In the new semester, her brother Li Anyi chose to live on campus, but her sister Li Manya insisted on living at home. In her original words, "Is the school for people to live in? The room is so small, and there are several people living together. How can I sleep? Anyway, I don't

Later, Yun Feifei wanted both brothers and sisters to live at home. In the end, Li Anyi chose to live on campus while Li Manya chose to live at home. Since Li Zhixiong spent most of his time managing affairs in the company, everything at home was left to Yun Feifei.

Take care of it. Yun Feifei assigned Li Manya a luxury RV to take her to and from school. She rested in the RV at noon, accompanied by a nanny. Li Manya was relatively restrained in school, and she was hot and cold with her classmates. She had a kind of arrogance.

She is delicate and not so domineering. After all, she still has to get along with her classmates for six years, so she still understands these things.

On the first day of school, students all exchanged interesting things that happened during the Chinese New Year.

Xia Ruyi said:

"I went to the 'Wenchang Pavilion' during the Chinese New Year. It is dedicated to Emperor Wenchang, who also knew Wenquxing. It is said that he managed all the articles in the world. I went to pay my respects. To be honest, there were a lot of people there.

Parents brought their children to worship, as well as some college students, and I heard they are quite spiritual."

"Really? Really? Then I will go when the summer vacation comes." Geng Lifei immediately took over the conversation and said with some excitement. Because his scores in all subjects were very good, but his Chinese scores fluctuated, up and down.

, so when he heard these words, he immediately expressed the idea of ​​​​going to worship.

"Ruyi, are you serious? Let's go together again then," Huang Zifei said with excitement.

"Okay, let's wait until the summer vacation and let our parents take us there again," Xia Ruyi agreed.

"Hey, Wang Chuhan, didn't you go back to your hometown? Is there anything strange? Tell us about it," Geng Lifei said carelessly.

Everyone agreed. They spent the Chinese New Year in the city this year. Basically, they didn’t go back to their hometowns. They all settled in the city. Some also brought their elderly people to live in the city center, so everyone heard about the things in their hometowns.

They were all very excited.

"To be honest, there is really a rare thing, that is..." Wang Chuhan deliberately did not say it to interest everyone, making everyone anxious and urging.

"Say it quickly"

"That's right, tell me quickly, why did you stop?"

After everyone finished speaking, Wang Chuhan said to Murong Han:

"Little Hanzi, I'm a little thirsty, please get me a glass of water."

Seeing that Murong Han had no preparation at all to go, he added:

"Go quickly"

Everyone started to urge him, but in the end they couldn't hold back the crowd and went to get a glass of water for Wang Chuhan.

Geng Lifei said:

"The water is here, please tell me"

"Okay, let me tell you a little bit about it. It was a cold and windy day. My dad and I went to the market to buy meat. We happened to see a beef stall preparing to slaughter a cow. You guys

Guess what happened next?" Wang Chuhan asked the students present in a guiding tone.

How would other students know, so Geng Lifei couldn't help but ask:

"What's going on? You tell me. You keep whetting our appetites. If you don't say anything for a while, the teacher will... come." Before the last two words were fully spoken, I saw Chinese teacher Liu walking in with a textbook.

After entering the classroom, he could only say "Come here" softly. Then the class bell rang. The first section was Chinese. Teacher Liu just checked the basic knowledge learned in the previous volume, including words, ancient poems and the most important Chinese.

Pinyin (initial consonants, finals, overall recognition of syllables), the second period is mathematics class, and I still review the knowledge in the previous volume, including recognition of positions, addition and subtraction within ten and relevant knowledge in recognition of graphics (1).

The rest was about morality and the rule of law and a physical education class. The whole morning passed like this. Some students lived happily, such as Xia Ruyi, Wang Chuhan, Murong Han, Zhou Chengde and others. Of course, there were also some who

People like Geng Lifei, Lin Dabao, etc. who got through it with a grimace, learned to forget, and learned to forget those in front, they were at the bottom of the class.

After school in the morning, I saw other classmates talking and laughing and going to the cafeteria to eat. Li Manya went to class 8 to find her brother Li Anyi to go to the RV to eat and rest. When Li Manya saw Li Anyi, he was preparing to go to the cafeteria with his classmates, so

He said to Li Anyi:

"Brother, let's go out to eat together in the car. Mom has prepared delicious food. Let's go together."

When the other students saw this, they were about to leave, but Li Anyi said to those students:

"Wait for me, I'll leave as soon as I say a word." He turned around and said to his sister Li Manya:

"I'd better go to the cafeteria to eat. Sister, you will be isolated from other students. If you don't want to live on campus, that's fine, but there's no need to eat lunch outside. Other students can eat but you can't. That's not good.

, think about it carefully." After saying that, he and a group of his classmates walked to the cafeteria.

Then I saw Li Manya go to the RV in front of the school to eat and rest alone. It may be a problem with her native family. She has been doting on this precious daughter since she was a child. The thoughts she instilled or the influence of her parents’ words and deeds on her children, Li Manya still felt

I didn't understand what my brother said. It is said that parents are their children's first teachers, and parents should set a good example.

After dinner, Wang Chuhan and his gang gathered in the classroom again to chat about the topic before class. Wang Chuhan said to Geng Lifei:

"I asked Geng Lifei, have you ever opened your mouth? You just said that the teacher is coming, and the teacher came before you finished speaking. You are really a crow's mouth." After Wang Chuhan finished speaking, other students laughed, and Geng Lifei looked helpless.

explain.

