Wen Xuanche: "..."

Seeing Wen Xuanche's speechless face, Wen Xuancheng thought for a moment, "Okay, let me give you an example."

Wen Xuanche tilted his head and looked at him without speaking.

Wen Xuancheng took a sip of wine and said to himself: "I have a cousin who is a doctor in the hospital.

Her grandma was sick, so through her connections, she was admitted to the hospital where she worked.

During this period, her uncle was dissatisfied with the hospital's treatment and had a quarrel with her grandmother's doctor.

The doctor didn't argue with her uncle. He called her back and filed a lawsuit against her uncle.

She went to find her uncle and asked her uncle to be polite to her colleagues for her sake.

She was very angry that her uncle did not give her face and quarreled with her colleagues, which made her unable to behave in front of her colleagues. She spoke in a strong tone and looked ugly.

Her aunt was unhappy and scolded her, saying, "You are a junior, how can you talk to your uncle with such an attitude?"

She and her aunt had a disagreement and got into a fight, but her parents arrived and pulled her away."

At this point, he asked Wen Xuanche: "If you were this female doctor, would you apologize to this aunt?"

Wen Xuanche didn't understand: "Why do you need to apologize?"

Wen Xuancheng explained: "Because she had a fight with her aunt in the hospital. In the hospital, she was a doctor first, and then her uncle's and aunt's niece.

As a doctor, if you get into a fight with a patient's family and are complained by the patient's family, you will definitely be severely punished by the hospital.

If she doesn't apologize to her aunt and her aunt complains to the hospital, she will be suspended or even fired, causing heavy losses.

But if she apologizes to her aunt, her aunt will not complain to her, and she will not receive any punishment from the hospital."

He paused and asked Wen Xuanche: "If it were you, would you apologize? Oh, by the way... there is another premise. This cousin of mine is just a girl from an ordinary family. Please forgive me.

It took a lot of effort to work in such a good hospital.

Once she is fired, it will affect her career and future."

He looked at Wen Xuanche: "You have to put yourself into the girl's situation, and then answer the question I asked you."

Answering this question is meaningless without putting yourself in the girl's situation.

Who doesn’t want to be happy with their grudges, not accept any grievances at all, and just retaliate when they are wronged?

However, the reality is that if you lose your job, what will you do with your mortgage? What will you do with your car loan? What will you do with your daily expenses?

People who are responsible for supporting their families are even worse off.

What to do with the family’s living expenses?

What should I do with my son and daughter’s milk powder money, tuition fees, and cram school fees?

There are too many burdens on our shoulders, and we cannot be happy with each other.

If you feel wronged, you can only knock out your teeth and swallow it in your belly. Keep your job first.

His brother does not have this situation.

Even if the sky falls, the Wen family will support him. He is too far away from his younger brother to bend down for five buckets of rice.

Wen Xuanche thought seriously.

After a moment, he shook his head: "I can't do it."

As soon as the fight was over, he shyly apologized to the other party and said he was sorry, but he couldn't do it.

Although the matter with Fan Sui was reconciled this time, it was just a matter of sitting down and having a meal together, and he was not asked to apologize to anyone.

He was really asked to stand up at the dinner table and apologize to Fan Sui solemnly, but he couldn't do it.

"You can't do it, but my cousin can do it," Wen Xuancheng said: "She is young and strong, but her aunt is older. When the two of them fought, she took a big advantage and beat her aunt.

Not light.

But because she admitted her mistake in time, bowed her head and apologized to her aunt, and had a good attitude in admitting her mistake, her aunt could not hold on to her, so she was not punished in any way.

did you see?

This is the benefit of being thick-skinned!

Thin-skinned people must be stubborn and stubborn. Even if they know in their hearts that apologizing is the best choice for them, they can't get past the face-saving test. They know what to do to be good for themselves, but they can't bear it.

Do.
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