Chapter seven hundred and forty second care
People and things that don’t care or don’t think they will have too many interactions with you, so their conditions naturally have nothing to do with you.
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After hearing what Han Shiqi said, Wang Xiaomao thought this was a good signal because it reminded him of his experiences with Yang Mi.
What did Han Shiqi say about the method?
Pressure, a kind of pressure that will arise when looking at the other person.
This pressure makes me dare not even ask myself whether I like the other person, so I naturally can’t confirm whether I like it, let alone pursue it.
Where does this pressure come from?
It should be said that Han Shiqi is more complicated.
From the simplest perspective, Han Shiqi has already expressed the answer, that is, the conditions in all aspects are not as good as the other party, and even Bibi is a blasphemy to the other party.
To look deeper, Han Shiqi is not very confident in other aspects except for music. His own conditions are only one aspect. In the past, he has always given people a smile and pretended to be a grandson in frequent social engagements for business. This made him not only get used to a corrupt life, but also to a humble feeling.
However, Wang Xiaomao felt that in front of Liu Yaping, Han Shiqi's status could not be judged by these reasons, at least not just these reasons.
This principle is very simple. It is not a matter of one or two days since Han Shiqi got used to a humble state. It can be said that it is not a matter of one or two years. The gap between conditions and Liu Yaping is also clearly visible. However, when I first met Liu Yaping in the past, why was Han Shiqi able to get along with each other calmly and even show her musical talent?
Since there was no tension or pressure at the beginning, instead, there was a good foundation. Even people who were a little dull in their relationship could see that Liu Yaping at least appreciates Han Shiqi's talent in music and is willing to talk to Han Shiqi about these things. Even if this does not mean that she likes it, it at least shows that she is very appreciative as a friend. Then as we get familiar with each other, Han Shiqi should be more and more calm when facing Liu Yaping, rather than becoming more and more nervous.
Why is this happening?
Because Han Shiqi initially regarded Liu Yaping as a reporter who visited him, even though he was nervous and under pressure, he was just famous and did not adapt to such interviews. But he did not. Instead, he talked about music, and the musicians fully demonstrated his talents and insights.
Later, Han Shiqi learned that Wang Xiaomao was interested in matching him and Liu Yaping. At this time, he should have had the tension and pressure when facing Liu Yaping, but he still didn't. Because although he was dealing with something like "being friends" and "if you have feelings," he knew in his heart that this was absolutely impossible.
Not to mention whether Liu Yaping can like him, he has the woman he has been with for many years. As he said, he is definitely not a pure boy, but he didn't think about abandoning that woman for anyone, or even looking for another woman who has feelings for.
People and things that don’t care or think they will have too many interactions with you, and their conditions naturally have nothing to do with you. Since it doesn’t matter, what’s there to be proud or inferior? So obviously Han Shiqi was like this to Liu Yaping at that time.
In fact, wasn’t Wang Xiaomao like this at the beginning?
When Wang Xiaomao first saw Yang Mi, it was no different from seeing an ordinary person. This is because Yang Mi had so-called advantages that happened to be what he didn't care about.
Of course, he is also a man after all, and he is beautiful. Sexy must be an advantage in his eyes. But this advantage is not very exciting when he looks at it, right? It’s useless to be excited when he is excited. He is a man in his thirties. He is so excited that he simply sees a beautiful and sexy woman that he screams. In his opinion, he is a fool.
But Yang Mi is not only beautiful and sexy, but also a star? But in Wang Xiaomao's eyes, celebrities are no essential difference from neighbors. When he was a child, he went to his grandparents' house? Young Ma Ye belonged to the same neighborhood committee as them. He lived in his parents' home. Mr. Wang Fengshan, the founder of Wangpai Kuaiban, lives in the same community as them? And he has seen people like Ma Sanli and Hou Baolin with his own eyes. Yang Mi is a star? Can she compare with these masters and masters who founded the sect?
Perhaps in the eyes of young people today, they are better than them, at least they make more money, but in Wang Xiaomao's eyes, the opposite is true. Moreover, he is a little resistant and looks down on people and things in the entertainment industry. What he advocates is literature. If Yang Mi is a literary master, then he might be excited and nervous.
So when Wang Xiaomao first met Yang Mi, he could not be nervous or lose his composure like Han Shiqi when he first met Liu Yaping, but he could get along with each other calmly and show his talent? But Wang Xiaomao's talent is much richer than Han Shiqi? The key is that his face is much more advanced than Han Shiqi.
Maybe Yang Mi is used to seeing the unpopular admirer who is excited when she sees her? Suddenly, she saw a man who doesn't care about her and even didn't want to pay attention to her at first. The key is that this man is too handsome and pretends to be noble? He is really talented and learned, so she will look up to this man.
But later others may not know? Because Wang Xiaomao has been used to being a pride of literati, can he restrain himself? But he himself knows that he has gradually begun to care about Yang Mi. If he hadn't had such care, no matter how Yang Mi pursues him and shows love and kindness to him, he would not accept it.
Perhaps when the feeling of caring became clearer, he actually had the pressure and tension of seeing Liu Yaping as Han Shiqi just mentioned. Although the degree may not be as exaggerated as Han Shiqi, no one could tell on the surface, but he knew it did exist.
Since Wang Xiaomao and Han Shiqi's mental journey are so similar, then to put the truth back, Han Shiqi will be nervous when he sees Liu Yaping now. Although it may not mean that he likes it, he at least cares. At least Han Shiqi is indeed considering Wang Xiaomao's matchmaking.
This seems to be a good start to Wang Xiaomao.
I cared about it, started to think about it, and after thinking about it in this regard, whether I will like the other person in the end, and whether I can catch up with the other person is another matter. It is better than not even the "start" step.
Wang Xiaomao thought so and said this to Han Shiqi. So they both drank the wine until this time, and they should be said to be positive in their mentality. Wang Xiaomao is actively influencing Han Shiqi.
Chapter completed!