Chapter 327(1/2)
Didn't sleep all night because of the breakup?
Real or fake? It’s not like Gao Yun’s style...
Shen Qiongxiao on the other end of the phone was also suspicious and remained silent for a few seconds before saying, "I'll be there in a moment."
Gao Yun asked: "To return the bracelet?"
Shen Qiongxiao was very polite: "Then I'll apologize to my uncle and aunt. After all, I dumped you without any legitimate reason. I didn't do it right."
"Need not."
Gao Yun said softly: "I did something wrong. There is really no need to apologize. Just leave the things with you and there is no need to return them. I thought about it carefully and found that the bracelet my mother gave you had no special meaning. I just want to express my gratitude to you for giving me extra lessons. Even if you repay her, she will never accept it even if she breaks it on the spot. Besides, what you think is relatively simple. The bond between you and me cannot be broken so easily. Broken..."
"It's not that I think it's simple, it's that you think too much."
Shen Qiongxiao said: "Time will cut off everything."
Gao Yun ignored it and continued: "The three-person security team I have selected for you is already on the way. It will arrive this afternoon. You can try it out for a while. This is the last thing I promised you as my boyfriend yesterday. One thing, I hope you don't refuse. If you refuse, then I introduced this security team as an ordinary friend. If ordinary friends can't do it, then I introduced it to you as a boss... Originally, their salary was mine. The plan is not expensive, six million yuan a year, but now that we have broken up, in order to avoid you thinking too much, you should pay it yourself."
"Thanks."
Shen Qiongxiao was still polite.
Gao Yun continued to be considerate: "What time did you go to bed yesterday?"
"..." Shen Qiongxiao didn't reply.
Gao Yun asked with concern: "You're not going to sleep all night like me, are you?"
Shen Qiongxiao said bluntly: "I chatted with Qiu Ting and the others yesterday and went to bed at eleven o'clock. Also, does this have anything to do with you? We have broken up. Don't say such things again."
"Oh, I'm just doing this out of the boss' concern for his subordinates."
Gao Yun glanced at the clock on the wall, and his tone seemed to be very casual: "Remember to go to work on time today. From now on, all senior executives in Yunxiao will also have to clock in. Wages will be deducted for late arrivals, early departures, and unexcused absences."
What does this mean?
Shen Bowen and Fang Yun looked puzzled.
"Is there anything else?"
Gao Yun blinked at the confused Shen Bowen and Fang Yun, hinting not to interrupt, and said: "I won't go to the company today, and I'm on leave from school. I need to coax my parents. However, if nothing happens in the future, I will spend more time dealing with work matters, and take time to visit Yunxiao every day. Now I want to say something to you and Mr. Fang."
Shen Qiongxiao was silent for a moment and said: "I hope you can distinguish between public and private affairs, stop entangled emotionally, and respect each other, otherwise I will resign immediately."
"What are you talking about!"
Fang Yun couldn't help but criticize: "Do you think you are playing house? Is this what you said?"
Shen Bowen also supported him and said seriously: "Why are you resigning? You are a member of the board of directors and the chief operating officer of Yunxiao. How can you be so irresponsible..."
"!"
Gao Yun quickly waved his hand and made a silence gesture to interrupt the two of them. He picked up the phone and said calmly: "Am I pestering you? Am I harassing you? I am now officially telling you Shen Qiongxiao, don't overestimate yourself. You're not that charming! I, Gao Yun, am not the kind of man who can't afford to let go. From now on, you should concentrate on your work and don't think too much about personal matters. Otherwise, I will fire you first without waiting for you to resign."
"Secondly, even if you resign, you will still own 37% of Yunxiao's equity. Yunxiao's career is a dream shared by you, me, all shareholders and employees, and it will not change even if we break up. Her purpose is to help all mankind cultivate
Shape a sound way of cognition and thinking, so that everyone can stick to their own independent personality, and everyone can expand their depth for the happiness of others... This is far more important than your and my personal emotional issues!! We are insignificant.
