Chapter 1310: Make a Secret Decision(1/2)
When Yun Jiao saw her expression, she realized: "Does he dislike me for giving birth to a girl?"
What kind of person is her father-in-law? She has been in the house for so many years. She is somewhat familiar with him. He is so old-fashioned, isn’t he just looking forward to having a legitimate grandson?
Unfortunately, he would naturally be unhappy if he failed to do what he wanted.
"Do you know?" When Yun Yan heard her say this, she no longer hesitated: "When I came, I happened to see Wen's wife holding the child out of you. When your father-in-law heard that she was a daughter, she didn't even look at the child, and she left with a swaying sleeve."
"Who cares about him?" Yun Jiao skimmed her lips, snorted lightly, lowered her head and kissed her daughter's little face, and her eyes softened: "We have parents, grandmothers, and aunts, so we don't care about that stinky grandfather, right?"
The little guy in the cradle looked at her with dark eyes.
"How cute, why can't I give birth to a daughter?" Yun Yan came over and was envious.
"The next one may be your daughter." Yun Jiao looked at her belly and joked about her.
"You." She patted Yun Yan with a little embarrassed look: "By the way, have you given the child a good name?"
"Xiao Wu has chosen a lot of names before, wait for him to decide." Yun Jiao smiled and replied to her.
"Then how many days are you going to wash your feet?" Jack Yunyan said again: "I'm going back to prepare a gift."
According to the custom of Dayuan, on the third day or the sixth day of the sixth or ninth day of the birth of a child, a banquet will be held to invite relatives from the family to come. The child’s grandfather’s family will make a red middle garment for the child and take a bath for the child, which is called the “three rituals of washing”.
Generally speaking, if you don’t hold a three-day banquet for a daughter, it’s almost always the full moon, so you can just invite her at will, which means something.
Only when a boy who needs attention is born will he be grandly organized by the three baptism ceremony.
But she knew that the ninth sister would definitely treat her daughter like her son, so she asked this question.
Yun Jiao looked up and thought for a moment: "Let's put it in Jiuchao."
At that time, her body should have recovered a little. When the time comes, she will have the energy to talk to them.
"Okay." Yun Yan nodded and hugged the child with a smile: "It's not like crying or making a fuss, so don't hug you. You are a confinement person. You can't sit on the bed all the time. It's not good for your waist. You should lie down and rest."
"Okay." Yun Jiao looked at her daughter reluctantly.
"Don't be reluctant to let go. Be in front of you every day, but you are annoyed." Yun Yan stood up and smiled, "I'll hold her for a while and ask her to pick her up and coax her to sleep."
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It's night.
Yun Jiao leaned on the inside of the bed, Qin Nanfeng leaned on the outside of the window, and both of them looked towards the center of the bed, looking at Qin Mingyue sleeping soundly in her cradle.
Qin Nanfeng originally wanted to name his daughter "Mingzhu", which had a simple meaning, which was the pearl in his hand, but he thought that the pearl was too common and was a thing that everyone liked to compete for. It was a vulgar name, so he called "Mingyue".
Yun Jiao also followed him.
"Look at these eyebrows, eyes, chin, they look like me everywhere." Qin Nanfeng gently tapped his daughter's little face, and his love was beyond words.
Yun Jiao was just funny and didn't say anything.
Baliang jumped onto the bed.
She reached out and said, "Baliang, come and see my sister."
Baliang rubbed her hand, leaned to the cradle and sniffed Xiao Mingyue's face, turned carefully for a few steps, then went up to sniff. After a while, he seemed to admit Xiao Mingyue's identity and started snoring happily.
"I'm still snoring. It seems you know that there is a baby bump in our family." Qin Nanfeng stretched out his hand and stroked Baliang.
Yun Jiao lay down slightly, held her chin with one hand and said, "Look, the family has a population, and Baliang knows that they are coming to see it. Your father is fine, and he doesn't even look at it."
"After comparing this, are you saying that my father is not even as good as Baliang?" Qin Nanfeng laughed: "But then, what do you care about him? You don't know what kind of person he is.
Our daughter, just be happy, why should you care about him?"
He said, lowering his head and kissing his daughter's face. He liked this little girl so much. As he thought, she was pink and tender, and even she felt quiet when she cried. It was so nice.
"I just said that he couldn't be more reasonable." Yun Jiao thought about it more and more, the more she felt a little uneasy: "You said that even if my friend came and heard that her family had children, she wouldn't help but take a look.
Why is your father so stern? I think, my grandparents don’t like boys as much as he does.”
Today, not only Qin Nanfeng's grandmother has come, but even Mr. Qin, who has not gone out for no reason, has specially visited his great-granddaughter and also presented a meeting gift for the child.
Only Qin Huanli, the grandfather, could do it, and she didn't even look at the child.
"Okay." Qin Nanfeng raised his hand and tidyed her hair: "Don't pay attention to him. If he doesn't look at him, we won't force him. If he says something about you, there will naturally be a husband to decide for you."
