Lin Zirou's conclusion left Liu Jianfeng speechless for a while. Although it was far-fetched, it made sense.

Judging a woman's success by marrying well has been the standard from ancient times to the present. It is the pursuit of modern women to not only marry well, but also be the master of the family and have her husband obey his words.

The so-called marriage of love, respecting each other as guests, sharing the joys and sorrows, sharing the honor and disgrace can only be the lines of the wedding emcee, and it is a matter of talking and listening.

Lin Zirou couldn't bear Liu Jianfeng's sharp comments and had no choice but to change the channel again.

I used to like watching dating shows, but now that I have a boyfriend who flatters me, I naturally don’t need to watch them anymore.

So, she changed to another emotional program, and the topic was specifically about divorce.

That is, some couples who have marriage problems go on the show and openly state their conflicts, allowing the audience to comment, experts to comment, and the host to adjust. There are many weird reasons, so Liu Jianfeng watched it for a few times.

He commented again: "Hey, this show is a companion piece to the dating show just now, a sequel.

Look, during the blind date just now, the woman wanted a car, a house, and money. She didn't want to honor her parents-in-law, but she asked her husband to honor her parents-in-law, and even asked her children to take their mother's surname.

Look at this emotional show again. All the barbaric demands made before marriage have become mines laid in future marriages and can explode anytime and anywhere."

Lin Zirou smiled. Liu Jianfeng always looked at problems from such a novel and cunning angle, but he was right. The two programs seemed to be the first part and the second part, just like the cause and effect cycle in Buddhism.

The woman's excessive or even greedy demands before marriage are beyond the scope of wedding customs. They are more like a transaction, and the price is raised from the ground up.

As the saying goes, don't talk about money. Talking about money hurts your relationship, not to mention asking for financial benefits for the purpose of marriage, which is a huge blow to your relationship. There are old people who have committed suicide because they were unable to pay the high betrothal gifts for their sons to marry their wives. How many of them have committed suicide?

The family fell into poverty overnight just to buy a wedding house.

Just like the guest couple on the show at this time, the main conflict in their marriage is poverty. They are both ordinary working-class people, but they have a lot of fixed expenses every month, including mortgages, car loans, and children’s education expenses.

The daily expenses are almost as high as those of people living on moonlight.

The cause of this conflict was that the wife was shown off a new style of dress by several colleagues at work. She was so vain that she overdrafted her credit card and bought a set of popular models. As a result, her husband found out and this caused a family conflict. The two even had a fist fight.

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Now that I'm going to divorce, I go on a show to express my grievances and ask everyone to comment.

It is difficult for upright officials to take care of household chores. Who can say clearly about this kind of thing? Some people complain that the salary is too low, some say that the expenses are too high, some say that men do not work hard, some say that women are too spendthrift, and the husband complains that his parents-in-law were born in the age of Leo.

She opened her mouth and asked for a huge amount of betrothal gifts, and received no gifts in return. They all went to support her brother-in-law. As a result, the couple had no savings, and the wife complained that her husband did not know how to feel sorry for her.

Lin Zirou glanced at Liu Jianfeng and asked, "Yuanfang, what do you think?"

Liu Jianfeng immediately stopped massaging and took advantage of the situation and switched to caressing. Before Lin Zirou noticed it, he said, "Sir, it's fine for me to just sit and watch."

Lin Zirou glared at him and said, "I ask, what would you do if it were you?"

"If it were me?" Liu Jianfeng said with a smile: "Of course I will support you, Huahuahua, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy."

You buy it.”

Liu Jianfeng told the truth. The yellow dress today was bought with borrowed money. Of course, if he said this, everyone would definitely be kicked out of the male team.

Lin Zirou glanced disdainfully. Indeed, with her current net worth, she has already achieved financial freedom, that is, she has already reached the point where she can make money while lying down. Even if the company goes bankrupt,

Her personal assets are enough to provide her with food and clothing for three lifetimes.

In this case, there are naturally no worries about money, so Liu Jianfeng naturally dares to say nice things. She thought about it and asked again: "What I mean is, if I weren't a CEO, we would both change the show

Men and women in China, faced with such a problem, what would you do?"

"You have a typical mentality of having enough to eat. After you get rich, you have never dreamed of living a life of hardship and suffering for a few days, right?" Liu Jianfeng said helplessly: "Everyone has his own life, why bother to put yourself in it?

Is it just adding trouble to other people’s lives?”

"Just for fun, I know what you would do if I were you?" Lin Zirou said more seriously: "As the saying goes, a friend in need is a friend indeed, and a poor and humble couple will suffer through everything. Only in this way can we see the truest side of a person."

"There are so many fun things to do. How about we play something else? I will introduce you to a new game. It is imported from abroad, especially a very popular game in Japan. The scene is simple and two people can play it very happily.

." Liu Jianfeng said while touching her leg.

As if she had been burned, Lin Zirou immediately retracted her beautiful legs and said: "Don't do this, you gangster. I just want to ask you what you would do if you were a character in the show. If you don't want to play, just pull him down."

"Okay, okay, let's have fun." Liu Jianfeng thought for a while and said: "Actually, if you want to solve a problem, you must first find the crux of the problem. Cause and effect, there is cause and effect, so we must solve it from the root cause."

"The root of the problem for these two couples is poverty, how to solve it?" Lin Zirou asked.

"No." Liu Jianfeng shook his head and said: "According to the man's description, he was not poor before. The reason why he became poor after marriage was that before marriage, his parents-in-law asked for a huge amount of betrothal gifts to support his brother-in-law. This is the new

The story of selling a daughter to raise a son is not uncommon in this era.

