Zhang Yanming lit a cigarette himself and asked Zhang Yanwu: "Can you keep up with your studies? Tell you, you can't learn without Luo Jing. You two have to promote each other and not delay each other."

Luo Jing blushed and glared at Zhang Yanming. Zhang Yanwu laughed a few times and shook his head: "No, I have to do things in the future."

"Yeah." Zhang Yanming nodded: "People must always be sober and know what they can do in the future. Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. To accomplish things, they must be able to manage themselves."

As brothers, brothers, and Zhang Yanming are not easy to say about things like eating marrow, and they can only give a few words indirectly. They have to rely on themselves for their own reasons.

As for the success of a person's life, it depends entirely on whether he can manage himself well. This depends on his understanding and cannot be obtained.

In his twenties, he was at the age of being willing to show off. He dared to face everything and challenge everything. He felt that he was going to be omnipotent and not take everything in the world and was full of edges.

I have to wait until I leave the ivory tower, roll in the torrent of society, and be polished and covered in bruises, before I can realize it later.

Human desires are infinite, and various physical needs are everywhere. People always do things against themselves and compete with their physical perception for independence and control.

This is a very contradictory thing.

The body is your own, and the spirit is also your own. The brain lives on the body and the spirit. But from childhood to adulthood, from brain to body, all kinds of needs and desires are always put forward.

And none of these desires is good for them.

Perhaps there are benefits, but we cannot feel them. For example, obesity, indulgence, pain and injury. Perhaps extreme death is the final pursuit of the spirit and the body, which is opposite to our life itself.

Greedy, sleepy, playful, greedy for lust, indulge in yourself, fear of hardship, fatigue, and hard work, and then want to gain infinitely. There is no such good thing in the world.

The essence of everything is contradictory and opposing.

Those who can self-discipline and manage themselves well will undoubtedly succeed in the end. This has nothing to do with any religion, so it is not management, but self-abuse.

...

The three of them sat on the stool, basking in the warm spring sun, chatting casually for a while, mostly Zhang Yanwu was talking and Zhang Yanming was listening.

This child has a somewhat restrained personality in front of outsiders and doesn’t like to talk much, but he is a little talkative person in front of his family. In fact, many people have this personality and don’t know how it was formed.

"Yanwu is here. Xiaojing. Why don't you enter the house?" Sun Hongye came out of the backyard with an empty basin.

"Second Sister-in-law." Luo Jing shouted and stood up.

"Hot to have a chat while basking in the sun. Why are you doing a basin?" Zhang Yanming asked.

"I let the clothes be hung behind me. I was too lazy to throw them away, so I just hang them. I remember there are two pieces here that I have worn. Are the kids sleeping?"

"I've washed it," Zhang Yanming pointed to the dry clothes: "You went to bed when you left, and even peeded all over me before going to bed. It was penetrated from the inside to the outside, and the sofa was wet."

"You didn't remove it?" Sun Hongye looked inside through the crack in the door.

"I didn't remove it, wipe it."

"You have to take it off and wash it, otherwise it will smell good if it gets dry."

"Isn't that normal? Who has such a big child in the house who doesn't have a scent of urine and milk?"

"Now the child has started eating, which is different from before." Sun Hongye entered the house and took off the sofa in a short while.

When children eat milk, the feces and urine don’t smell much. Once they start eating complementary foods and vegetables, the taste will come up all of a sudden.

"I'll do it, you talk to Xiaojing." Zhang Yanming reached out to take the basin and went to wash the cloth.

"Second brother is still washing clothes?" Luo Jing was a little surprised.

"Well, he is very diligent in washing clothes and cooking, and helping the children clean the house. Who doesn't work at home?" Sun Hongye didn't feel anything wrong, so he looked at Luo Jing in surprise.

"My dad won't do it. Zhang Yanwu probably will be in trouble in the future. Besides, my second brother is such a big boss, why don't you hire a nanny?"

"There are cleaning people at home. The yard is big and I can't do it myself. Washing clothes is not a big job, right? I rub it around and there are heavy ones, and there are washing machines.

You have to live a life if you do anything. What’s wrong with the boss? What’s the difference? Life is like this.

I feel uncomfortable finding a nanny to come to do laundry, cook and wait for the child. I don’t have that habit and have to do these things. Isn’t that a waste of people? Life is boring."

Zhang Yanwu curled his lips: "My second aunt can't let me go, I must scold you."

Sun Hongye glared at Zhang Yanwu: "You know a lot."

Hehe, Zhang Yanwu grabbed his scalp.

At the beginning, Zhang Yanming had hired two nannies to serve Zhang's mother and father, and asked Zhang's mother to reject it.

Zhang Yanming himself has never had the idea of ​​hiring a nanny. He has both hands and feet, but it is not so comfortable for many people at home.

When two people live together, daily housework and other things are also a kind of adjustment and happiness.

As for Sun Hongye, I never thought about this. As long as Zhang Yanming didn't want her to do anything at home, she even washed her pants, so what kind of nanny is there? Is the nanny so considerate and at ease?

There is no way to clean the yard. There are dozens of rooms in front and behind, and the yard is more than a thousand square meters. It is impossible to clean it up by yourself. If you don’t wipe the stool of the corridor for a few days, you won’t be able to see it.

In fact, there is no need to exaggerate this matter. Everyone has their own ideas and their own way of living, and there is no need to say anything. Just live comfortably and soak yourself clearly on your feet.

"I will definitely have to find a nanny in the future. I will definitely not be able to handle it by letting me clean up like this every day. It's okay to do it occasionally. He will definitely not do anything in that group." Luo Jing glanced at Zhang Yanwu.

In fact, there are many people who do well in the home of the old man who do laundry, cooking, and taking care of his children, but there are always people who like to do something and don’t like to do it. There is no difference between good and bad, it is purely a personal habit.

It’s true that people say machismo, but this machismo does not mean that they do nothing at home.

Outside the pass is the least boyish area in history. The son-in-law has a very high status. He is really a son who has work and food, and he has no children at all.

On the contrary, my son is a little unreliable. When he has an object, he goes to work and shows his attention.

"If you don't want to do it, just look for someone who is older and reliable, but it's better to take care of the child yourself."

"Well, that's sure, the child must not be handed over to others, and my parents can't give in."

Sun Hongye smiled and looked at Zhang Yanwu: "I listened to what this said. Xiao Wu is ready to go to your house to insert a door?"

Luo Jing blushed: "No, no, sister-in-law~~, what are you saying? There are no boys in our family, so someone has to pick you up in such a big snare. My dad always can't do it when he gets old.

At that time, my uncle and aunt will come over, it would be great to live together, and why should I score inside and outside?"

"I don't want it." Zhang Yanwu shook his head: "You and my sister will take it, I'll do it myself. I'll go to Qindao to do it, hehe."

"Do you love to go?" Luo Jing rolled her eyes.

"Don't make a decision now if it's going to happen several years later." Sun Hongye hugged Luo Jing.
Chapter completed!