"Yeah." Yun Jiao didn't want to make both sides angry, so she paused and said, "I plan to hold the three baptisms for the child in Nine Dynasties. You go and say something to him."
She knew that her mother-in-law would definitely not have any objection. If she said she refused, she would definitely be her father-in-law and father-in-law would not want to. According to his temperament, she would definitely think that her daughter was not worth spending money and effort.
But she insisted on doing this three-baptism ceremony.
She doesn't have money in her hands, so what can she do?
In recent years, in order to take care of Qin Huanli's pain of losing her son, and because she has no children, she has never been concerned about Qin Huanli most of the time.
But this time, the matter of the child must be decided by her.
"Okay." Qin Nanfeng agreed without hesitation.
The next day, Qin Nanfeng went out and came back, and Yun Jiao asked him: "Did you tell your father?"
"I said it, he agreed." Qin Nanfeng replied to her as if nothing had happened.
"I don't believe it." Yun Jiao smiled: "Can he agree at once?"
That's weird!
"It's not okay if he doesn't agree. We have money in our hands, but we don't ask for him." Qin Nanfeng sat down on the edge of the bed, stretched out his hand to stroke her head: "Don't think about these things all day long. Madam Li said that you should rest well during confinement and not worry too much, otherwise you will have poor health and you will suffer for the rest of your life."
Seeing that what he said was exactly the same as Madam Li, Yun Jiao couldn't help but feel amused: "I understand, why did you learn to be as naughty as Madam?"
"Isn't it for you?" Qin Nanfeng leaned over to look at his daughter: "Mingyue, look at your heartless mother. I'm doing it for her, and she laughed at me in turn."
In the cradle, the bright moon slept soundly, so how could I pay attention to him?
A few days later, the day of the third year of the Washing Three was here. Although he could only invite some close relatives, it was also lively. Qin Huanli didn't make any trouble, and this ceremony was smooth.
In this way, Yun Jiao was at the confinement period with peace of mind.
With children accompanying you, life will pass even faster. In a few days, the full moon will be the day.
She discussed with Qin Nanfeng: "Xiao Wu, the full moon of the bright moon, do we still have to do it?"
Qin Nanfeng was standing beside the bed holding his daughter and shaking her gently. He couldn't help but ask, "Didn't he say that after three years of washing, you don't have to be a full moon?"
"Realistically speaking, that's how it is." Yun Jiao nodded and said, "But when I was sick, many families in the Imperial Court gave gifts.
When we are in the third year of the Baptism, we can only invite relatives, but not those people. After receiving this gift, we should always return it.
Now that I have recovered, my child is already full month old, it’s a bit unreasonable if I don’t return the gift.”
Although she was in the confinement period, she was still in charge of family affairs. Besides, it was because of her that so many families gave gifts, and she couldn't just come in and out.
"That's right." Qin Nanfeng remembered this after she reminded her: "When I received the gift, we discussed and said that we would invite them when you recover, but I forgot about this.
Since that's the case, let's take advantage of the full moon and invite this guest. I'll go make arrangements when Mingyue falls asleep."
"Don't worry, your father may not be willing or not." Yun Jiao was a little worried.
According to his father-in-law's personality, he promised to give his child a third-year slack, which was probably the biggest concession. Now that he has to make a full moon for his child, he will definitely not be willing to do so.
"Why don't he want to? Then, after receiving someone's gift, you have to repay the gift, right?" Qin Nanfeng comforted her: "Don't worry, I'll talk."
"Yeah." Yun Jiao didn't say much.
Seeing him go out, she was still a little worried and told Jianjia beside her: "You go with the prince and see what the master said."
Jianjia followed her out.
"Girl." Madam Li advised: "Don't think too much about things, and don't be angry. You have not yet finished confinement. Take care of yourself.
For those things, it's not worth it."
She has lived to this age and has long been able to see many things, but she only feels sorry for Yun Jiao.
"Madam, don't worry, I'm not angry." Yun Jiao could guess what her father-in-law looked like.
Mingyue in her cradle suddenly started to cry.
Madam Li hurriedly stepped forward and picked her up and coaxed her: "Oh, good baby doesn't cry. Look how well our baby is, tsk, you're so obedient.
My grandfather doesn’t love us, it’s okay. We have parents and nanny love us, and many people love us..."
Mingyue just hummed twice, and when she saw someone picking her up, she stopped crying.
"Look, I understand, how well-behaved." Madam Li hugged her and was very happy.
While talking, Jianjia came back in a hurry.
"Slow down, don't scare the little master." Mu Jin hurriedly stopped her.
"What did you say?" Yun Jiao couldn't help but ask.
Jianjia stood up and gasped: "Prince... He started arguing with the master, and the master said he would give birth to... give birth to..."
"Talking about what is important." Madam Li knew that it was definitely not a good thing, so she hurriedly mentioned it.
Jianjia reacted and said, "The master said that if he dared to hold the full moon gift, he would have to lift the table in public. He also said that even if he had a wealthy family, he would not be so extravagant, let alone that he was born a daughter..."
Yun Jiao was silent for a moment and nodded: "You all go down first."
To be continued...