Chapter eight hundred and ninety-four distance produces awe II
Meeting strangers is the origin of fear. Otherwise, no matter how scary things are, once you become accustomed to them, you won't be so scared anymore.
……………………
"You are quite open-minded," Han Shiqi said with a smile to Wang Mao Mao.
"If I can't look away - what's the use? If you guard and stare at one person every day, not only will this person not be afraid of you, but they will also develop a rebellious mentality. The less you want it to happen,
, the more she has the urge to do it.
Human nature is to resist, resist nature, and resist ourselves. Look at this sheep, it will basically give up resisting after running a few steps when encountering a tiger. Humans are also afraid of tigers and cannot defeat tigers, but we only think of resisting so that we have a chance to evolve.
To this day.
Sheep don't want to resist tigers. They don't resist even humans who are not very strong, and they have become domestic animals today. Sheep don't resist, but will they resist if they evolve into Yangmi? So why should I worry about it?"
"Hahaha, you cross talk talkers..."
The two were chatting and laughing, and Yang Mi suddenly called. Wang Xiaomao had adapted to the fact that Yang Mi would have a long phone call every day, but this time Yang Mi was not trying to relieve the longing of not being able to see each other, but
I want to complain to Wangmao Mao.
In the past few days when Yang Mi got along with her daughter, she gradually discovered that her daughter was a little strange to her. This was not surprising, after all, it took a long time to see her. The problem was that she also found that her daughter seemed a little afraid of her.
How many days can she stay with her daughter? How long has she not seen her daughter before? So she is eager to get close to her daughter. She is anxious, but her daughter is unfamiliar and she naturally shows resistance, and she will say some joking or slightly threatening words.
These words are normal between any parent and child, but my daughter was so frightened that she cried.
When her daughter cried, she cried too. In addition to feeling sorry for her daughter, she was also sad for her daughter's fear when she faced her. So while her daughter was sleeping in another room, she went to Wangmao Mao for some comfort and advice.
"Do you think it's because her father always speaks ill of me, so my daughter thinks I'm a bad person? How could he be like this?"
"If you listen to the truth, I can only say that it is possible. After all, you are divorced. If it is so peaceful and you still love each other, why divorce? But your daughter follows him, you can't change it in the short term, right? So if he
If you really say it, but you insist on saying it, there is nothing you can do to change it.
So since you can't change him, you have to think more about your own problems." Wang Mao Mao lit a cigarette and continued, "What you just said about being strange and scared is actually the same thing.
Meeting strangers is the origin of fear. Otherwise, no matter how scary things are, once you become accustomed to them, you won't be so scared anymore.
So if you spend more time with your daughter, what else does she have to fear from you? It doesn’t matter if your ex-husband really says something bad about you. If you meet your daughter often, she will make her own judgment even if she is young."
"Well, Brother Cat is right. But I really don't have so much time. Our place is far away from here. Every time I come, he often pushes me back. I can't wait here to waste time with him."
"As I said just now, his problems are his problems. You also have problems yourself. Your own problems are not easy to solve for a while. How to solve his problems? Don't be too anxious. You can't fight even if you can't meet in person.
Phone? Take your time..."
After hanging up Yang Mi's phone, Wang Mao Mao continued to chat with Han Shiqi. What Wang Mao Mao didn't quite understand was that at this time, when traveling to Hong Kong, non-locals were required to be quarantined. Why did Han Shiqi have to come here?
It's simple because it's cheap.
In the past, Hong Kong stars were paid very well when they came to the mainland. In fact, it is still high now, but it is higher than their salary in Hong Kong. But now it is difficult for most of them to play leading roles in mainland film and television productions. What they call "
"High" is also very low compared to mainland first-line male and female protagonists. But with Hong Kong stars, at least in recent years it can be used as a selling point.
Han Shiqi knew that the "heroine" of this drama must be Wan Qianqian, and the heroine was of course Yang Mi. The important supporting roles were confirmed to be Yang Xiaoying and Wang Xinran. It happened that the Hong Kong director contacted Han Shiqi and recommended some actors, so Han Shiqi simply wanted to come over.
Select some to serve as other supporting roles. At the same time, only if he leaves Tianjin and can go back to a place that is not easy to say, can he really follow what Lu Yuchi said, endure less visits to the company, and carry out the kind of disappearing management.
Wang Xiaomao was not interested in management, but Han Shiqi’s previous words touched him deeply.
The generation born in the 1980s has a strong attachment to Hong Kong films and Hong Kong Philharmonic. After all, they have personally experienced and witnessed the most glorious period of the Hong Kong entertainment industry in the 1980s and 1990s. By the time the generation born in the 1990s was either too young to appreciate it, or they were too young to appreciate it,
It is a classic that will be looked back on that era later.
In the 1980s and 1990s, the Hong Kong entertainment industry was full of talented people and had endless classics, but they were familiar yet strange to us, and their unique culture of combining earth and foreign made them invisibly filling our hearts.
A "filter" of novelty and even awe.
But the "filter" will eventually fall apart, and after the 1990s, the strength and quality of Hong Kong's artists and works have indeed declined somewhat, with some resting on their laurels, which has led to today's complete decline.
In Hong Kong's entertainment industry today, there are artists who are still active, have status, and have appeal to mainland audiences - without exception, they have all started cooperating with their mainland counterparts since the late 1990s, or even earlier.
Frequent activities in the Mainland.
Of course, among the artists who came to the mainland for frequent activities in the late 1990s and early 2000s, there were also some relatively young artists who relied on their status as Hong Kong stars to be aloof, perfunctory, and purely to make money.
Psychologically, and the mainland entertainment industry did take special care and pampering of them at that time, which also contributed to the decline in their reputation.
Familiar faces of Hong Kong stars flashed in Wang Xiaomao's mind, bringing to mind the audio-visual works that he was once crazy about. He thought about how some of them were arrogant, self-righteous, ungrounded in cultural output, and did not want to make progress.
After seeing the current decline, I feel a sense of sadness in my heart.
So is today's mainland entertainment industry something to be proud of and has it really risen? Wang Mao Mao doesn't think so.
Hong Kong's entertainment industry started and commercialized earlier, and has a wealth of technology and experience. But it is precisely because of this that they can rest on their laurels and turn creation into an assembly line operation. This is true for both screenwriting and shooting methods. They do not follow the local atmosphere of the mainland.
I have no new ideas of my own.
Chapter completed!