After taking a sip of the wine, Sister Cai picked up the mixed wine pot and poured me the wine.

I took it over and helped her backwards, thinking about how to turn the topic around just now: "Where is a woman who is poor and unsophisticated like me who is not rich or capable, who will follow me."

Sister Cai asked with a smile: "I can't tell, you are not a confident little boy."

I said hehe, "I am confident, but I have no money and ability. This is reality. As you said just now, if you don't work hard or work hard, how can you know whether you will succeed in the future? Of course, I also want to work hard, so I don't know where to start and what projects to do."

Sister Cai said: "Let you listen to my story and encourage you."

Fortunately, I was able to wrap her in again and let her talk about her history.

I said, "Maybe everyone is different."

I'm still pretending, pretending not to listen.

Sister Cai smiled and said, "My hometown is very poor. In a remote rural area, the road from the town to our village is a mud road. You have to climb two mountains and pass through cliffs. In the village, if you are sick, if you are not dying, you will usually endure the pain and wait for your illness to recover. Many villagers endure the death like this. From childhood to childhood pain, they will endure it until they are serious, and they will die. Children who are studying go to the town to elementary school on Monday morning and come back on weekends. This is how I went to school when I was a child. Many people went out to work but never went back. My parents are weak and have to take care of their grandparents at home. They can't go out to work. They keep the fields all year round, raise pigs, cows, chickens and ducks, and only eat meat three or five times during the Chinese New Year and the holidays."

I was shocked. Is there so many people in this world who are worse than my childhood?

Sister Cai smiled sadly and said, "I remember now that I didn't know how I could grow up before. Every day, corn porridge, a little vegetables, a little salt, no MSG, no new clothes, no shoes, I drag a pair of blue slippers all year round, and when it's rotten, it's supplemented. It's not like it. I remember that I had two fevers. Those two times I remembered deeply, but I almost died. My parents went to the mountain to boil the earthen herbs and drank it. After drinking it, the disease became worse. I almost died twice, and I almost burned my brain. Another time, I accidentally fell from the edge of a slippery cliff when I was in school. It was as lucky that the five heroes of Langya Mountain were stuck by trees on the cliff.

Luck, I was hung on the treetops and seriously injured. The villagers tied ropes and fished me down and pulled me back. I could only walk after three months. I was ignorant, and I felt like this in my life. Like the people of my ancestors for generations, I felt that I would grow up, graduate, and raise pigs and cattle farming. When I was a child, I did this. Every day when I didn’t go to school, I fed pigs and herd cattle farming. I didn’t finish junior high school because my family could no longer pay me a semester of tuition for two hundred yuan. My parents took me to a relative’s house and gave me two baskets of eggs, which were the eggs we had to eat during the Chinese New Year. I asked the distant cousin of my relative’s house to take me out of the provincial capital to work."

Sister Cai took a sip of wine and continued, "I arrived at the provincial capital, that is, here. I was arranged to go to a black dyeing workshop to color the dyeing cloth every day, but I think I am very happy. Compared to the life of feeding pigs, herding cattle, raising chickens and farming, it was too easy and relaxing. In the late 1990s, I could earn 300 a month. This money was a huge sum of money for me at that time. I paid 200 yuan to my family every month and kept 100 yuan by myself. The family was proud of me. I saw the outside world.

Huahua World, I know what brand is, what brand is good-looking shoes, and what brand is clothes. I thought about buying a pair of shoes. Fuhua Mall discounts Adidas shoes for 959 yuan, a pair of shoes that look very stable and will never rot. I remember clearly. I work hard every day, get up early and go to bed late, and the more I do, the more money I make. Half a year later, I went to buy those shoes. I also became the most hardworking child in the entire black dye shop.

The board likes me very much and gives me money. I don’t want it. He thinks he is good to me. The boss asked me to manage more than a dozen people and adds my salary. I no longer need to work in person every day. I just need to supervise them. But I still help them every day. My sisters and aunts like me very much. From then on, I understood this principle: if you want something, you have to work hard to achieve it yourself and want others to listen to you. First of all, you have to lead the way, especially management, to convince others, to be self-disciplined, be generous and trustworthy, and have gains. Later, I used my spare time to read Zeng Guofan and understood the principle here. If you want others to be your brother and foot to listen to you, you must first become someone else’s confidant, love soldiers like your sons, and when they are sick, you must take them to treat them. If they have something at home, you must worry about them as your family matters. They are willing to work hard for you."

