At this moment, Li Xiaoxiao looked at her mother seriously. This was the first time that she heard her mother talk about the past so seriously. After listening, Li Xiaoxiao felt really shocked and surprised.

"Mom, I didn't expect that you had such thoughts..." Li Xiaoxiao said with still a bit of disbelief.

"Xiaoxiao, as long as you are married, you will have such thoughts, but whether you say it out loud depends on the person. I never said it out loud at the time, not even your grandparents knew that I

I have such an idea.”

Xiao's mother raised her head again, looked at Li Xiaoxiao seriously, and continued.

"Xiaoxiao, have you ever felt that the experience your father and I had was quite similar to the experience you had with Zhiqiang?" Xiao's mother continued to ask.

Hearing this, Li Xiaoxiao thought for a long time, and then nodded sharply, it was indeed true.

Li Yonggui was once looked down upon by Xiao's parents, but later he succeeded through hard work, and the same was true for Fang Zhiqiang.

Their marriage was opposed by their parents, and his marriage to Fang Zhiqiang was also opposed in the first place.

Xiao's mother once had the idea of ​​​​divorce, and she has also had the idea of ​​​​divorce now.

"Then do you know why?" Xiao's mother continued to ask.

"Why?" Li Xiaoxiao said seriously.

"Actually, Xiaoxiao, everyone's marriage is the same. Marriage is two people living together. It's impossible not to quarrel or quarrel. No one's marriage is as happy and sweet as it looks on the outside. There are always reasons.

The sad deeds that everyone knows may have once appeared in your eyes,

Your father and I have always had a happy and beautiful marriage, but in fact, there are still many things you don’t understand. I am telling you these things today because I want to tell you that there has never been a happy world like a fairy tale in this world. In reality,

, it’s always unpredictable and ups and downs.”

"Xiaoxiao, I used to hope that you would always believe that there are fairy tales in this world, because that is the motivation for us to continue to work hard and the undying childlike innocence in our hearts. But now, maybe you should understand that fairy tales

It doesn't exist. In reality, it does exist. It's enough to just rely on our joint efforts to have a stable and happy married life."

As Xiao's mother spoke, she stretched out her hand and tidied the messy hair around Li Xiaoxiao's ears. She looked at her dotingly and said with a smile: "You have grown into a big girl..."

Li Xiaoxiao was thinking very seriously about what her mother had just said. She seemed to suddenly realize that what she originally thought was right was actually not right or wrong at all. Life is not an exam, and not everything has a standard answer.

If you look at things from different angles, you will have completely different results.

"In addition, mom wants to tell you today that every small decision you make now will affect your entire life. If you are cruel and say those two words, maybe both of you will be angry. Really

If you do that thing, your life trajectory will undergo major changes. But if you endure it

At that moment, those two words may never appear again in this life, because you will eventually usher in the beginning of a happy life. Only then will you realize that all the worries are just yesterday's clouds.

Today, looking back, it was nothing more than an after-dinner chat and a joke about the past."

After listening carefully to all her mother's words, Li Xiaoxiao finally nodded firmly. She looked at her mother seriously and said, "Mom, I understand your good intentions. Next, I may know what to do."

Xiao's mother closed her eyes and nodded, and then continued: "Xiao Xiao, in fact, my mother doesn't want to see you grow up. These words are not a last resort, and my mother will not tell you. But you have to understand that your parents cannot accompany you.

For the rest of your life, you have to walk on your own. If you don't learn these things, you will take many detours. My parents don't want to see you in another world with bumpy roads in the future. I hope you can have smooth sailing.

"

"Mom, please stop talking. My daughter understands."

Li Xiaoxiao threw herself into her mother's arms, feeling the familiar smell, so familiar and so warm.

In the eyes of my parents, I will always be the one to be taken care of. What they bear is a pressure that I can never imagine in my life.

Even though I have reached such an age now, I am still diligent in my teachings. If you don’t walk this road of life yourself, you will never be able to experience its mystery.

"Okay, now it's time for you to make your own decision. If you really feel that the next few days will be difficult and you don't want to endure that kind of pain anymore, mom will support you!"

Xiao's mother rubbed Li Xiaoxiao's head and said as if she were her little daughter.

In fact, Xiao's mother is very reluctant to let go of Fang Zhiqiang. In her heart, except Fang Zhiqiang, no man can love Li Xiaoxiao more, and no man knows how to take care of her better than Fang Zhiqiang.

The reason why Xiao's mother said this was to make Li Xiaoxiao clearly realize that no matter when, as long as her parents are still alive, she has the capital to do whatever she wants. Once one day, they are no longer here, then what will happen?

When she really takes on everything.

It is a pity that Li Xiaoxiao still has not realized this. She just looked at her mother seriously, shook her head and said: "I have already thought about it, I don't want him to leave me."

"Well, good boy, as long as you have your own answer in your heart." Xiao's mother squinted her eyes again and smiled, touched Li Xiaoxiao's hair, and then said.

"Mom, can you tell me how to be open-minded?" Li Xiaoxiao asked again.

"My dear daughter, you are actually very open-minded. When it comes to feelings, no woman has been truly open-minded since ancient times. If she can, it means she doesn't love that man at all." Xiao

Mom continued to speak seriously.

"Then..." Li Xiaoxiao nodded thoughtfully, but frowned again, wanting to say something.

"My mother's original idea was to participate in work with your father, to experience his world, feel his heart, and realize his wishes."

Xiaoma naturally knew what Li Xiaoxiao wanted to ask, so she took the initiative and said so.

After listening, Li Xiaoxiao nodded seriously again, and then said: "I seem to understand."

"Of course, mom is not saying that you should be busy with him, but she just wants to tell you that many things, before you can figure them out, are actually because you have limited your thinking and solidified your perspective on the problem. As long as you think about it a little bit,

If you adapt, the same thing will have thousands of results."

Seeing Li Xiaoxiao's sudden realization, Xiao's mother immediately added again.

"I understand, I will try to do it." Li Xiaoxiao nodded seriously and continued.

"Xiaoxiao, I hope you can truly understand the meaning of everything mom said today."

Xiao's mother suddenly took Li Xiaoxiao's hand from hers, then stood up slowly, and while speaking, turned and walked towards the door.

Seeing his mother leave her bedroom, Li Xiaoxiao looked at her reluctantly, as if this was the last farewell.

It wasn't until her figure completely disappeared from the door that Li Xiaoxiao came back to reality again. Looking at the empty door, Li Xiaoxiao suddenly realized that she was still living under the careful care of her parents, as if she hadn't grown up yet.

Like a sapling, a big tree protects itself from wind and rain and takes care of itself to grow vigorously day after day.

However, how long can I survive under such a shelter? When will I need to face the wind and rain alone and challenge life?
Chapter completed!