspicious of life.
We may have such experiences in our general study and work life, that is, when we want to do something, but after a long time, we still find that we still haven't done it, or we feel that we have the strength to do it, or we always feel that life is gray and depressed, etc.
Recognize the harm of laziness, check your behavior, and reflect on yourself every night: Are you lazy today? Where did you relax? How should you improve? Make up your mind and firm beliefs to get rid of laziness.
But we must formulate a reasonable and feasible plan, do it step by step, insist on cultivating a decisive attitude, do not hesitate; do not procrastinate, do today's things today; face mistakes and difficulties bravely, do not make excuses for yourself; overcome fear and be willing to try.
Let’s take some time to record yourself behavior and write down what you usually do every day, which includes recording all your life activities. In this way, even if you have rough statistics, you will have dozens of items.
After that, you arrange the remaining dozens of things according to your interests, put the things you dislike the least first, and put the things you like to do the most last.
Finally, you can act within the next week, get up early every morning, start with what you don’t like the most. And insist on doing the first thing, then doing the second thing... so that you can do the last thing you like.
During the whole process, you will start to find it a little difficult. But as long as you spend a little effort and persist, you will be able to proceed smoothly.
Never jump in the middle of the way to make the one you don’t like and then make the plan you like. This method is a way to strengthen the effect. After completing a difficult thing first, then doing a slightly difficult thing is a kind of strengthening the previous action, and then continuing, the effect of strengthening will become greater and greater, until you feel that you have the strength to complete anything love reincarnation.
Many people have heard of the story of boiling frogs. The story is as follows: put a frog in a large pot, add water to it and heat it slowly over low heat. Although the frog can roughly feel the temperature of the outside world slowly change, it jumps out due to inertia and no immediate necessary motivation, and finally boiled in hot water without knowing it.
In this way, self-forgiveness and comfort without principle, one day, all our passions will be exhausted in countless self-deprecations.
Most changes in the competitive environment of enterprises are gradually heating up. If managers and employees do not feel pain in the changes in the environment, the enterprise will eventually be cooked and eliminated like this frog.
Some people say that laziness is an instinct, but what exactly is it?
Laziness is everywhere, it is filled with our study, work, life, love... It is like an invisible killer, quietly killing our enthusiasm for learning at all times. The attitude of work, the connotation of life, the warmth of love...
The dictionary explains laziness like this: the tendency to not want to change life and work habits.
From the perspective of medical psychology, laziness is harmful to physical and mental health. Laziness can reduce middle-aged people's ability to adapt to the external environment and adaptability, and easily lead to premature aging. Laziness can easily cause people to suffer from mental and physical diseases. The adverse psychology caused by laziness will affect endocrine function, and changes in endocrine function will in turn increase people's nervousness, forming a vicious cycle, and contribute to the occurrence and development of psychosocial diseases.
Laziness: Laziness is to escape the helplessness in real life. The most important helplessness is that you cannot hold back the passing of time.
People who cannot dominate themselves often try to fight for nothing.
A person's laziness determines that he always tends to get as much reward as possible with the smallest effort. If he can maintain the status quo, he will not want to take another step forward.
People’s initiative is always so limited. Most things always come to an ultimatum and realize that they are in a hurry. Many things always think of giving up when they are irresistible. In fact, they all know what to do in their hearts, but they are too lazy.
Many things will not leave to do until the last moment.
Don’t forget “lazyness”, this is your biggest natural enemy. This is your most despised weakness.
Laziness tells us. Some are time, some are opportunities, some are energy, we can still learn tomorrow. We can continue to work tomorrow, we can exercise tomorrow, and we can start from scratch tomorrow. Laziness and tomorrow are closely related to tomorrow, just like hope and the future, but is this really the case? Will it take action tomorrow?
Everyone has laziness, and you already know that you are laziness, which proves that you are not far from getting rid of it!
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You have nothing to regret, you must constantly overcome yourself, and your life lies in fulfillment.
Just making up your mind doesn't work. The important thing is to always remind yourself that if you can't overcome laziness, you will achieve nothing and will always be able to live in fantasy. Overcoming laziness is to defeat yourself.
We must have the qualities of meticulousness and perseverance in this world unless you have all the living conditions provided by humans, then you may not need to have such qualities.
You cannot indulge in laziness! The ability of those who achieve success comes from diligence. Even if we do not want to be great people, we should try our best to restrain our laziness in order to survive and to live a better life.
People often say: Life is like a song, full of wonderful melody; life is like a painting, painted with colorful colors. But this song needs to be composed by yourself, and this painting needs to be depicted by you. Otherwise, you will not be able to hear the wonderful melody, and you will not be able to see colorful colors.
"Life is short. There is not much time to allow us to waste!" Xi-Zhe said: "Live as if we are going to die tomorrow."
Grab the present and start to do it now!
