Chapter 1561 What else can I do? I can't beat it
"I didn't think about it." Teacher Wang blushed and felt very embarrassed.
In fact, she herself had thought about this and knew that this was nothing to Zhang Yanming's family, and she couldn't even count on the matter. But one code was one code, why should she help you repeatedly?
"It's okay, you're a friend when you meet. Getting married is a big deal, so it's up to us to help you. Besides, we just built a house, and it's not for you for nothing. We have to sell it normally."
Zhang Yanming said to Sun Hongye: "It's not easy to work with. They both go to school here. Where is our nearest property? Transportation is a big problem all year round, and it's not a matter of one day or two."
Sun Hongye thought for a while and said, "The closest to this place is the community in Xizhimen. It should be less than four kilometers. I just don't know if the bus is easy to take. Otherwise, you can buy another bus, which is convenient."
"Ah?" Teacher Wang was so arrogant. When buying a house, the money in the hands of the two people plus the old man on both sides could buy it. At most, he could borrow some money and pay it back slowly. Buy a car?
Although cars are no longer so mysterious in the past two years and private cars are indeed increasing, they are still not as good as buying a car like shoes.
For most people in this era, buying a car is really like a dream. In 2001, the total sales of passenger cars in total were less than 800,000, which are all passenger models.
Until the end of 2004, the number of private cars in China was less than 6 million. This is the national data. It reached 11.49 million by the end of 2006.
The cars on the street are all from public units.
"Yes, you both are teachers and work in the same unit. It's so cost-effective to buy a car and it's also convenient." Sun Hongye nodded.
"But, we don't have money, why can't a car cost tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands? What should I buy it? Change it for myself?"
"The car is not that expensive now. Xiali is 70,000 or 80,000 yuan, and Shenlong is just over 100,000 yuan. It's not that you have to buy Audi and BMW." Sun Hongye is familiar with the prices of cars on the market because of his work in arranging the sales and display of his own cars during this period.
"Then we don't have money, we can make up the money for buying a house. We don't even have 50,000 yuan together... He can get the best if he doesn't save money."
Now you have to pay at least 30% of your house to buy, and then apply for a loan. Some communities even pay 70% of your house. There is no unified model.
Fortunately, housing prices have not yet risen, and most people can still afford it by plucking their teeth and borrowing them: they must be families like dual-employed people in the country. Fortunately, society has not yet fully entered the free business model, and most people still have jobs.
"Are you going to borrow from your parents? Or do you want it?"
"He has a younger brother, and we plan to take his parents over to live with us and give his brother the original house so that we can use the tens of thousands of dollars in his hands.
My parents still have tens of thousands of dollars in their hands. My mother said to buy me a house... I am the only child in my family, so I don’t have to argue with anyone.”
Zhang Yanming thought about it for a while? Shaking his head: "Your plan like this... I don't think it's right. It's not a good idea."
"Why?" The two women looked at her together.
Zhang Xiaohuan tilted his head from the door and looked into the room. This guy ran out and might feel boring if he was alone, so he turned back and waved his hand to Zhang Xiaole: "Zhang Xiaole? Come? Come out."
Zhang Xiaole grabbed the two sisters and one of the clothes, and was leisurely and relaxed? He turned his head and looked at Zhang Xiaohuan, but there was no response.
"Doudou, you and Xiaoyue will take them out for fun." Zhang Yanming touched the two little girls and twisted Zhang Xiaole's face: "Don't eat jerky anymore? Have you heard that? I'll tell my grandma if I eat it again."
"Oh." Zhang Xiaole nodded? He subconsciously covered his pocket.
Zhang Yanming ignored him and said to Teacher Wang: "You have a younger brother. You are going to use his parents' money to buy a house, and then give his younger brother the house in his hometown, so that his parents can live with you in the future? Yes?"
"Well. Isn't the adoptive parents of children supposed to be? I don't hate living with the elderly." Teacher Wang nodded.
"But what about your parents? You said you were the only one in your family, and then your parents bought you all the money. They can do everything for you, so who do they rely on? Who do they live with?"
"Ah? I, I can take care of them. We can both of us, he can do it."
"It's OK now, what's the future? In the future, you are older and have children, and there are two elderly people living in your home. How can you take care of your parents?
To put it bluntly, what if your parents and his parents get sick at the same time in the future and have children at home, how can you two play?
For example, if his parents are sick and living with you in Xizhimen, how can you go back to take care of your parents? If your parents are sick and you have two elderly people and children in your family, how can you go back to take care of your parents?
Do you understand what I mean? The older your parents get, the more you need to take care of them. And you are getting older. You have to have children and work, and there will only be more and more things.
Some things are simple to think about and easy to see, but they will be very difficult to do. They are not subjectively controlled by you, but are controlled by objective conditions. No matter how hard you work subjectively, it is useless."
Sun Hongye stuck out his tongue and said to Teacher Wang: "I feel what he said makes sense. Think about it carefully. It's terrible to think about it... It's not terrible, it's just that I feel uncomfortable. I can't use it with energy."
"Yes," Zhang Yanming nodded: "At that time, you will be under a lot of pressure because you want to go back and take care of them subjectively, but in fact you can't do it.
Then it will gradually affect your life, your attitude towards life and towards people around you, and even your work."
Teacher Wang covered his hands on his face, imagining the situation and feeling. The more he thought about it, the more he felt uncomfortable, and the more he thought about it, the more he became afraid and the more he became more and more entangled.
"Then what should I do?" It's no longer a problem of buying a house and a car after getting married, but what should the elderly do in the future.
"There is only one way to let his parents live with his brother, you and your parents. His parents give all the money and houses to his brother, and you don't want anything, and exchange for his brother to support his parents.
If you live a good life and have better conditions in the future, you can help your younger brother financially. If the two families are similar, then it is enough to go back and take a look at the Elderly Day holiday.
This is not a question of who is filial or not, but a major life problem that must be faced with and is a key issue involving the quality of life of all of you two families to be happy in the future.”
"And you guys in front of you plan not to tell him and his brother at home. Don't say a word." Sun Hongye reminded Teacher Wang.
"I don't know if he said it." Teacher Wang also felt the seriousness of this matter.
"You can discuss it again after you say it, mainly because everyone is balanced and comfortable."
Zhang Yanming said: "As for the house and the car, you don't have to worry. Let's get to know each other. This is what my family does, and I can help you."
Sun Hongye said: "Actually there is another way."
Chapter completed!