"After that, the boss had no time to take over a brick factory, so he transferred the black dye shop to me. At that time, I didn't have that much money. The sisters of the dye shop together, and helped me to lend me money and let me take over. They said I was okay and were willing to follow me wholeheartedly. The black dye shop business was pretty good, and the boss introduced several sales methods. But unexpectedly, one day after two months was blocked. I was so anxious that I could not cry. I owed so much money to my sisters. I cried and said I would pay it back slowly. The sisters said I didn't need to pay it back. I felt that the sky was falling, and I owe so much, so why did I pay it back? I just lived on this dye shop. What can I do without it? I was seventeen years old at that time. After the dye shop was blocked, I lived in it. After the dye shop was blocked, I lived there.

The place was gone, and the sisters all looked for new jobs, and some asked me to go with me. I followed one of my sisters to do cleaning work in a small hotel, just because there were food and accommodation. I went there. After working for more than two years, I got up early and worked late every day, and I did more work than anyone else. Several aunts and sisters in the hotel were also very nice to me. Seeing that I was thin, I tried to take care of me as much as possible for food and other things. Over the past year, I slowly paid off the money I owed to my sisters. After hearing what I had done in the past two years, my hotel owner gave me 30% of the shares and let me manage the hotel fully. He went to open another larger hotel. Just look at it from time to time."

Speaking of this, Sister Cai's eyes slowly emitted light and her lips moved. I felt that she had a different relationship with this boss.

I didn't ask, and waited for her to continue talking.

Sister Cai continued: "One day, after I finished my work, I was eating leftovers downstairs in the hotel alone. The boss brought me two boxed lunches and told me not to eat leftovers anymore. It was unhealthy and too thin. I looked at him and tears came down. The boss was not old. When he opened that small hotel, he was still a graduate student. He was a very capable man. Until now, I have admitted him very much. I fell in love with him. He did not dislike me as a poor working girl and got along with me.

.I thought I was so happy with him until he was old. We opened a few more hotels, then bought a house, a car, and got married and had children. Later, a year later, his parents learned about his relationship with me, and firmly opposed it. After accepting his hotel, I realized that his hotel was invested by his father and this small hotel. What made me most painful was that he had fallen in love with another woman at that time, and the woman was also a research institute and had a common language with her. He told me, I was very beautiful, capable and young, but he needed to have one with him.

Only a woman with a common language can live a good life. For me, all this is an excuse. He left me and I could never find him again. I went to their school, found his household registration, found his home, and had moved out without a trace. During that time, I had the desire to die. Fortunately, I survived it and he was a little conscientious. I left that small hotel for me. I started working hard from that small hotel, and then took over the one that was about to close down next door, renovated the two companies to merge to build a convenient hotel, and then started

I have been doing it smoothly until now. I passed my spare time and took the certificate I wanted, and I also signed up for the lady class. I am no longer a poor rural girl who has not graduated from junior high school. I have transformed into an elegant woman who is educated, rich and can dress up, and I have many people in charge. I have seen him on TV, and the famous xx3 Pharmaceutical Factory is his. I can no longer appreciate this person. I only understand that people can only rely on themselves, and rely on themselves to change everything. If they want, they must work hard to win."

She finished speaking and looked at me.

I said, "It's amazing and wonderful. If it's someone else, I'm afraid I can't do it. However, thank you for sharing the story, I will work hard."

Although I don’t know which ones she said are true and which ones are false, I remember a few points.

She was born in poverty and she worked hard to make money because she was afraid of poverty and the hard days she was like when she was a child. What she admired was a person with a tough personality like her. What she needed? Based on her previous understanding, after her boyfriend ran away, what she might want most was a man who could give her a sense of security. Just like I once said to her, I seemed to say that men should not let women suffer. She had some abnormal reactions at that time, and she might have been looking for a harbor she could rely on.

If I can do it, then, as Liu Zhihui said, if I give her what she longs for, I can control her.

Sister Cai kept changing men, which meant that she was looking forward to the man she wanted to appear, but she was always disappointed with the man she appeared.
Chapter completed!