The reason why people survive is because we will eventually become immortal meaning. We always look for lost smiles in the long and lonely world. We walk through vicissitudes, through waves, through peace, through joy, but no matter what, we will always bow to the passing years, every inch of the heart's confession, and every breathing mottled.
I curled up for a spring and summer. I seemed to have put away my energy for half my life, just to look forward to the birth of a miracle. I lie dormant in the snail house every day, swimming in the corners under the eaves, and I get up and fly my fingers in the morning to do it for survival; the stretching on the yoga mat in the night was only for the emergence of the times; the rising and falling of cups on the tea table was only for the purification of the soul.
Every life and every story will have a different ending. The tea that sinks to the bottom of the cup is so calm, and the leaves floating at the mouth of the cup are so calm; the same is true for everyone's survival. When they reach the peak, they remain calm, and when they return to the true nature of life, they are still so calm. Because everyone will work together to outline a lantern on their own. They once looked for a wandering figure in the familiar smell, spread out a poem that is appreciated by both the elegant and the masses, and stayed in the distant dream, drifting with the waves, and being at peace with the circumstances.
However, human beings, as the spirit of all things, have many bad habits, such as self-righteousness, ambition, selfishness, vanity, snobbery, fighting, slavery, laziness, etc. Laziness is the most common bad habit that is attached to human beings and is also the most terrifying enemy lurking in human nature.
For a long time, this inertia is hidden in one's own bones. It is so impeccable that one must go out every day except for the needs of food, clothing, housing and transportation. As long as you have a helplessness, you are unwilling to move out of your home. Most of the time, you are staying in bed reading books, cardboard, electronic versions, and browsing various media information provided by the mobile Internet. When you are tired, you lean on the bed, either watching the blue sky and white clouds, the fluctuations of the ups and downs, or enjoying the sunset and the sunset, which really corresponds to the description written by Mr. Lu Xun: Hiding in a small building and becoming a united state, regardless of spring, summer, autumn and winter.
When a person is controlled by laziness, he often delays his work, cannot do what he says, and will do what he does; or give up halfway, lacks perseverance and perseverance; or is content with the status quo and does not want to make progress; or talks loudly, and fantasies are greater than actions; or he is in a negative way to live a life, and he is worried about it tomorrow. In the end, he loses a clear life goal, loses the right direction, and loses the most basic motivation for upward progress in life. And those once beautiful plans, great ideals, and lofty ambitions are also shattered under the erosion of bad habits.
A bamboo pole, a boat return boat, the ferry crossing of life, the dead leaves dance and the green grass is connected to the sky, and then I understand what life should cherish and forget, just like a touch of red clouds, setting off the ignorance that disappeared in my eyes.
Some people say: "We run in the palm of time, die in a young age, but we sing with chains, like waves." When one day, the world is no longer rotating and loses the direction of life, we realize that the tenderness of the past is just a wishful way of passing by, and even forget where to start, half a cup of tea, the fine brushwork of mountains and rivers are no longer gorgeous ink paintings like songs.
Laziness is harmful to people, and being subject to laziness is tantamount to chronic suicide.
The terrible thing about laziness is that it is a corrosive agent for the human spirit. Laziness is always covered with a warm veil, making you indulge in a state of freedom and slowness and unable to extricate yourself. It slowly consumes your willpower, combat power, and your confidence, determination and courage to move forward. It is a strong spiritual corrosive agent.
In a lazy state of mind, people are like boiling a frog in warm water. At first, they feel comfortable and comfortable. When they find danger for a long time, they want to get rid of this situation, but they are powerless to struggle and unable to escape. They slowly consume precious time, and eventually they achieve nothing and waste their lives.
Inertia exists invisible and fatal to invisible. It can kill a person's hands-on and brain-based ability, kill a person's best creativity and innovative spirit, and turn a person with potential and capable into a mediocre or even degenerate person.
Moreover, it is also an invisible killer of human health. Life lies in exercise. People who are greedy for comfort and do not want to exercise for a long time will naturally cause the human body's functions to deteriorate and physical fitness to decline over time. At the same time, people's brain functions are also used to advance and withdraw. If they are in a state of negative and slack for a long time, they will also cause dull thinking and deterioration of thinking ability; make people aging before they grow old. Anyone with strong laziness is often prone to negative emotions, depression, depression, resentment and other bad emotions always surround themselves. In the long run, they will lead to diseases taking advantage of the situation.
Since the harm of laziness is so great and people cannot escape the influence and constraints of laziness, the primary task is to restrain and conquer laziness and minimize the harm of laziness to itself. You must learn to be the master of destiny, not the slave of laziness.
