Chapter 3556 No one wants to touch my child 12
"I haven't communicated well with my family for more than five years. The relationship between us mother and son is very weak. If I go up directly, I will tell him that you must study hard, and he will definitely have a rebellious mentality.
So I chose a relatively easy way to get close to him, which is to play games with him.
Fortunately, although I entered this industry late, my talent was pretty good. It took me about three months to practice the game skills and then start playing games with Yangyang.
Because I have a good time playing games, Yangyang subconsciously treats me as a partner, and then I teach him how to do it as a reward to let him study hard.
As Yangyang said just now, he often doesn’t listen to classes well and sleeps in class, so his foundation is very poor.
When I told him, he often couldn't understand what I was talking about, such as physics. I could understand it as soon as I said it, but no matter how many times I said it, he couldn't understand those more abstract concepts well. I also had a sudden idea to connect knowledge with games and let Yangyang accept those more abstract concepts. Fortunately, this method is feasible.
Finally, I said this not to encourage everyone to play games with their children like me, but to say that they want their children to study hard and improve their academic performance. Yes, there is no problem at all, but you must know how to teach according to their aptitude.
It’s right to let your children learn, but you can’t just let your children know how to learn.
The ancients all emphasized relaxation and relaxation, and there was no reason, we didn’t even understand the principles of the ancients.
Most of our children are at their fifteen or sixteen years old, and they are the strongest rebellious mentality. I wonder if you have realized that the more you don’t let your children do what they want to do?
It's like, if you go against your requirements, they will be happy.
In fact, they will get happiness. If you don’t believe me, you will ask Yangyang, he will play the game secretly on my back and play it."
The parents immediately looked at Chen Yang.
Chen Yang waved his hand quickly, "No, I didn't play games on my mother's back, I just played with her."
In Jiujiu's eyes, Chen Yang murmured in a low voice, "But, I really want to do whatever my mother doesn't let me do."
Looking at Chen Yang's explanation, Jiujiu couldn't help laughing, "So, I hope everyone will not just blame their children for not knowing to study hard.
Children have their own things to do. I hope everyone can understand their children's hearts and their behaviors in depth. Finally, give them the greatest tolerance and let them know that in fact, we do this because we love him."
Jiujiu paused and added another sentence.
"I know that some parents like to superimpose all the hard work and the hard work of their lives on their children. They always say, if it weren't for you, I would do whatever it takes. I hope that parents who do this will stop your behavior immediately. If you do this, it will not be beneficial to your children at all. Instead, it will make the children feel that they are a burden and they are a burden.
I hope you will realize something. Even without your children, your life will be very tiring and your life will be very hard.
Because this is how life is, the continuous hard work and sleepiness accumulate together, which will give you a little sweetness.
These are all your own reasons. Don’t add all of these to your child. The child’s life begins. His life should be as sweet as chocolate, and it should not become bitter because of yours.”
Jiujiu, "I want to say how long it takes to be these, thank you everyone."
After Jiujiu finished speaking, she got together with Chen Yang and talked.
Seeing Jiujiu coming, Chen Yang's cheeks were unconsciously red, his eyes drooped at Jiujiu, and said to Jiujiu, "Mom, you are so nice."
Although he had thought Jiujiu was very good before, today, he really felt how good Jiujiu was.
Jiujiu rubbed Chen Yang's little head and said with a smile, "I've tricked you, did you still say I'm okay?"
Chen Yang shook his head, "This is different."
Although Jiujiu is a trick on herself, Jiujiu is also doing her own good.
Moreover, he also got a lot of happiness during the time they spent together. If this was a routine, he would be willing to do more routines.
"It's really different. By the way, the parent-teacher meeting is still early. Let's go to the supermarket later. I'll make you whatever you want. How about it?"
Chen Yang likes Jiujiu, in addition to Jiujiu who can take him to play games, he is Jiujiu's cooking skills.
It can be said that Jiujiu’s food is the best meal Chen Yang has ever eaten.
Moreover, Jiujiu not only cooks delicious, but also makes snacks very good. Last time he ate Li Ming a piece of peach blossom crisp, but Li Ming still talks about it all, wanting to steal his snacks every day.
Thinking of Li Ming, Chen Yang asked Jiujiu, "Mom, can we take Li Ming to have a meal?"
Thinking of Li Ming's clever appearance, Jiujiu nodded, "Of course, you can. Ask Li Ming what he likes to eat, I'll make it for him to eat."
"Li Ming's mother-in-law cooks very badly. Li Ming eats everything, just make it as you like."
Although he was unwilling to admit it, when Jiujiu asked herself what Li Ming liked to eat, Chen Yang felt a little jealous.
After the parent-teacher meeting ended, Jiujiu and Chen Yang went to the station to pick up Li Ming, and the three of them went to the supermarket to buy vegetables together.
Li Ming's family is actually a bit similar to Chen Yang's family structure.
It was different at that time, his father was still alive and he just divorced his mother.
But, he doesn't look like Jiujiu at all.
Whenever she encounters something, she will blame Li Ming. Once Li Ming does something that doesn't suit her wishes, she will say that Li Ming is exactly the same as his unscrupulous father, and she will be angry when she is born.
When Li Ming first heard his mother say this, his heart was filled with guilt.
But after listening to it for too many times, Li Ming felt no guilt, but was unlimited boredom.
If she is really the same as her father, why is she still thinking about remarrying him?
Furthermore, if she is really the same as her father, why would she take away her custody?
Moreover, since his mother broke the figure he bought last time, Li Ming was extremely bored with his mother.
He didn't want to say anything more to his mother except when necessary.
What is there to say for a person who can smash the things he likes without his consent?
In Li Ming's heart, mother is an irritable endorsement.
Especially fucking, he is the best among the irritable and annoying.
So, after seeing Jiujiu, he liked Jiujiu very much, and even felt that his mother should be like Jiujiu.
Gentle and patient.
He dreamed of a mother like Jiujiu.
Chapter completed!