Chapter 1112 Not in such a hurry
There were no complicated procedures in the wedding, no singing, no dancing, no telling jokes, and no making fun of the parents-in-law. They simply said a few words to express congratulations and welcome, and then they started eating.
Su Jiangang and Li Xuan took their wine glasses together and began to toast from across the table.
Su Jiangang had wine in his hand, and Li Xuan had a drink in his cup.
First, he went to the table where Su Xingmin and other elders were sitting to toast, and then he and Li Xuan went to Lu Hao's table.
On the side, Zhang Yongqiang also followed.
Su Jiangang said directly to Zhang Yongqiang, "Brother-in-law, you don't have to drink this glass of wine for me. I have to drink it myself."
He looked at Lu Hao and said, "Thank you, second brother-in-law, thank you all, thank you for helping me pick up my bride today. Without your help, there wouldn't be such a magnificent pick-up team today."
He raised his glass and drank all the wine in the glass.
On the side, Li Xuan also finished the drink in the cup, and then looked at Su Jiangang, "I also have a glass of wine to toast my second brother-in-law and the big guys, okay?"
She also wanted to express her gratitude and drink directly instead of drinking.
"No need, aren't you two still planning to have a baby? If you want a baby, don't drink." Lu Hao said, "As long as it comes to your mind, drinking drinks is the same."
He understood why Li Xuan had to drink. The girl just wanted to express her gratitude to him, but there was no need to thank him in this way.
"It's not that urgent." Li Xuan blushed.
Still filling his glass with wine, "Brother-in-law, I have to drink this wine with you, and I have wanted to drink it with you for a long time. Thank you. If it weren't for you, I wouldn't have the chance to meet Jiangang.
Thank you for thinking about me and Jiangang, thank you for thinking about me, I drank this glass of wine."
She drank all the wine in her hand directly.
The wine sat in my mouth for a while.
For those who have never drunk alcohol, this taste is a bit strong, a bit unpleasant, and difficult to swallow, but she still closed her eyes and drank it in one go, and showed the cup to Lu Hao.
Su Jiangang and Li Xuan went to other tables to toast.
After more than two hours, the banquet ended and everyone went back to their homes.
Su Jiangang and Li Xuan returned to their home. Lu Hao drove Santana, took Su Min and Nini home, and Su Jin followed.
In the car, Su Jin felt a little sad, "I will be the only one left at home from now on, and you will all leave."
Su Jian just got married and bought a new house, which means he separated from Su Xingmin and Wang Guizhi. He must put the small family first and spend more time in the small family in the future.
Three of the four brothers and sisters in the family are married and have settled abroad. Now she is the only one left in the family, along with Su Xingmin and Wang Guizhi.
The originally lively big family suddenly became a little deserted.
"This is a stage that life must go through." Lu Hao said, "There is a saying that there is no such thing as a banquet that never ends. It is also practical to put it in the family. Some pains must be learned to enjoy and deal with with a mature attitude.
To savor it, you can't keep your thoughts on these pessimistic and negative emotions. You have to look forward, you have to look in the open direction, and you can't get into trouble."
"Brother-in-law, what you said is really profound and I don't quite understand it," Su Jin said.
"Simply put, when facing something that cannot be changed, you have to look at it with a different mentality and greet it with enjoyment. Being happy is a day, and being unhappy is also a day. In this case, why not let yourself
How about being happier? There's nothing you can do to change it anyway, you can't let everyone not get married, including yourself, you also want to get married." Lu Hao drove the car towards home.
I didn’t drink much wine today. Zhang Yongqiang helped his brother-in-law to hold back the wine. He, the second brother-in-law, was able to have a few bites of food and chat for a while.
My mind is very clear now.
He had also experienced these mental states that Su Jin had experienced, and they were even more intense than what Su Jin had experienced.
For things that cannot be changed, some people simply accept it without changing it and compromise. Some people fill their time and thoughts with other things to prevent themselves from thinking about it. Others are completely
I fell into it, confused every day, thinking about these things, like a walking zombie.
If this hurdle can be overcome, people's thinking will mature a lot.
"If you can't find a suitable marriage partner, you might as well not get married, or get married later," Su Jin said.
"You kid, you talk nonsense, how can you not get married?" Su Min said.
She was startled. It was the first time she heard such an idea and she felt incredible.
People have a herd mentality, including having children. When most people think that they should have children, other people will follow this idea, but when one person or a group of people does not want to have children,
Sometimes, it will also drive some people to think and do this.
"I'm just talking about the extreme situation. When two people are together, they must love each other, so that marriage is interesting. You cannot get married just to have children, or to get married." Su Jin said.
She looked at Lu Hao and then at Su Min, "Just like brother-in-law and sister-in-law, you have brother and sister-in-law, including eldest sister and eldest brother-in-law. Your marriage is good, but some people's marriages are not.
If you are happy, you will always quarrel or even get physical, what's the point of that?"
After you go to college, your mind will be broadened and you will be exposed to different things, so you will have some different ideas.
This is all normal.
To put it simply, when you are full and have nothing to do, you will think about the meaning of your own existence, the meaning of life, and the meaning of the future.
Marriage is a celebration, but after the celebration, some people will think of different things. Su Jin obviously thought of different things, so she was a little sad and a little lost.
"Whether to get married or not is actually a personal choice. Being married does not necessarily mean you will be happy, and not getting married does not necessarily mean you will be unhappy. But this is only a possibility. For the specific situation, others cannot give a reference, and even I don't know it.
You have to go on to know whether the choice is right or good." Lu Hao said, "If you don't even dare to leave and just keep thinking about it, what's the use?"
"But then again, no matter which choice you make, you will definitely bear most of the consequences in the end. You have to remember that no matter which choice you make, you must consider the worst case scenario and be mentally prepared.
Once you have made a choice, even if you regret it later or suffer hardship in the future, you have to swallow it yourself and don't blame other people."
Chapter completed!