,Do you understand?!"
"..."
Gao Yun's tone slowed down slightly: "This is not that I am working with my uncles and aunts to deal with you, but to explain the facts. There is another thing that I want to inform you in advance."
"explain!"
Gao Yun paused slightly and said softly: "If I find a new girlfriend in the near future, I hope you can treat it with a normal mind and don't lose your temper and resign because you don't want to see me again. That's very irresponsible."
Performance."
"Ha~ You already have a new girlfriend? What am I talking about!"
Lu Qing's weak laughter came from the phone's microphone, followed by a busy tone of "Du~Du~Du~".
The phone was hung up...
"Xiaoyun, what do you mean?" Fang Yun was confused.
Gao Yun estimated that Shen Qiongxiao's mood on the other end should be calm on the surface, but in fact he was so angry that he didn't bother to talk to him anymore. Otherwise, he wouldn't have hung up the phone unilaterally and felt relieved.
It's good if you can arouse the other party's emotions, but if it's a pool of stagnant water, it will be difficult to deal with.
He returned the phone to Fang Yun and said warmly: "Aunt Fang, Uncle Shen, you two can see that even if we break up, we still have feelings. What I just told her was actually just to help us get back together in the future.
"
'Loss aversion' is a well-known psychological effect. The general idea is that people hate losing very much. The pain caused by losing something requires twice the gain to offset it. For example, if you pick up a hundred dollars outside,
You threw it away again when you got home. Logically speaking, you have neither lost money nor gained money, so you should be at peace inside. But the fact is, you will still feel pity in your heart, and you will feel depressed, and your thoughts will be turbulent, which may last for a long time.
They will never forget this.
Expand and dig deeper with this psychological effect, and it can also be used in interpersonal communication and getting along between the sexes. It is called "reversal" and is a type of push and pull. It refers to showing two different or opposite attitudes towards others before and after.
Characteristics such as attitude, personality, purpose, etc., through the strong contrast between before and after, have an "unexpected" impact on the psychology of others.
Similarly, ‘anti-skimming’ also applies to couples who have just broken up and want to get back together.
Gao Yun's phone call with Shen Qiongxiao just now took advantage of this. He first told the other party through Fang Yun and Shen Bowen that he was now in a "miserable" and "love-trapped" state, which would make Shen Qiongxiao feel more distressed, sad, and regretful.
When Fang Yun couldn't stand it and started to accuse his daughter and asked her to come over immediately, he stood up to stop her, put herself in someone else's shoes, showed consideration and respect, and dispelled Shen Qiongxiao's pressure, rebellion and defensiveness. Then, Gao Yun
He also tried to please him very tactfully, showing concern and love to him, which made him feel as if he had just picked up a hundred dollars.
In the end, after Shen Qiongxiao clearly showed a bored and disgusting attitude, and said, "I will resign if you continue to pester me", Gao Yun did not persist in stalking, but instead beat her up, showing even more ruthlessness than her. This was a sudden retreat and decisiveness.
Taking the one hundred dollars she had 'picked up' away from her hand aroused her loss aversion and rebellious psychology.
The best way to recover is to make use of human nature and seize the weaknesses of human nature.
Shen Qiongxiao doesn't have many weaknesses. The most critical weakness is that she still has love for Gao Yun. Of course, this is also Gao Yun's weakness.
Even if two people break up, they will still be angry when they see each other find a new partner, especially Gao. He will definitely fly into a rage and jump over the wall... Therefore, he immediately found a bodyguard team for Shen Qiongxiao, for protection, secretly. Always monitor its movements to prevent this from happening.
It happened that the two of them had discussed hiring a bodyguard before they broke up, and Shen Qiongxiao agreed without much resistance.
It is now the twelfth hour after the breakup. Gao Yun wakes up and for the first time begins to carry out purposeful and effective actions. Regardless of whether he can get back together with Shen Qiongxiao or not, he has no intention of letting go of the woman who has hurt him. It leaves a deep imprint on both the body and soul levels...
