A man and a woman usually get along like friends, can tell each other's worries, and occasionally have some "couple life". Will such a thing really happen?

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When Lu Yuchi was drinking with Brother Han, of course, it was inconvenient to think about the prince. Why did Hu Jun and the two brothers of the Jiang family help him more or less, but did not seek credit from him? Brother Han said endlessly, he was a cautious and suspicious person. Not long after Lu Yuchi's game, he was even more like a frightened bird. Lu Yuchi couldn't make himself too distracted, so he had to focus on maintaining a generous and friendly expression.

But after drinking, Lu Yuchi politely declined Brother Han's proposal to find a place to "play" and Lu Yuchi drove aimlessly alone, too lazy to think about these things. He felt a little tired, not only today, but recently. This is Beijing, and there is no river in the city center that makes him look decent. He just wants to drive for a ride.

In fact, it is October. What is the need for a ride in a cold city? At least Lu Yuchi prefers pastoral scenery, or finds an unfamiliar small city to wander around aimlessly, but he feels more. He wants to find someone to chat, but who should he look for?

When they were tired, they could go to Wan Qianxi or Linger. Although they might not be able to help Lu Yuchi with advice, at least they could enjoy simplicity and silence, they were all in Tianjin at this time.

Wan Qianqian was even more pregnant, saying it was a "safe period", but Lu Yuchi still wanted to avoid some things. It's not that Lu Yuchi needed those things very much at this time, but people with his "habits" were with his own women, and some things were difficult to control. After He Kewan Qianqian became pregnant, she changed a lot and her emotions were extremely unstable, so she might not be able to give him peace.

In Beijing, it’s not good to find Wang Xiaomao and Han Shiqi.

Yang Mi has been sticking with Wang Xiaomao recently, but the show they made for Long Zhongyou together is about to end. After that, even if Yang Mi can free up time, she should go to Tianjin to watch the house decoration. Wang Xiaomao will then record the second season of their own "Big Truth" program last year. Don't disturb their limited intimate time. As for Han Shiqi, she can only say that she is even more tired.

Lu Yuchi didn't know that Han Shiqi was drinking and chatting with Wang Xiaomao and Yang Mi at Yang Mi's house. He was just driving the car. In fact, he thought that these useless things were also intentionally avoiding someone who was in Beijing recently, at least able to talk to him - Yang Xiaoying.

A man and a woman usually get along like friends, can tell each other's thoughts, can provide advice to each other, and occasionally engage in some "couple life", but it will not affect it. If you intervene in the other's emotional world, you will maintain a "friend" relationship. Will such a thing really happen?

Yes. At least Lu Yuchi knows that he can do it.

But there must be a reason to form this state, that is, they have feelings for each other, but they must not be together. And they cannot be together. It may be because of something that is not a good match, you have married me, one or both parties have their own children to protect, I love you but you don’t love me so much, I have hurt each other without being together, etc. Of course, it may be that the two of them are too smart, knowing that being friends is good, and living together as a couple will cause disputes and conflicts. Why bother?

Only with these reasons can there be stable results. Otherwise, once a man and a woman have non-"transaction" physical contact, and occasionally they will continue to contact each other, it will be difficult to maintain a long-term and pure friendship.

Lu Yuchi thought about this and couldn't help laughing. This was very consistent with his and Yang Xiaoying's state. He and Yang Xiaoying basically occupied both. In fact, there was one more, that is, Yang Xiaoying and Lin Na looked too similar.

Lin Na is the woman Lu Yuchi likes the most but has never had sex with her. He is not a moral model like Wang Xiaomao, but he also has people and things that he only wants to care for and cannot bear to hurt.

In the past, Yang Xiaoying was still a person who wanted to get close to Lu Yuchi without divorce, and even one day could destroy Lu Yuchi's marriage. Although such a woman always gave Lu Yuchi a flash of thoughts, she was restrained because she looked too similar to Lin Na and because she had not divorced Huang Dajin at that time.

To put it bluntly, of course it is also cruel. In Lu Yuchi's opinion at that time, Yang Xiaoying must think of Lin Na if he had sex with Yang Xiaoying, and if Yang Xiaoying became a substitute for Lin Na, it would be a blasphemy to Lin Na!

Of course, Yang Xiaoying changed later, at least for Lu Yuchi. But for this reason, except for not wanting to blaspheme Lin Na's complex still exists, he felt that Yang Xiaoying, who had no intention of having true feelings for him, should not become a substitute.

With so many reasons, the result of their "friendship relationship" should be more stable, right?

But while these reasons lead to the result of "relationship stability", they will inevitably be accompanied by another result, that is, this relationship is unfair to at least one of the man and woman, and will also be hurt while enjoying friendship.

After all, there are feelings between men and women who transcend friendship. Otherwise, why do you have to occasionally engage in "couple life" while being friends? Although such a relationship can make up for some regrets of not being able to be together, it is ultimately a second-rate choice, and it is easy to form inertia after all. The party who uses deeper feelings will endure not to intervene in the other party's emotional world, but it is likely to delay its own emotional world.

Lu Yuchi has been working on variety shows with Han San Ge in Beijing during this period. His women are all in Tianjin. It’s not that he doesn’t have any needs. He endured not to have sex with Yang Xiaoying, but he just wanted to control the frequency, not that he wanted to completely eliminate it.

But in the process of restraint, he vaguely thought about these questions. At this time, he was even more thorough in driving around alone. He really maintained this kind of "friend" relationship with Yang Xiaoying. Is it unfair to Yang Xiaoying? Will Yang Xiaoying also form this inertia, which will affect future happiness?

Many women remarry after divorce, and can get truly happy marriages, which are happier than the previous failed experience.

Not to mention the distance, according to the current trend, based on Lu Yuchi's understanding of his buddy's character, he felt that Yang Mi had a high probability of finding a man Wang Xiaomao who was more reliable and more happy than the previous one.
Chapter completed!