Furthermore, because I am too familiar with each other, no one is embarrassed to mention the cost of living. If you don’t mention it, one party will suffer a long-term loss and will explode for a period of time.

There are also two core issues: housework and cooking.

Uneven distribution will cause resentment.

In addition, Xu Yizhang has two other problems, one is cleanliness and the other is shallow sleep.

Her shallow sleep state is that when someone opens the door when she is asleep, she will wake up. Living with someone who is nervous like her is actually more painful for her roommate.

She didn't want to be in pain because of being disturbed by Qianmian, nor did she want to stay up late to sing in the middle of the night to disturb others, so she decided to live by herself, almost living nearby with Qin Zhen. She usually had someone to eat and go shopping and other things. When she got home, she could still be alone in a quiet room. When she was sad, she was sad and painful, she had a place to stay for a while, which was ideal enough.

Qin Zhen asked her: "What kind of house do you want to find."

"It's fine just like yours, but do I want a room and one room? I need a balcony, so I can see the sunshine coming in." Qin Zhen's single room, with sunshine but no balcony. Xu Yizhang even wants an independent balcony, where you can sit in the balcony and enjoy the scenery and blow the air. Single rooms usually do not have a balcony.

"That's it, then I'll ask the landlord for you."

"OK."

After hanging up the phone, Chu Huixin came to her again, "Daughter, do you have sweet soup? Do you drink it?"

In fact, Chu Huixin is really a good mother, but Chinese parents and children often have one problem, that is, there is no sense of boundaries.

She always comes in Xu Yizhang's room whenever she wants to come in, never knocks on the door, and never cares about time. Sometimes, Chu Huixin will come in if she wants to find a quilt in the middle of the night. She doesn't think there is anything before she gets married, but after she gets married, she feels very unfree. Maybe she is mature and hopes that her life will have more privacy and space.

She turned her head and said, "Drink."

Chu Huixin scooped her a bowl of sweet soup, and the two sat and chatted.

Xu Yizhang asked her: "Auntie and the others are back?"

"Go back."

"Why do they come every day?"

"It's not because of your cousin's affairs." Chu Huixin took a sip of sweet soup and asked her again: "Did you say something to Han Shen?"

"What?"

"Your aunt said tonight that Han Shen had made your cousin go out alone in the afternoon. The two of them didn't know what they had talked about. When they came home later, your cousin said they wanted to give the child to your cousin's sister-in-law. How could your uncle and your aunt agree? So they came over to complain to us both old people..."

Xu Yizhang's move to drink sweet soup.

I thought Han Shen hadn't read her WeChat, but I didn't expect that he would actually ask my cousin out for a talk.

It’s just that every family is an elder who is not easy to pass.

She looked at the dumplings in the bowl and said, "Mom, don't you think it's more suitable for the child to follow his cousin?"

Chu Huixin frowned, "Where do you think so? Did your cousin's wife say something to you in private?"

"No." She shook her head, "I just thought it would be best for the child to follow his mother."

"You don't understand." Chu Huixin sighed and said, "It's not as easy as you think a woman divorces and takes care of her children? You think if a child is with her father, then he will at least have grandparents to take care of her. Even if her father remarries in the future, her grandparents can continue to take care of her. Moreover, her father has property, and she will get some in the future. But if she follows her mother, usually if there are brothers at her mother's house, the basic property has nothing to do with her. Divorce means nothing is left, she has no money or power, and she has to live and work with a child. Is it so easy? Even if she finally remarries and is unwilling to take care of her boys, then what if the remarried person doesn't want a child and her grandparents don't take over, what do you think of this child? This woman is not easy to live."

Chu Huixin said the thoughts of the older generation, and that generation basically thought so. Xu Yizhang disagreed and retorted: "Didn't the cousin-in-law say she won't remarry?"

"Child, you think too simple." Chu Huixin said: "She is injured now, so she said that if she really meets good things in the future, will she not get married yet? And if she doesn't get married, her family will agree? She is not saying that she has a successful career or a strong woman. Do you have to live with her parents for the rest of your life? But parents are old one day, and it is impossible to care about her for the rest of your life. Besides, your cousin's wife has two younger brothers at home, and she is not married yet. What should I get married then? Both younger brothers have married wives and live in the house. How can those wives not dislike her? Can they not think of ways to ask her to leave? What should she do with a child at that time?"

Xu Yizhang didn't say anything.

Chu Huixin continued: "If she doesn't want children, it's actually better. Go back to her home to recuperate. When she gets better, she will work and save some money. It's unimaginable to take care of her child, and the child doesn't grow up in vain. He needs us to spend a lot of effort to train her. If you choose to take care of the child, you can't work, and you can't take care of the child when you work. Is it really better to put the child in the grandparents' house than the grandparents' house? And grandparents keep watching the child grow up, and at grandparents' house, the child may adapt."

"I think these are all your thoughts." Xu Yizhang couldn't help but say, "The times are equal now, and grandparents are not that ruthless, right? And the child wants to follow his mother even more."

"There is no way to let her see it." Chu Huixin said: "And your cousin's wife means that the child follows her and asks your cousin to give her 3,000 yuan in child support every month. Your cousin means that the child gives her family. They don't want the mother to give her child support. In comparison, it's more cost-effective to ask the child to come over, otherwise the child will have to pay the child support, and grandparents won't see him when they want to see him. How uncomfortable it is."

Therefore, adults are actually considering their own interests and have never thought about who their children want to follow.

Xu Yizhang knew that she couldn't understand her parents. The older generation lived in that environment and her thoughts had been solidified. She could not give their thoughts anyway.

Although Chu Huixin said something reasonable, the times are different. The woman's parents may not really be like the idea of ​​"water splashed by the married daughter" by most people in the previous generation. This is just her own inference.

She decided to ask Han Shen.

I opened my phone and was about to send a WeChat message to Han Shen when I received his message.

Han Shen: [Did uncles and aunts scold you?]

Xu Yizhang lay down on the bed and replied: [Why scold me?]

Han Shen: [What's going on with your cousin.]
Chapter completed!