Damn, half a year of my youth was wasted. When we broke up, I was so sad that I vomited. I still want to pat my butt and walk away as if nothing happened?! How can it be so cheap!
"You two are right. I am Shen Qiongxiao's first love. I am also a man. I should be responsible and tolerant. I will definitely take responsibility for the responsibilities I should bear, so I insist on staying with her. "
Gao Yun explained to Shen Bowen and Fang Yun in a few words the reason for his attitude on the phone, and then said calmly: "But getting back together requires methods, and I can't just wishful thinking. Secondly, this is a matter between the two of us. I hope my uncle and aunt won't do too much." Participate and don’t put pressure on Shen Qiongxiao.”
"In addition, it won't be long before there will be some women around me who deliberately show that they are living a free and happy life to annoy her. This is just a temporary measure. I hope my uncle and aunt can understand."
"Well, it's best to say goodbye..."
Fang Yun and Shen Bowen frowned when they heard this, and wanted to dissuade them, but there was no valid reason. After all, the two of them had broken up. In principle, they would look for whomever they wanted, not to mention that it sounded like they were looking for a girlfriend to get back together.
This fucking nonsense sounds quite reasonable.
Based on the couple's understanding of their daughter, this trick may still be effective. However, it is very possible for the fake act to turn around and forget about Shen Qiongxiao!
After a moment of silence, Shen Bowen hesitated and said: "Your parents..."
Gao Yun let out a long sigh: "Let me explain it. Let's just say that there was a personality incompatibility and a little conflict, which was unilaterally caused by me. You two should not see each other for the time being, otherwise it will be more or less embarrassing."
"That's fine, that's fine."
Fang Yun and Shen Bowen expressed their apologies for their daughter very tactfully, then played the emotional card to ask Gao Yun to make persistent efforts to get back together, and then got up and left.
Gao Yun also walked to the door to say goodbye, and suddenly found a very interesting scene. Shen Bowen actually opened the car door for Fang Yun, and the latter was also a little surprised, and raised his head to look at him a few more times.
It seems that this couple listened to Gao's words and are trying to repair their relationship that was already in name only?
Gao Yun is deeply gratified by this. Although the way the two have been getting along now has been maintained for more than ten years, change is not easy. However, everything is good if it starts from the beginning.
Mount Tai does not allow soil, so it can grow into its great size; rivers and seas do not tolerate small streams, so it can grow into its depth.
The essence of the hatred between this couple is that the man was the first to destroy the love and connection, and then the woman took revenge and parted ways...
When two people can one day calmly and willingly admit the mistakes they have made, the harm they have caused to them, and sincerely repent.
Realize that "it is wrong for him (she) to betray me, but it does not mean that he (she) is an essentially bad person." Then the two people have reached a reconciliation, and even if they cannot fall in love again, they will not be hostile to each other. It will affect Shen Qiongxiao, improve her happiness, and gradually change her twisted concept of love.
"Pick up a conversation (expert level) 96% ~ 99%"
"I'm really a little genius~"
Gao Yun shook his head and smiled, then turned and walked into the villa to wash up and fix his appearance. His parents would be here soon. Fang Yun and Shen Bowenbo could sympathize with him in this state, but it was absolutely impossible to see them.
…
At nine o'clock, the train from Hushi to Capital Railway Station arrived on time.
Baozhen and two Gurkha bodyguards, Baoren and Baoren, were waiting here in three Maybachs respectively. When Gao Zhishan and his party appeared from the exit, they immediately stepped forward to greet them.
"Sir, madam, I am your son's security guard named Baozhen. I am here to pick you up."
Secretary Qin had arranged everything for picking him up from the station. When the notice arrived, Lao Gao knew that there was no need for his son to pick him up personally. They were all family members and no one would care. There was no need to be vain.
This posture was quite impressive, with three Maybachs and three bodyguards all foreigners, which attracted many passers-by to watch.
To be continued...