"How can you blame me? You spoke too slowly. If you had taken your time a little longer, the teacher would still have come."

"Fuck you, there is such a magical thing..." Before he could finish his words, he saw the head teacher Liu Junyu coming in from outside. When he saw us, he said:

"Just in time, you guys come with me to move the textbooks. If there are more people, each person can take less."

Teacher Liu was walking in front, and the kids behind him all glared at Geng Lifei. Geng Lifei also looked surprised and helpless. He had no choice but to live up to his nickname of "Crow's Mouth" today; he helped Teacher Liu move

After finishing the textbook, Teacher Liu gave us two candies each and let us leave.

So we started chatting on the playground. Just as Geng Lifei was about to speak, Wang Chuhan said:

"Geng Lifei, stop talking, I'll just tell you."

Everyone chuckled for a while and looked at Wang Chuhan waiting for her to talk about the continuation of the morning.

"I'm telling you, this is true. I went back to my hometown for the Chinese New Year this year. After returning home, my dad and I went to the market to buy new year's goods. When we came to a stall selling beef, the boss was about to kill him with a knife.

When I was picking up the cow, the cow suddenly knelt down with tears in his eyes. Finally, the boss took the cow home. Do you think it's rare?" After saying this, Wang Chuhan looked proud. At this time, Geng Lifei again

said:

"Is this true? It's the same as what was said on TV. It would be amazing if it were true."

"Of course it's true. How can I lie to you? It's true." Facing Geng Lifei's suspicion, Wang Chuhan was a little angry and ignored them with a bulging mouth. At this moment, Murong Han said to Wang Chuhan gently:

"We believe what you said, we just didn't react for a moment, right, what do you think?"

"Yes, yes, we didn't react."

"That's right, who makes us less knowledgeable than you?"

"Wang Chuhan, I didn't disbelieve you, I just didn't react." At this time, Geng Lifei also realized that what he just said was a bit inappropriate, so he quickly changed it.

In this way, every day is spent studying, eating and sleeping, and in the blink of an eye, I am in the third grade. It is worth mentioning that the kneeling cow that Wang Chuhan met when he returned to his hometown for the New Year in the first grade, the boss came again the next year, and those old

After the customers met him, he told everyone about the cow giving birth to a calf, and everyone sighed again.

Someone said:

"Look, you were right not to kill it, right? I brought you two calves, so you have to take good care of it."

"Of course. Thanks to everyone's blessing last year, this year's meat is five yuan cheaper per catty. Welcome to snap up," the boss said happily.

No, there is a new parent-teacher conference on the first Friday of the third grade; the theme of this parent-teacher conference is ‘Third Grade Phenomenon’.

Teacher Liu, the head teacher, said:

"Many parents reported that their children had excellent grades in the first and second grades of elementary school, but "for some reason", by the third grade, the children seemed to have become "stupid". They could not understand the lessons, could not do their homework, and their grades plummeted, and even

Some children have regressed too far, giving up on themselves, and are increasingly unable to keep up with their studies... This phenomenon is called the "third grade phenomenon", also known as the "third grade effect."

So, what exactly causes the “third grade phenomenon”? What should we do?

01. Insufficient self-control and initiative in learning:

After entering the third grade, we will obviously find that the amount of exercise for children has increased. Coupled with the increase in learning pressure and difficulty, children have less time for entertainment. During long periods of study, students will feel tired.

At this time, children will find ways to vent their emotions. Students tend to become impetuous, are not practical in their studies, have good and bad grades, and have great ups and downs. It is not easy to calm down and study, and they should not make too many mistakes in homework. These all show that children have self-control.

Lack of strength.

At the same time, students' lack of initiative has also attracted our attention. For example: after completing the homework assigned by the teacher, they are unwilling to do additional improvement homework or homework assigned by parents; the teacher does not strictly regulate the excerpts of good words and sentences.

, I am too lazy to do it myself, there is "laziness".

Countermeasures:

Establish clear and specific goals for your children. There are two goals here:

The first is the long-term goal, that is, the ideal. Let students clarify the meaning of learning and connect learning with their own ideals and social undertakings. This ideal may not necessarily be the career that the child will engage in in the future, but if the child has a goal to strive for, it will produce

Persistent and active learning motivation.

The second is the short-term goal. It is best to achieve it within one or two weeks through the children's efforts. During this process, we should pay attention to often caring about and asking about their learning situation, and congratulate them on every progress they have made. When they

Appropriate criticism should also be given when performance is poor.

After a goal is achieved, set a new goal and put appropriate pressure on the child. Children are young and do not know the pros and cons of many things. They do not quite understand the meaning of learning and are unwilling to work more on textbook knowledge.

Therefore, we need to put appropriate pressure on students instead of allowing students to act completely freely. We must use various methods to clearly explain the meaning of learning and try to stimulate their initiative in learning from a positive perspective.

02, Exploration is difficult to master

After the third grade, we discovered that the exam is no longer just about the knowledge in class, which requires our children to acquire a lot of knowledge outside class to supplement what they have learned in class.

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Countermeasures:

Master scientific learning methods

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03. The quality of reading is not high

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Countermeasures:

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In a word: Faced with the widespread "third grade phenomenon", parents cannot ignore it, but should help their children to "break through" smoothly through good guidance."
Chapter completed!