Chapter 1307 Attitude
"Attitude?" Hu Yufen looked at her with a look of surprise.
“Yes, attitude.
To be honest, you are not yet sure at your age.
No one can guarantee that you are now in love with Yang Yiming and want to live with him.
But when encountering difficulties or mountain that cannot be climbed, I suddenly retreated.
Just like Yang Yiming's mother, the relationship between the two must have been good back then, otherwise they would not have given birth to two children, but after the Yang family had an accident.
Her mother divorced directly, and even repeatedly criticized Yang Yiming. If he hadn't run fast, he would have lost his life." Luo Huimin said this and continued: "No one can get better for a thousand days, and no one can guarantee that that day will come to that point.
Therefore, the most important thing for husband and wife is mutual support, and they can share wealth and hardships.
Of course, what I said may be a bit too much, or a bit confusing, but there is only one meaning. What the Yang family wants in the end is your attitude.
Of course, the more you learn within this year, the better, at least you won’t be too tired after getting married.”
Inside the room, Hu Mingxuan looked at Zhao Jianguodao with resentment after hearing this: "Uncle, do you think women are so tired? What do you want men to do?"
After hearing this, Zhao Jianguo smiled and said, "You should also know that when I was young, I spent time with my parents in a wealthy family in the capital.
Although I can't remember clearly about what happened back then, I remember one thing very carefully.
That is, the male host is often not at home, and the hostess is responsible for the family, including the management of servants and the visits of people.
Do you think that if Yufen is doing these things now, she can do it?"
Hu Mingxuan was silent after hearing this. He was a brother-in-law. He would blush when he saw a stranger. He asked her to deal with those people. Isn't that asking for trouble?
"There is another word called 'Madam Diplomacy'. I don't know if you have heard of it."
"It seems that someone has heard of 'Madam Diplomacy', but I don't understand the specific meaning."
"For example, do you think it's very simple to chat, drink tea, or even play cards together?" Zhao Jianguo said this with a righteous expression: "But can you do it and find out the news you need without revealing your bottom line?
This is daily diplomacy. It is really at the top, and this situation is commonplace.
So sometimes it may bring disaster to a family because of a word."
He paused and said, "I have heard of Chen Shimei. There is another saying, "Everyone is a dog slaughterer, but most of the unfaithful ones are scholars."
In fact, these words are mostly said from the perspective of their abandoned wife.
But from his own perspective, although it is wrong for them to abandon their wives and children, not everyone is as ruthless as Chen Shimei.
You can think about how it feels to bring an ignorant woman to a state banquet.
This also interprets another word, Qi Dafei.
This is what Xiao Min means. If Yufen wants to truly marry Yang Yiming and spend his whole life with him, she must continue to grow up during his growth process. At least she must catch up with his pace and not be left too far.
It's like climbing a mountain.
The couple climbed the mountain at the same time, one of them was slow and even stood still.
And the other one climbed upwards and finally climbed to the top of the mountain and saw a more beautiful scenery. When looking back, the one was still standing still.
If it were you, how would you feel?"
Chapter completed!