But in a strange city, they have nothing to do. If they want to compete with their opponents, they need to stand on tiptoe to compete. If they are the dirtiest and tiring, it will be much harder than the locals. But even so, the high housing prices make them unbearable. If they can't afford to buy a house, they will not be able to settle down in the city and build a business. Everything can only be a waste.

Young people who returned to the countryside were unable to be impressed by this dilapidated countryside and had seen the prosperity of the city. They knew that they could not build this place into such a city no matter what, because the difference was too big. The backwardness of the countryside was all-round, not only the business model, but also the openness of society, but the difference was more than ten years.

Anyone can do something in ten years, but what can their ten years thrown into backward villages change? It’s nothing more than just being able to make up the waves.

The backwardness and powerlessness of the countryside, and their own ideas are incompatible with the old ideas of the elderly. There is no suitable job here, so they can only go to work in a distant town. In the eyes of the elderly in the countryside, they are just a group of unmotivated people, don’t like to go to factories, and they are not interested in doing farm work.

Fang Tianxing visited the streets here and found that many people were like this. Young people often work in distant towns or cities, and they don’t care much about the affairs in the village. However, Fang Tianxing’s arrival also brought them a lot of feelings. It turned out that the countryside also had hope, not a place without light, but occasionally a spark would shine.

Young people don’t like to believe in the heavy work of the past. They don’t like the hard life of the past. In the past, they always talked about hard work, but whether to struggle or not is personal freedom. Why should we add hardship? The hardship was because of the lack of material conditions in the past, and the current situation was completely different from the past. The hard work and hard work seem a bit out of place today.

The elderly still live the way they used to, but young people always want to live like city people, pursuing more self-centeredness, and there is a big gap between the two.

Fang Tianxing helped Lao Huang get rid of poverty, and was supported by the people here. Everyone was very enthusiastic about Fang Tianxing. Someone always invited Fang Tianxing to have dinner every few days, and so did Fang Tianxing.

He accepted it happily, but soon he discovered the conflict between the elderly and young people in the village. Some young people were unwilling to support the elderly and ignored the elderly. Some elderly people had a deep conflict with their families and were difficult to resolve.

Fang Tianxing learned a lot about their situation. Many young people went back to their hometown no more than ten times a year, and met no more than five times. They met during the Chinese New Year and the holidays. They just listened to them nagging Zhang’s parents and Li’s family’s shortcomings and refreshing their own views. During the Chinese New Year this year, Zhang San’s grandmother told him who divorced in the village. Well, Zhang San’s cousin and cousin did not find a partner. She was sad, and Zhang San’s cousin’s new progress in divorce…

Zhang San also knew that the old man had to listen to what he said and followed her words. Just do this when you get old. You stayed in the village all year round, and there were fewer old men around you every year, and you couldn't see your grandchildren a few times in the end.

Zhang San can accept whatever the old man said. It is difficult for Zhang San to adjust his mentality to middle-aged people in rural areas. He plays mahjong and brags every day. Zhang Sanzhen can't say anything more to them.

Because of this change, the upper and lower generations, especially the upper and lower generations in rural areas, have huge differences in talent and cognition that cannot be compensated. This is what many people say is that there is a problem with the communication between the two generations. This is one result that the change is not a reason. Another result is that the younger generation can only stay in the economically developed areas suitable for the performance of their learning. Some of them grow up from the elders and live in this life, which leads to the elderly staying alone in an empty nest.

The elderly are mentally empty and lonely. You can often hear others say that the elderly are like children. This is because the elderly need more care and love. Those empty-nest elderly people lose their spouses and have no spiritual support alone, so they are very empty and lonely.

Especially for elderly people with deep feelings between husband and wife, if one of them dies first, those who stay will easily be overly sad and lead to mental confusion.

There is an old lady next door to the Huang family. She is very dependent on her husband in front of her and has a good relationship. Since her husband passed away, her spirit has suddenly become depressed and she fell into a state of confusion. After a year, she even couldn't take care of herself and her physiological functions dropped sharply.

There are also diseases that make life snow

To make matters worse, there are many elderly empty-nest elderly people in rural areas who are seriously ill and bedridden due to some physical and mental reasons, and need to be served all day long.

But even if their children are very filial, they have their own farm work or work to complete, and they cannot always guarantee that they are with the elderly.

Fang Tianxing found that many children who settled outside were unwilling to have a conversation with the elderly, including men and women. Fang Tian found their contact information.

Want to know about them.

They told Fang Tianxing that it was a helpless reality that they could not be with their parents. They could not live with the elderly. This was no longer a question of whether they could or not, but a question of whether they could. They were unwilling to leave the countryside, and they were unable to buy a house outside and could not settle them. When they went home, they didn't know what they could do to make a living.

The generation gap between the two generations is so big that they don’t want to talk to them at all. When parents are old, they want to train people or ask about their well-being. The theme of almost every sentence is heard from a young age. Their knowledge and insight are very limited. They cannot even give you a convincing guidance in how to deal with people.

When you are upset, they don’t understand why you are upset. You have food, clothing and a place to sleep. What are you worried about? They can’t understand at all. They gradually become unwilling to communicate with them.

One of them was named Ren Yiling. Ren Yiling's mother was unwilling to live with her and Ren Yiling's brother-in-law. She said that they always criticized themselves. In fact, they said conscience that Ren Yiling had tried her best to endure it. For example, when his mother went to Shanghai to live with Ren Yiling, Ren Yiling cooked after get off work every day, but did not let her eat leftovers. After a few times, my mother said dissatisfiedly, "You are my child, why should I listen to you in turn?"

Later, Ren Yiling asked her mother to go home. The dishwasher that Ren Yiling bought for her home was used as a cupboard for two years. Ren Yiling secretly asked her brother, has the dishwasher been turned on after she left? Ren Yiling's younger brother sighed and said to her that she had never turned on it. Her mother felt that it would take two hours to wash it once, so it would be better to wash it with her hands.

I have bought the microwave oven at home for three years, but I haven’t used it. Ren Yiling’s mother said that the microwave oven has radiation, so I don’t need it.
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