Of course, to restrain and conquer laziness, it is impossible to achieve it overnight. It is necessary to make some hard work. First, we must establish a correct outlook on life. We must have a clear life goal; we must create a healthy lifestyle, cultivate our spirit of hard work and perseverance, and be indomitable and persevering; we must face life with a positive, enterprising, optimistic and upward attitude, high fighting spirit, strong beliefs, and a hard-working and down-to-earth attitude. Secondly, we must pay attention to and strengthen physical exercise. Only with a healthy body and strong energy can we better meet the challenges of life; we can make ourselves more energetic, broader vision, and more open-minded.
As long as you firmly believe and fight against laziness, you can be confident and courageous in the face of failure and setbacks. You can forge ahead with an indomitable spirit; you can be unpride and impatient in the face of success and glory, and face it calmly with a peaceful attitude. You can climb the top with greater enthusiasm; you will not lose yourself in a comfortable and elegant environment, and you can always motivate, spur and improve yourself; under difficult and difficult conditions, you will not be discouraged or give up, move forward bravely, and go against the trend.
The green mountains remain unchanged, the rain falls ruthlessly, the high geese flew away, taking away the colorful summer and bringing the colorful autumn. In such a rich artistic conception, play a clear song and sending away the quiet dance and singing at the alley. Seeing the passing of time, it can no longer retain the passing of youth. The carvings of the fields can no longer smooth out the wrinkles at the corners of the eyes and eyebrows; although they are not bloated, they can no longer find the grace of the girl.
In this world where yin and yang are mixed, there is no darkness, there is no light, and there is no turning point without laziness. When trying to make choices and filter the nothingness of life, it means losing half of the hazy beauty reflected by the darkness.
At this moment, when the lights are on, the lights of thousands of houses are flashing among the buildings. I am just like the ghost walking between the yin and yang of heaven and earth. Under the dim street lights, only the figures follow each other. In the quiet night sky, you can even hear the footsteps of your walking. Everything seems to be copied by writing, the cold moon is clear and bright, and the thin shadow is touching the plain strings. The song is always high and low.
The beating notes cut through the fate on the fingertips. On the strings covered with scars, they played the dust in and out of the dreams, interpreting the wandering in the world of the world. Just like meditation without saying anything, I have passed the fragrance of time, sketched the thoughts like lotus, and reincarnation in the scroll of time, half of the green lamp and half sigh, without pious worship, nor the touch of burning incense, but only the accompanying sounds of the morning bells and evening drums that have been spread far away.
There are so many hesitations and so many sadness. Looking back at the past, the scenery along the way is firmly engraved in the deep and bitter heart with pale and powerless words, graffitiing my half-dream and half-awake years; inadvertently, I still have the pain of memories. I have always liked to immerse myself in my own stories. I know that once I am selected by the story, I am no longer qualified to be ignorant. I quietly walk in the corridor of time. The expired embrace has not had time to rehearse, but I have been put on the shallows of memory, watching those gradually drifting years, letting the waves roar, but I don’t realize it.
Looking at the sky, the stars are everywhere, the face of the seasons is still the same, but those yesterdays that have been bounced down are lingering in the corners of time forgotten, the tenderness awakened in the heart, counting the clouds and smoke of the past, and there is no shortage of elegance. The thoughts flowing on the tip of the pen bring the fragrance of the past, and also look through the smile like flowers. When I picked up the pen and wrote, I accidentally entered the depths of my memory, and I went around in circles, but I could not see the end. The joy in the dreams, the songs were sobbing for the spring, the fragrance of the years were slightly drunk, and the songs were sang with a long cry of hatred, and the resentment was deep, and I could not change my years.
Falling away from prosperity and waiting on the edge of the world, but still cannot escape the obsession of the world. Life is like a dream, and fireworks that bloom like a different world are so dazzling. Even in a moment, although you can see from a distance, you cannot see from a close distance. Isn’t the temporary contamination of youth a flash of time? Time has changed several times, but when you look back, there are still rusts. The memories that awaken in the depths of the dust cannot subvert the sadness and longevity of the years.
The long song ends, without lingering in the dream yesterday, drifting waves appear again, chanting a Sanskrit song, and the melody is free under the green lamp. The heart is originally happy, but if you are trapped in the care, it will hurt in the end; the eyes are aesthetic, but they will be entangled in the ugly, and they will be judged in the ugly. Therefore, people not only live smart, but also wisdom.
If the person who explains clearly is in the water, the person who wakes up is on the shore; the person who knows everything he wants, and the person who wakes up knows what he wants; people may not be clear, but they must not be awake. Let your heart slowly appreciate the road, rather than struggling on the road. Live for a while, not come or live for nothing, not in vain. At least you must live like yourself.
Smalz said: "The progress of a country lies in people's diligence, hard work, and upwardness, while the decline of a country is due to people's laziness, selfishness, and depravity." This is even more true for individuals. As long as we restrain and conquer laziness, be diligent, hard work, and upward, release our own super positive energy, we believe that we can do nothing and do everything, become the master of our own destiny, and reach the highest level of being a human being. (To be continued)
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