Chapter 7089: Long pain is worse than short pain
Short pain is worse than short pain? But if long pain is tolerant, you can still get some comfort. Short pain is heart-wrenching and painful, which one is better?
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Yang Xiaoying didn't interrupt and didn't react, so Lu Yuchi continued to say it, but there was always a time when he finished speaking. After Lu Yuchi finished speaking, Yang Xiaoying still didn't respond. After a few seconds, he added "I'm done" and Yang Xiaoying reacted.
This made Lu Yuchi even suspect that Yang Xiaoying might not have heard it at all just now, but this suspicion was immediately dispelled because before Lu Yuchi could express this suspicion, Yang Xiaoying explained that she had not heard Lu Yuchi just now, and retorted Lu Yuchi's words: "I'm not listening to you, I like listening to you so much, even if I don't agree with what you say..."
Of course, Yang Xiaoying refuted Lu Yuchi's plan. Conclusion: Yang Xiaoying didn't want this does not mean that Lu Yuchi was wrong, nor does it even mean that Yang Xiaoying herself thought Lu Yuchi was wrong. In fact, she felt very heartwarming when listening to Lu Yuchi's words just now, and knew that Lu Yuchi was really good for her. In addition, she liked to listen to Lu Yuchi's words, so she just smiled quietly without being anxious to argue.
But although Lu Yuchi was thinking about Yang Xiaoying, he did not really think about this issue from Yang Xiaoying's perspective or standpoint.
Yes, if Lu Yuchi and Yang Xiaoying maintain the so-called "friend" state that can occasionally have sex for a long time, they may both be addicted. While Lu Yuchi's beautiful wife and Yang Xiaoying are alone, it should be said that it is unfair to Yang Xiaoying, and it may really affect Yang Xiaoying's future emotional world. The problem is an absolutely rational inference, and it also ignores a process that will inevitably exist.
When Lu Yuchi first had sex with Yang Xiaoying during that trip to Hainan, perhaps the components of impulse and desire accounted for a large proportion. But Yang Xiaoying had already devoted herself to Lu Yuchi before that, but Lu Yuchi was drunk and couldn't remember that she had a true love for Lu Yuchi in addition to desire.
Since Yang Xiaoying was in love, she was willing to maintain such a so-called "friend" relationship with Lu Yuchi because she was subjective and objective, and could not be together for one-way and two-way reasons, and hoped to use this relationship to give herself some comfort. Then Lu Yuchi rationally helped Yang Xiaoying and cut off the relationship that had been discussed with each other, but can Yang Xiaoying fall in love with others immediately? Wouldn't Yang Xiaoying be even more painful in this process?
Of course, Lu Yuchi may say that it is better to be addicted and develop habits. After all, long pain is worse than short pain. The problem is light, but if long pain is tolerated, it can be tolerated, but it can still be comforted. Short pain is heart-wrenching and painful. Which one is better?
Moreover, Yang Xiaoying can’t even admit that her head is short and her pain is too short, because this process is bound to be long for her.
Judging from Yang Xiaoying's own reasons, she is a first-line female star in the entertainment industry. How many opportunities can she have to contact outsiders? So she understands that it is difficult for her to meet a man like Yang Mi who was still outsiders at that time. And the reason why Yang Mi met this good man outsiders at that time was because Lu Yuchi and Wang Xiaomao were looking for Yang Mi to cooperate with variety shows?
"So it's your fault for this. Why did you look for Yang Mi at that time? Maybe I'll fall in love with Brother Mao. I also like talented men, not to mention being handsome and having a absolutely good character, so I'll be happy."
"If you fall in love with him, he may fall in love with you." How could Lu Yuchi not understand that a person like Wang Xiaomao, who is almost perverted and mentally ill-fighting, give a woman who is full of scheming and intrigue at the beginning? But it seems impolite to say this, he said,
"Ah no, I mean, it's useless to say that you're not going to say this now. You can't predict what hasn't happened, let alone what can't be done again? You have to find someone outside the circle..."
Could it be that Yang Xiaoying is looking for someone in the circle? What a chaotic circle in the entertainment industry, she has been in the industry since she was a teenager? Love is also a kind of relationship that is difficult to control, so it is not easy to find a rich man or cast member in the circle that she can fall in love with, even if she finds a good man worthy of her love, she may not fall in love with.
In a circle full of opposite sex, temptations of money and fame, most of them are for the purpose of obtaining these people who work hard and even use any means. Yang Xiaoying feels that it would be lucky if she could find a man who wanted to marry her because of her beauty and wealth.
This sounds quite pessimistic, but this is reality.
I'm afraid those rich people, who are more successful than her, may just want to play with women like her. Those who are not as good as her may be in love with her or even marry her. However, some of them may have the purpose of leveraging her fame from the beginning, and some may have wanted to take good care of her at first, but this industry is still full of temptation, but she will eventually get old one day. It should be said that those men will change their minds in such a general environment, right?
But after experiencing a failed marriage in the circle, a man she fell in love with was a man like Lu Yuchi who is excellent in all aspects, although fickle but also conscientious. Although the two cannot walk together, they can maintain the so-called "friendship relationship", which is somewhat comforting, and it is out of true love, and they will not hurt each other.
So how long does it take for Yang Xiaoying to take those foreseeable risks to completely abandon such a man in her heart, find and fall in love with another man? But in this process, Lu Yuchi terminated the "friendship relationship" they had clearly agreed on and became real friends, and there was no possibility of finding some comfort?
Isn’t this a way to treat the inevitable, less painful and more comforting long pain, but it has to be treated with a short pain that is even more painful and cannot be treated as a short pain? The key is that it cannot be short.
"No, I - I'm talking about my ideas. You also said that this was something we discussed before. I won't be unilaterally... just discussing. But you can't be too pessimistic. I think it's so sinister. There will be good people in complex circles. Why can't you meet a good man? I won't..."
Lu Yuchi wanted to say that Huang Dajin was good, but think that this was quite 250. No matter who is right or wrong, Huang Dajin and Yang Xiaoying have been in love for so many years, how many years have they been married, and they have children, so they must have a emotional foundation. But they have a emotional foundation but have just divorced. There must be problems between them, and they will not be able to reconcile quickly, or even never be able to reconcile again.
"Dajin--I won't talk about it."
"hehe."
"Anyway, I believe there must be good people."
Chapter completed!