Chapter 519 Don't disturb
Parents are also very sensible, understand and support their children to work hard on their careers, so they try to minimize contact with their children so as not to disturb them.
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Lu Yuchi encountered a problem that was as entangled as a vicious cycle. Of course, he still tended to go to Shanghai and did not take back the arrangements he had told his mother Xu Lin and Wan Qianqian. He was entangled in his heart.
However, at that time, Lu Yuchi said that he would go to Shanghai to do business. His mother Xu Lin casually said that Lu Yuchi's father Lu Zhixiong also went to Shanghai to discuss the antique business and asked Lu Yuchi if he had made an appointment with his father.
Of course, Lu Yuchi didn't make an appointment with his father. He was going to ask Yang Xiaoying if there was anything happened to the two of them that night. Can you still take your father with this? But this also made Lu Yuchi think that he seemed to have not contacted his father for a long time.
The Lu family has been doing business for three generations. Specifically for Lu Yaoting's eldest son Lu Zhixiong, the three generations of grandparents and grandchildren do three types of businesses.
Lu Yaoting started from scratch and built such a big family business. However, due to the special era, he was over 40 years old when he officially started his business. Not long after, his eldest son Lu Zhixiong also started his own antique business.
Lu Zhixiong's love of antiques was inherited by his father Lu Yaoting. In that special era, he had the intention of doing business and might have been inherited by his father, but he did not help his father and worked in his own company.
Genetics is terrible, and it is the same when Lu Yuchi became an adult. He was unwilling to care about his grandfather and his father's business. He wanted to rely on his own abilities to make a living and do his own business. Different businesses often make everyone busy. Although they are father and son, grandfather and grandson, they don't have much time to spend together.
Moreover, Lu Yuchi felt that his father Lu Zhixiong was not even more dependent than himself, and it would be no good if he called him, so in fact, Lu Yuchi took the initiative to call his father - it was even longer than when he saw him last time.
Actually, is it his father Lu Zhixiong blamed him?
Why is there no good things when you call?
When I was young, I would tell my parents about anything I encountered. When I grew up, I would show off to my parents when I got a little more. However, when I entered puberty, I was reluctant to say more to my parents. After I grew up, I had my own job and career, and felt that I had fewer and fewer words with my parents.
I don’t know if others are like this, but Lu Yuchi is exactly like this.
Of course, it is often because of busyness and annoyance. When parents call me, they just ask what they have to do. In other words, don’t chat if you have nothing to do.
As a result, parents are very tactful and understand and support their children to work hard on their careers. Moreover, when calling the closest and most concerned person, they get the most unfamiliar answers, and no one feels very happy. They understand, feel distressed, and feel uncomfortable, so they try to minimize contact with their children to avoid disturbing them.
Specifically for the Lu family, Lu Zhixiong and Lu Yuchi, why is there usually nothing good about Lu Zhixiong calling?
What good things can happen?
For him, selling an antique today and making tens of millions of dollars - can it be considered a good thing? Even if he thinks it is a good thing, Lu Yuchi will be annoyed when he always says this. If the Lu family has any good things, he will not need him. Naturally, someone notifies Lu Yuchi. Instead of his parents notifying him, even if Lu Yuchi feels annoyed, he will not reveal it.
On the contrary, when something bad happened, Lu Yuchi felt annoyed again - he would listen carefully and do his best to do it for the sake of his family. Secondly, no matter whether Lu Yuchi felt annoyed or not, he had to tell Lu Yuchi.
Although Lu Yuchi is already 35 years old, although he has seen the world, and although he is a big shot in the business world, he may still not understand these things at this time.
Many times, he will never tell his parents or his women what he can say. This may not be the case that they are annoying. He often doesn’t want to annoy them or worry them.
There are also many times when he really feels annoyed, not because his parents are annoyed, but because he is annoyed to anyone else and anything else. Whenever this happens, he has never lacked women around him, but he just wants to drive the car to the Haihe River in Tianjin alone, lie in the car, and look at the night view, hoping that no one will disturb him.
He may not understand, but his mother Xu Lin told him that his father Lu Zhixiong was doing business in Shanghai and he was going to come too, but after hearing that sentence, he wanted to come even more.
Because when he met Wan Qianxi's parents, he felt sorry for his mother and at the same time he felt sorry for his uncontrollable father.
The father in Lu Yuchi's impression of him did have the ability to do things that he admired very much at critical moments, but on weekdays, not only was he unrestrained, but he was also very stingy.
He didn't think much about it in the past and often mocked his father, but along the way, he even sat alone in a restaurant in Shanghai at this time, wondering why his father was stingy.
Lu Yuchi felt that this did not require "whitewashing", it must be due to his personality. Even if there were problems with the difficult growth environment of that generation, he eventually developed a father's stingy and greedy personality. But now his father's wealth, why bother to run around for business?
Although May has entered and the epidemic has been significantly controlled, the number of infections in various places will still be reported every day. My father is so rich, but he will definitely not spend it in his life anyway. Isn’t it good to try to go out as little as possible at this time?
Lu Yuchi understood that no matter how stingy his father was, he would be greedy for money. In the final analysis, the money he earned would have to be left to himself. How could he not feel sorry for him?
Although Lu Yuchi felt less distressed about his father than Xu Lin, who had been taking care of his pregnancy for this period of time, and his mother, who had just stepped forward to solve the problem in Hunan for him, it was enough to make him want to come to Shanghai, and in addition to seeing Yang Xiaoying, he also met his father.
But it was the second day since he really arrived in Shanghai. He neither saw Yang Xiaoying nor contacted his father, but sat here alone and ate.
I was not in a hurry to see my father because although he felt sorry for him, he didn't want to make a father and son who were both out of tune and laughing and joking. He insisted on creating a scene of "father-son deep affection" that he couldn't do, and he believed that his father was also awkward.
As for seeing Yang Xiaoying, Lu Yuchi woke up that day and suspected that dream, to talk to Huang Dajin last time, and then promised Wan Qianxi's parents that he would treat Wan Qianxi well - he had always been entangled.
Various reasons, whether there are or not, make it difficult for him to weigh the pros and cons, as if nothing is done is wrong.
Chapter completed!