Therefore, if they had just paid the bride price according to normal standards, or their parents' family had given some gifts in return, they would have had a certain amount of savings. As the saying goes, if the family has enough food, they will not panic, and they will have a certain amount of money to continue spending.

, even if the spending exceeds occasionally, it will not cause such a big contradiction.

Therefore, the crux of their problem lies in the huge betrothal gift that was used to suck up the man and take it away. If they want to solve it, they have to think of a solution from this point of view.

If it were me and my parents-in-law asked for such a huge betrothal gift and it was impossible not to give it, then I would choose to pay it in installments.

The betrothal gift of 100,000 yuan is divided into ten years, or even twenty years, and is paid to a few hundred thousand yuan every month. This can ensure that you have savings in your hands, and the monthly repayments will not affect the quality of life, and, most importantly,

She is still a wife!

There is nothing you can do about the mortgage and car loan, but it is already very uncomfortable to pay it every month. If you still have to pay part of it to your parents-in-law, I believe that within a few months of repayment, your wife will become anxious and may even take the initiative.

I had a quarrel with my parents when I got home and refused to pay from now on. You know, after you get married, the young couple is a family!"

"It's your fault!" After hearing this, Lin Zirou gave a thumbs up sincerely: "Thank you for thinking about it!"

Lin Zirou is also considered a business elite. If you think about it carefully, you will know that Liu Jianfeng's method is very feasible. The woman asks for the gift, firstly for money, and secondly for face, but no one wants to be poked in the back and accused of selling their daughter.

Therefore, this installment payment is very good. I can honestly say that my uncle promised to give a gift of 100,000 yuan, and he will give a part of it every month. It seems that he is filial and caring for the elderly every month. Over time, for example, the wife wants to

Buying something requires extra expenses, but the mortgage and car loan cannot be repaid, so I can only use my brains on my parents' money.

This is not only a method during life, but also a method to sow discord, to divide the degree of intimacy between the daughter-in-law and her natal family, and to completely draw the daughter-in-law into his own camp. And this is how it should be. After marrying someone, this family is

your home.

"Okay, are you satisfied with my solution?" Liu Jianfeng said with a smile: "You are just shedding tears watching the Three Kingdoms and worrying about the ancients. Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite. Let's just live our lives well.

Well, just don’t let your father ask for a huge betrothal gift from me."

"Hmph, you can't tell. My dad loves face most, and he is even more afraid that I will be defrauded of money and sex by bad people. If he finds out, he will inevitably make things difficult for you," Lin Zirou said.

"It doesn't matter. Although we have never met, we have similar interests. We will definitely hit it off in the future." Liu Jianfeng said with a smile: "Actually, I have prepared a meeting gift for him when the old man will show up."

"What kind of meeting gift?" Lin Zirou asked.

Liu Jianfeng opened the mobile shopping app and said to Lin Zirou: "It will be delivered tomorrow."

Lin Zirou came over to take a look, and her face suddenly turned red with embarrassment. The gift was a book called "A Guide to Scientific Practice for the Elderly"!

Lin Zirou blushed but did not curse, which surprised Liu Jianfeng and asked quickly: "How about it? Does the gift I chose also suit your liking?"

"Smelly scoundrel!" Lin Zirou cursed angrily, and then said helplessly: "I'm very worried about the old man's health. He's a bit too weak. It would be nice if you could help me persuade him."

"By the way, let's talk about daily life. It's much better than this meaningless program." Liu Jianfeng turned off the TV and couldn't wait to ask: "Tell me about the old man, your only blood relative, and let me know more about him.

From now on, I can honor him with you."

"Hmph, you want to hear about his glorious deeds, right?" Lin Zirou hummed, "It's okay to tell you about it. It's also a warning to you."

Lin Zirou said helplessly: "The book you bought is really useful to her father. This old man now bears the name of the chairman of Lin Group, has a net worth of hundreds of millions, and lives like a fairy every day.

There is one bad thing about life, she is too sexy.

With this worth and status, there are too many temptations in society, and there are countless women who throw themselves into his arms. Fortunately, the old man does not refuse all comers, and he also knows that he needs to exercise restraint as he gets older, so he only chooses the ones he is compatible with."

Speaking of this, Liu Jianfeng nodded wildly. From the acacia chairs and dragon and phoenix beds in the previous villa, we could see how much the two of them were in love. It was not easy to find a woman who could accept this kind of standard.

"Actually, this can't be entirely blamed on my father. He is not such a person by nature. He and my mother have lived a peaceful life for many years." Lin Zirou tried to cover up her father's shame: "It's just that this society is too complicated. In the past, He always said that first-class men have homes outside their homes, second-class men have flowers outside their homes, third-class men look for homes among flowers, fourth-class men come home from get off work, fifth-class men have wives who are not at home, and sixth-class men have no wives. Home.

In particular, the old man heard a story before, saying that a boss kept a young lover, bought a suite for 800,000 yuan to accommodate the lover, and paid the lover 10,000 yuan a month for maintenance. Five years later, the two

They broke up and went their separate ways. The boss sold the property, which was worth 2 million. Taking into account the maintenance fee and the purchase price, the boss had been with his lover for five years and still made a net profit of 600,000.

After hearing this story, Lao Lintou immediately became energetic and inspired to become a special man. According to him, a special man regards the country as his home. Now, he has already lived in 32 cities and counties in 613 provinces in the south, seven north and south.

Bought a house, 'settled down',

He always said to me: ‘Dad, go out and make money for you!’”
Chapter completed!