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002, the wealth of life

After class, Ding Qi walked out of the west gate and went to the Affiliated Hospital of Jinghu University to have a mental health heart. At 4:20 this afternoon, a person seeking help had made an appointment for psychological counseling. Thinking of the somewhat paranoid and difficult person seeking help, Ding Qi couldn't help but smile bitterly. He immediately realized that his mentality was wrong, adjusted his breathing and made some self-adjustment.

A qualified psychological counselor should have professional psychological qualities and have sufficient patience and sincere attitude to accept the helper. If he has an exclusion mentality, how can he avoid the helper from having impedance emotions during the consultation process?

Just then, a nice female voice was heard behind her, "Teacher Xiao Ding, such a coincidence! Where are you going?" She turned her head and saw that it was Meng Huiyu who had just answered the question in class.

Outside the west gate of the school, there are also many food stalls, and several express hotels that mainly operate hourly rooms. Many students come here after class. But seeing Meng Huiyu's appearance, it was obviously not a coincidence that she met. Although she had slowed down at this moment, her breathing was still a little rapid. Her face showed signs of rising body temperature. She had not trotted all the way just now, and she had also quickly chased after her for a while.

Although Ding Qi saw it, he didn't think of it. He replied with a smile: "What a coincidence, are you coming out to pick up the express? I'm going to be mentally healthy and there is another appointment in the afternoon."

Meng Huiyu: "Teacher Xiao Ding's class is so good. The girls in our dormitory love to listen to it! And... how tall are you?"

This question is too abrupt, and the preface and after words lack logical connections, and they are not connected at all, but it cannot be said that her thinking is scattered or a diagnosis of "breaking thinking". It can only mean that she pretends to be calm on the surface, but in fact she is very nervous. She is asking a topic that is very interesting and blurted out inadvertently.

Ding Qi replied slowly, "It's not too tall, it's only 1.78 meters."

"I am already a very standard handsome man." Meng Huiyu tried to adjust her pace as much as possible, walked side by side with Ding Qi, and said shyly: "There are several girls in our dormitory who are very interested in you. I want to know if you have a girlfriend!"

Ding Qi smiled: "Of course there is, she is a first-year master's degree at Peking University, and we plan to get married next year." In fact, he just needs to answer "yes", but he said a few more words.

Meng Huiyu was hiding something, and her smile was a little unnatural: "Oh, then congratulations to Teacher Xiao Ding!... You are still working as a psychiatrist in the school hospital, you are so talented!"

Ding Qi: "To be precise, it is a psychological counselor. Our relationship with the consultant is the relationship between the person seeking help and the person being asked for help, not the relationship between the doctor and the patient." This is what he often says in his daily work.

Meng Huiyu seemed to tentatively said: "I have many troubles in my daily life, and I have many problems that I can't figure out and need to find someone to teach me. Can I also register and make an appointment and consult Mr. Xiao Ding?"

Ding Qi said in a gentle tone and tried his best to do professionalism: "Actually, you need to do psychological counseling. I am not a suitable counselor, because I am already your teacher. Psychological counseling avoids dual identities, and the counselor should be someone who has no other relationship with you."

Meng Huiyu covered her mouth and smiled: "I'm just kidding with Teacher Xiao Ding. You charge 600 yuan at a time. Students like me can't afford it."

Ding Qi also smiled: "The school also has psychological counseling teachers, and psychological counseling and adjustment for students is almost free."

Meng Huiyu: "But Teacher Xiao Ding, why aren't you?"

Ding Qi changed the topic and said in a lecture tone: "Psychological counseling is not comforting and enlightenment, nor educational guidance, but applying psychological technology to help those seeking help solve psychological problems.

A normal person who is mentally and physically healthy, as long as he has a correct understanding and response to reality, has a reasonable ability to adapt and transform the environment, has a stable and healthy personality, he can usually self-regulate when encountering problems. This is also a normal ability of a person. Otherwise, wouldn’t the world be in chaos long ago?”

It is very common for people to have psychological problems, and they may not necessarily need psychological counseling. On the other hand, everyone has confusion and conflict in their hearts, but this does not mean that there are psychological problems. People are usually able to self-regulate and adjust, right?

Meng Huiyu lowered her head slightly and said, "That's right. In fact, most things are all about adjusting their mentality by themselves. Teacher Xiao Ding charges 600 yuan at a time. If you have anything like me who can adjust your mentality by yourself, how much money will you save?"

Ding Qi also smiled: "That saves a lot! Healthy physiology and psychology are actually a person's greatest wealth. This sentence has always been good... The express delivery is here, so you can pick up the express delivery."

Of course, Meng Huiyu was not here to pick up the express delivery, but at this moment he had to stop and waved with a cute and cute look: "Goodbye Teacher Ding!" He looked at Ding Qi's figure walking away with a smile, but deep in his eyes he said that it was not disappointment or other emotions.

Ding Qi, who had already walked away, certainly knew that this sophomore girl had a good impression of him or liked him. This situation itself is normal, but since she realized it, she would not encourage this emotion, and she should try to avoid giving the other party ambiguous hints.

In fact, a clue can be seen from the other party’s private occasions, which is a subconscious and deliberately emphasized that the age gap between the two parties is not big, and it should usually be called Teacher Ding.

