Chapter six hundred and seventy-ninth subconscious
Habits are preserved in the subconscious mind. Even if you know that you should not use your own habits for someone or something, your subconscious mind may not act if you do not listen to your will.
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Lu Yuchi was willing to continue to explain something that Yang Xiaoying had already agreed to, but he felt that there was a need for explanation, but then he had dinner with Yang Xiaoying and talked about something else, but he was still thinking in his heart what the need for explanation was.
Although Yang Xiaoying was happy for Lu Yuchi's repeated explanations to her, she still couldn't do the happiness that Lu Yuchi wanted her to be "completely happy". However, this time she was mainly out of guilt, but also felt that Lu Yuchi's actions should have other reasons besides caring about her feelings, so she was also thinking about these reasons.
With their IQ, it is not difficult to understand this question, and there will be no big deviation in the results of the same thing, but the same results may have their own emphasis and feelings.
The obvious reason must be that Lu Yuchi cares more and more about Yang Xiaoying's feelings. For Yang Xiaoying, there is no need to think too much about this. Just be grateful and happy. But for Lu Yuchi, he must figure out that this is due to the compensation for Yang Xiaoying that he already brought with him this trip, and whether for him, his own training, or emotional improvement.
The reason why the two of them need to think about it may be that Lu Yuchi is a businessman after all, and Yang Xiaoying is a very smart woman after all. Therefore, when Lu Yuchi faces Yang Xiaoying, he will have a subconscious self-protection mentality and guard against others' instinct.
In fact, Lu Yuchi had long told Huang Dajin that women are too smart, but they are actually easily exploited by men. In this way, if a person who is used is too stupid, the value of use will definitely not be too high; second, a man who is too smart will be too cautious and has the ability to use others will be too cautious. It is difficult to develop a sincere and unscrupulous relationship with too much prevention. However, women who are too smart are often accompanied by too strong ambitions, and it is not so easy to develop a sincere and unscrupulous relationship with men. Since the relationship between both parties is insufficient, they are more willing to use it, or they can only use it.
So if Lu Yuchi had a subconscious mind on Yang Xiaoying, shouldn’t he explain to Yang Xiaoying as little as possible?
It shouldn't be, because Lu Yuchi is also very smart and knows women very well.
He knew the difference between a smart woman and a simple woman, and also knew how to face a smart woman with a safe attitude. Over time, this "knowledge" became an instinctive reaction in the subconscious.
If it was just about Qi Qi, Wan Qianqi, and Lin Ge, Lu Yuchi might not have explained too much.
First of all, they may not doubt Lu Yuchi's motives. So why bother to explain or prove themselves - and to use these sinister means to deal with the business enemy, they would like to say too much about women who only hope to live a simple and happy life?
Secondly, they are all relatively simple. Although everyone has ambitions, the degree of ambition is different after all. In simple terms, they will have very low ambitions. Since they are with Lu Yuchi, it is easier to be without regrets. Then even if they have any doubts, Lu Yuchi's explanation is not necessary.
But Yang Xiaoying is very smart. Although her shrewdness makes it easy for her to see some things, how does she understand things clearly? In fact, it is the habit of thinking more when encountering things.
Habits are preserved in the subconscious mind. Even if you know that you should not use your own habits for someone or something, your subconscious mind may not act according to your own will. However, if Yang Xiaoying's subconscious mind makes her think too much about everything, there will always be times when she thinks wrong, so Lu Yuchi doesn't want Yang Xiaoying to think wrong about this matter or misunderstand herself.
Yang Xiaoying preserved her habits in her subconscious mind, why didn't Lu Yuchi be the same?
In addition to these, Lu Yuchi was eager to explain and prove himself, and perhaps he had a more terrifying idea. That is, if he did not explain it clearly to a smart woman and let the smart woman misunderstand him, the woman might feel dissatisfied and commit revenge and destructive behavior.
But whether it is Lu Yuchi or Yang Xiaoying, their subconscious mind does nothing to hurt each other when facing each other. At most, they are self-protection and prevention. What's wrong with this? Moreover, Lu Yuchi cares about Yang Xiaoying's feelings after all.
Although Lu Yuchi needs to think more about the factors that he cares about, he thinks more about it to determine the depth of his feelings for Yang Xiaoying, so that he can better plan the future development route of the two. This factor is definitely a good thing for Yang Xiaoying, and it is Lu Yuchi's behavior that makes her happy and grateful.
But when he thought that he might be subconsciously guarding Yang Xiaoying, Lu Yuchi felt that it was wrong. He clearly believed that Yang Xiaoying had changed this year and had a true love for himself. He had just advised Yang Xiaoying not to blame himself for his past ambitions, but his subconscious mind was still guarding against Yang Xiaoying. Is this fair to Yang Xiaoying? And is he too hypocritical?
"I'm sorry, what happened just now - I want to say a few more words..." Lu Yuchi was talking about something else with Yang Xiaoying, and had been talking for a long time, but thinking about this in his heart, he felt that he should apologize to Yang Xiaoying.
"You are not sorry for me, you are sorry for yourself." As he said that, Yang Xiaoying smiled mockingly and said, "I know what you want to say, but why do I know? If I don't know how good it would be, so it's still my problem, haha..."
Yang Xiaoying was indeed making fun of herself. She did not blame Lu Yuchi. Lu Yuchi thought of those who felt guilty, but she could only make fun of herself, and she really felt that Lu Yuchi was "sorry for herself".
After all, it is not because she is too smart? It is not because she has developed a habit of thinking too much when encountering things and being suspicious when encountering people? This habit makes the other party unconsciously guard against her. What is the other party’s mistake?
When she thought of this just now, she was indeed a little regretful and even complained about Lu Yuchi's emotions, but if she continued to think about it, even she was a little worried about herself.
She is really in love with Lu Yuchi now, and her future plans for the two can be said to be "cheap". Lu Yuchi, but when she knows her subconscious, she remembers her former ambition. Can this ambition really be completely suppressed? After all, habits and ambitions are in her subconscious. Since habits cannot be suppressed, isn't ambition more difficult to control?
Chapter completed!