Chapter 622
What Fang's father said was a remarkable story, and it was a life experience or a business way, which made Fang Yadan unable to refute.
As the saying goes, two powers have the most benefit, and two powers have the least harm.
A person's life will experience many turning points and need to make choices.
In fact, many successes and failures are not necessarily much higher than those who succeed, but they are often just a matter of difference in their choices and make wrong decisions when making choices.
In other words, the so-called successful people, compared to the losers, often make the right choice every time they face a choice.
When weighing whether your choice is correct, just check whether you choose to maximize your interests when pursuing your interests, or whether you choose to minimize the extent of your losses when facing a crisis.
Those who fail will refute, isn’t this nonsense?
Who would not think of pursuing maximum when facing benefits? And when facing a crisis, fools know to minimize losses!
In fact, this is just a saying. When you really face a choice, most people will make wrong judgments. This is why the rich and successful people are often a minority.
For example, when facing benefits, you have different choices. Should you maximize your interests regardless of risks, or would you rather give up greater interests and stop in order to prevent risks?
For example, when facing a crisis, are you trying to minimize the losses, or just give up and start a new job?
Before making a decision, it is usually difficult to make a correct judgment. If the same person faces the same thing, if the timing is wrong, the same choice you make will often have a huge difference.
Therefore, when successful people face choices, they will not rely on impulse or the gambler's psychology, and will leave their fate as if they are betting. They will inevitably make comparisons and finally make choices that are relatively beneficial to them.
Fang's father decided to let Fang Yadan meet Qin Tian after weighing the pros and cons. For this reason, he could even let Fang Yadan abandon everything, and no matter how honest or loyal it is.
First of all, it is a matter of interests.
For Fang Yadan, the biggest benefit of her cooperation with Fan Jianming is only to stay on economic interests. At best, it is the problem of making more money or not making money.
And Fang Yadan can also obtain the same benefits through cooperation with Qin Tian.
In addition, her cooperation with Qin Tian may also allow her to get a happy marriage, at least Fan Jianming cannot give her this.
For Fang's father and Fang Yadan, who are not short of money, the amount of money they make is just a problem of adding a few zeros to their family property. What Fang Yadan urgently needs to solve now is a lifelong event.
For Fang Yadan, Qin Tian should be Fang Yadan’s best choice in any aspect.
Based on the principle of mutual benefit and mutual benefit, Fang Yadan's choice of cooperation with Qin Tian was undoubtedly correct between Qin Tian and Fan Jianming.
As for what we know each other and have a good impression of each other, as long as we start working together, everything is possible!
Let’s start from the principle of taking the minority of the two powers, and see who she doesn’t cooperate with, the loss will be greater.
If she doesn't cooperate with Qin Tian, she has no other benefits than the benefits obtained from her own shares, but she may lose a happy marriage.
If she didn't cooperate with Fan Jianming, she was with Qin Tian. In addition to the benefits obtained from her own shares, she might hit it off with Qin Tian, achieving a perfect combination of talented men and beautiful women.
Of course, maybe Fan Jianming would say that she was treacherous or even said that she violated business ethics, so what can it do?
The loss of image or reputation caused by this kind of criticism is almost negligible compared to a happy marriage.
From this point of view, her cooperation with Qin Tian is also the best choice.
It was based on this consideration that Fang's father made a decision in an instant. Between Fan Jianming and Qin Tian, he encouraged Fang Yadan to cooperate with Qin Tian.
Fang Yadan also understood what his father meant, but was still a little hesitant: "Dad, no matter what, Fan Jianming is my classmate. He found me first and showed his trump card. At this time, it doesn't matter if he gives up his cooperation with him, but it's not reasonable to let me cooperate with his only opponent!"
Fang's father said, "Yadan, my child, when will you truly mature? There is no reason in the face of interests. In terms of emotions and reason, you should not involve interests. Or the same sentence, no matter who you work with, you can get what you want, but why don't you want to fight for more, but for some reason, pursue less?"
Fang Yadan seemed a little annoyed: "What you said just now is right, and I know it's for my own good, but at this time, I really..."
Seeing her in a very embarrassing look, Fang's father sighed: "How about this, you go and meet Qin Tian first. You have not figured out his true purpose yet. You have only met and communicated carefully. After knowing his true purpose, you should make a careful decision."
Fang Yadan thought about it, and now hesitated here for a long time. If he meets Qin Tian later, he will not talk about the land at all and just want to grab me. Am I worried about it here?
When Fang Yadan turned around and was about to leave, Fang's father called her again: "Child, I shouldn't have said this to you, but no one except me can say such things to you. I said it, don't be angry."
Fang Yadan knew that this choice was even related to the direction of her life, so her father was so serious. I am afraid he would say very ugly words immediately, but it was a depressing honest advice.
Fang Yadan believes that even if people in the world are liars and only one person will never deceive her, the only one person will be her father.
"Dad, tell me, I'll listen carefully."
"You always feel that you are very smart and like to be clever in front of others. There are open and secret battles with Li Qianqian. Even if you are competitive, I won't talk about him. Some time ago, you were swaying between Zhang Guodong and Lin Hongtao and were in good luck. When you were playing with them, did you feel very accomplished?"
Fang Yadan blushed when she heard this, and she asked embarrassedly: "Dad, what do you want to say?"
"I am your father. If you are played by others, of course I hope you are playing with others. But if you play with people, who will score points? Is it interesting to play with men who have no status and only look at your beauty and money?"
"Just let me talk about Lin Hongtao and Zhang Guodong, one is a college student who has not graduated, and the other is a family with a snobbish family. They are played by you, not because they are stupid, their intelligence is not enough, but because their IQ is completely blinded by the property of our Fang family, so you can play easily."
"Fan Jianming and Qin Tian don't understand. They are both successful men. Our wealth is not in their eyes. The beautiful women around them are not necessarily worse than you. If you really think you are very smart, why don't you play with these two men?"
I'm going, this is really my real father!
Not my own father, I can't say such things.
"Dad, you mean-"
"Why do you only think that if you cooperate with Fan Jianming, you must reject Qin Tian. If you cooperate with Qin Tian, you must offend Fan Jianming? Why don't you fully utilize your intelligence and talents to get what you want from Fan Jianming, and at the same time, you can get what he can give you from Qin Tian?"
Chapter completed!