Her salary has increased now. After deducting her monthly food, drink and rent, there are still several thousand. Some of these thousands are saved for raising children at that time, and some are still available. If you can get some supplements together, you can still buy some supplements.

This is the sorrow of working people. The monthly salary is just that little, and if you spend more, you will become a moonlight clan.

I used to spend all the money I hadn’t gotten pregnant before, but now I have a child and don’t plan to get married, so I have a lot of worries and pressure in the future.

Social security can be reported for prenatal examinations and children.

After giving birth, she can receive tens of thousands of maternity allowances based on her salary, and everything after that depends on her.

Raise children.

Save your pension for yourself.

Save teaching funds for children.

Save money to buy a house.

Because she doesn't get married, she has to realize these things by herself. The petty-bourgeois family created by her parents has nothing to do with her. If she leaves the original family, she becomes a person with nothing. Her parents' house has nothing to do with her. When her parents are old, they cannot help her raise children. She even has to support her in turn, which means that she can rely on herself.

This is the inevitable responsibility of a person after he grows up.

Getting married means you have whatever your partner has. If your partner doesn’t have one, you just work hard to get it.

If you don’t get married, you are fighting alone.

Among the two choices, it may be easier for Xu Yizhang to choose the former. After all, Han Shen now has everything. As long as she marrys him, she can change her fate and change herself from a state of nothing to an urban middle class with a house, a car and a degree.

But she really doesn't want to.

As long as you don’t want to, you can’t shake her. Self-reliance and self-reliance are the ideal world she pursues in her life.

As long as you can live according to your own wishes, it doesn’t matter if you suffer a little.

Besides, she has no degree, Han Shen has. According to Han Shen’s previous intention, he will never get married in his life. Since he will not get married, his degree will definitely be given to Xiao Xingxing. Xiao Xingxing can still be admitted to the 12-year system. At worst, she will ask her child’s grandfather and let the child study in her grandfather’s household registration.

In short, there are always more ways than difficulties.

At present, because she is pregnant, she has to keep accounts every day and control her consumption to no more than fifty yuan.

She doesn't buy clothes often anymore.

I won't go out for a big meal.

I won’t order those fruit tea and coffee that cost 30 or 40 yuan.

The fruits you choose are also cheaper seasonal fruits.

It’s not that she doesn’t love herself.

It’s not that she won’t enjoy life.

It’s not that she can’t afford those imported strawberries and cherries that are fifty or sixty pounds, but that she is already ripe and knows that eating them does not mean that she is the best. The key is to save money to raise children and buy a house. These two things are the most important in her heart.

A woman who is not married may only rely on her to buy a house by herself that her parents can believe that she can really take good care of herself.

And children are the flesh of every mother's heart, and every mother will subconsciously give her the best things.

Xu Yizhang lay on the bed, thinking about these things, and remembered his previous life.

In her previous life, she was a city girl who was spoiled by her parents. She was spoiled and willful, without any touch of her every step of the way, and spent money on a big deal.

Han Shen’s monthly salary is more than 20,000 yuan, and he rents a house of 7,000 or 8,000 yuan. He went half of it all at once. Then she became pregnant. Because she had no job, she had no social security. She spent a lot of money on prenatal check-ups and having children. In addition, she bought whatever she wanted, and paid for a car because she was pregnant, and the two of them were unable to make ends meet.

In order to reduce expenses, Han Shen almost never consumes it himself.

But his never complaining nature made Xu Yizhang unaware that their family was in a difficult situation. In order to respect his parents, Xu Yizhang bought a lot of things and packed a large red envelope every time he went to see his parents, which made Han Shen remain silent every time he knew about it.

But Chu Huixin is not a greedy person. When Xu Yizhang packs a red envelope, she will buy things for her, buy supplements, and pay to hire a confinement nanny for Xu Yizhang. She also buys things for Xiao Xingxing, buys baby carriages, clothes, toys, rocking chairs, dining chairs, and various cars... It can be said that many of Xiao Xingxing’s things were bought by Chu Huixin.