Ding Qi is now under 26 years old. He is not only a doctorate, a university lecturer, psychological counselor, but also a psychiatrist. His professional direction when he was studying for a master's degree was mental health, and his supervisor was also Liu Feng.

Strictly speaking, psychological counselors and psychiatrists are two different professions, but there are overlaps in professional fields. However, in actual practice, identities are inevitably overlapping. Many psychological counselors are psychiatrists, or like Ding Qi, who are still psychiatrists.

Ding Qi's third-year undergraduate clinical internship started with the psychiatric department of the school's affiliated hospital. When he graduated from undergraduate, the hospital established a mental health heart based on the original psychiatric department. His career direction he chose was a psychological counselor, and his mentor Liu Feng also supported this decision.

The reason why the medical institution that was independent from the school hospital department was not called "mental treatment of the heart" but "mental healthy heart" was that it did not want people to have bad associations such as "neurotic" or "psychotic illness". Although "heart" also treats neurotic patients and patients with mental traits, the new direction of business development is psychological treatment and psychological counseling, mainly facing normal people.

This sounds like a very "fashionable" or "fashionable" profession, which is more in line with the needs of contemporary society. The psychological counselors serve more psychiatrists, and their social image and impressions are much better. As for the current income, it is hard to say.

Although Ding Qi holds three positions, he only gets one salary, which is also the salary of a lecturer at Jinghu University. His personnel and labor relations are also at Jinghu University. As for the doctors and psychoanalysts at the school's affiliated hospitals, he only gets a performance bonus, which usually comes with some every month, and there is another payment at the end of the year.

This is not only Ding Qi alone, but his colleagues around him are almost the same as those of the faculty and staff of Jinghu University.

More than three years ago, when Ding Qi just graduated from undergraduate studies and stayed at school as an assistant teacher, he had already obtained the qualification of a third-level consultant and also worked as an assistant physician in the psychiatric department of the school hospital. I remember that after deducting seven or eight or eight expenses every month, he got 2,000 yuan.

Don’t think that the treatment is not good. Some people are willing to exchange positions with Ding Qi. The undergraduate students at that time envied him because it had many invisible benefits. Relying on the platform of Jinghu University, within the unique system of colleges and universities, they have advantages that are difficult for off-campus units to obtain on-the-job academic qualifications, various professional titles and qualifications assessments, conduct research, and produce results.

At that time, he had just met his girlfriend Jia Jia, who was still in the second grade of undergraduate degree. The two of them had dinner, shopping, shopping, and going out to play. Of course, Ding Qi paid the bill, almost the moonlight clan. Fortunately, the school gave Ding Qi a dormitory, which could usually be eaten in the teaching staff cafeteria, but he didn't have much expenses.

Ding Qi took two and a half years to get his master's degree, and then continued to pursue a working doctorate, with his supervisor still Liu Feng. About three months ago, Ding Qi was promoted from teaching assistant to lecturer, and about two months ago, Ding Qi obtained the qualification of a second-level psychological counselor.

When he first started his career three years ago, Ding Qi's consultation fee was 300 per time, which was almost equivalent to the charge for a fitness coach for each private lesson. His job was to help others maintain mental health. Two months ago, his charge had just increased to 600 per time. Meng Huiyu actually understood so clearly that he must have checked his situation on the mental health site.

Some people will definitely think that the income of psychological counselors mainly comes from the commission for consultation fees, and many psychological counseling institutions do calculate this way. However, the performance bonus of mental health and mind at the school's affiliated hospitals does not seem to be calculated entirely based on the commission for consultation fees. Ding Qi has never figured out how it was paid, and there is no need to ask about it.

Now, he has earned 6,000 yuan a month for university lecturers and performance bonuses for mental health, which is not counted as the year-end bonus. Although there are not many in Jinghu City, a second-tier and first-tier city in the province, it is not too many for Ding Qi. What is important is that the trend has been growing steadily.

Just after three years of undergraduate graduation, Ding Qi's life journey can be said to be one step at a time. Whether it is life or career planning, his future is bright and his future is full of brightness. It also seems to be running in an ideal state that had been planned long ago, like the gears and racks of the watch. Of course, all this is related to the appreciation and support of his mentor Liu Feng, and his girlfriend Jia Jia is the daughter of his mentor Liu Feng.

On the other hand, Ding Qi also believes that this is the reason why he is excellent and hardworking. He still needs to continue to work hard to make every success in his life step at the precise point. Since last year, Ding Qi has been consciously saving money, which is enough to make enough money for life, and he also needs to prepare for the future.

He had already obtained a driver's license when he was in his undergraduate degree, but he had not bought a car yet because it was not necessary for the time being, but sooner or later, it was necessary, and more importantly, he bought a house. With his current income, it may be difficult to buy a decent house near Jinghu University. However, Ding Qi believed that he could do it in a few years and did not need to ask anyone for help.

This is a kind of confidence. People's judgment of economic conditions and living standards cannot only focus on current income, but also include reasonable growth expectations for the future. Professor Liu Feng's daughter Jia Jia certainly does not lack houses, but Ding Qi plans to buy one by himself, which may require part of the mortgage loan, which is best done in two years when Jia Jia graduates with a master's degree.
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