It was not until after the confinement period that Xu Yizhang took care of her child and felt that she had been abandoned by the whole world. Late at night, Han Shen worked overtime, and the child cried day and night. She was exhausted and in pain, and she started crying in collapse.

Please stop crying!

She even begged the child on her knees.

But the child still cried, and cried with her. After she finished crying, she could only accept her fate and pick up the child, walking around the house with a blank expression.

Finally, Han Shen returned with fatigue. Xu Yizhang seemed to have grabbed a life-saving straw, and also found the source of venting. She thought the child belonged to two people, but Han Shen worked overtime every day regardless of whether she was a novice mother who had just finished confinement. She was so angry that she threw the child to him to sleep.

Han Shen was covered in alcohol and looked at the child crying in his arms.

That was the first time he had looked dirty.

His career has stagnated, he has a wife whose temper is becoming increasingly difficult to control, and a hungry child.

He seemed to have no place to live.

The handsome and charming man in the past was no longer full of energy or knowledgeable and charming. He was like a helpless child, looking at the baby in his arms in the middle of the night, his eyes slowly showing disappointment...

In fact, that time, Xu Yizhang felt that he had hurt him.

But at that time, she was also exhausted, and she was also a woman who needed care, so she stubbornly refused to look at him, which made the relationship between the two drop to the freezing point. She didn't even want to make up, and she thought with extreme revenge: This is better, a man who doesn't care about his wife should make him lose his wife!

Xu Yizhang felt that he was a little willful in the past, but it was also uncontrollable. A girl was forced to become a mother, just like she was entering a maze. At first, everything was confused, but later she passed through one level after another to see and adapt to this identity.

People say that only by sacrificing great work can society be highly praised.

This reflects that the position of mother requires great sacrifice.

Therefore, before a person matures, he should not get married and have children, otherwise the marriage may be cut in half when the level of children is ushered in.

Their marriage was actually cut in half to the level of children...

Especially Xu Yizhang's thoughts in the past were: "If a man cannot make you feel happier and happier, it can only make you feel more and more painful. This is not a healthy relationship, nor is it a happy marriage..."

She felt that every sentence of this passage was about her pain point. Once she substituted it, it would be difficult for her to get out of it.

She recalled her unmarried time, with her father and mother loving her, a group of friends gatherings in groups of three or three, and a good education and transcript. She felt more and more that she was the victim of marriage. If the marriage hadn't tortured her like this, her life should be striving for careers, and having a weekend party of friends, living a free and easy life, rather than holding a high-demand baby every day, without friends, no company, no one can talk to, and no one empathizes with it...

Finally, the random thoughts in her heart seemed to have formed a huge storm, swallowing up all her reason and thoughts.

She began to be unable to control herself and blamed Han Shen for this mistake. She hurt people again and again:

"If you have a house like my dad, we don't have to rent a house, so we don't have to live that hard!"

"If I knew that you brought me such a day, I wouldn't have married you!"

"You've wasted my youth!"

"A person like you is not worthy of me at all. My parents trained me to go to a key university, and I ended up falling into your hands!"

"You ruined me for most of my life!"

"You ruined my life!"

Thinking of this, Xu Yizhang suddenly opened his eyes.

What happened to her in the end?

Why do you say such hurtful words?

Although Han Shen was busy, he gave her all the money. Why was she still so aggressive?

Did she suffer from some mental illness at that time?

Why is it so extreme?

Maybe it was because she made money herself in this life. She understood that money was not so easy to make. In the past, she blamed Han Shen for not being able to do so, but now she has to rely on herself to live a life of hard work and not as good as buying a house.

And buy a house.

Houses in big cities.

With her current job, she may not be able to afford it in thirty years.

Thinking of the housing prices at this time, she sighed, saying that she couldn't afford it now, let alone the future.

The housing prices in Nancheng have always been the best. No one will drop, and they will always be the best in the country in the future.
Chapter completed!