Chapter 2589 Talking (2)
After Bi Luochun listened, he did not immediately answer Fang Zhiqiang's words. Instead, he took a long breath, and after pondering for a long time, he finally said slowly: "Actually, in the final analysis, your situation is because of you.
Scum."
Fang Zhiqiang frowned again, perhaps because he was a fan of the authorities. For Fang Zhiqiang, he had never thought that he was a scumbag.
"Every person who is trapped in love knows very well that the reason why he is troubled, entangled and at a loss is because he wants too much. In fact, some people and things cannot be achieved no matter how hard you try.
Unobtainable." Bi Luochun continued.
"Just like Yanzi and I, we were so poor before, but she followed me without a single complaint, but what happened later? I became rich, but when I wanted to share the joy of success with her, I found that she
She is no longer the Liu Yan she used to be.
At that time, I also kept thinking, is the person I am pursuing so hard, the person I really want deep down in my heart? It was not until later that we reconciled that I discovered that she was actually still her, and she had not changed.
It’s just your attitude towards me.”
"Having said this, I also want to remind you that you and Wang Yaxin, I have always wanted to say it, but I feel it is inappropriate. In fact, you both know in your heart that you have some evil intentions towards each other.
The reason why you have never taken that step is because you are too greedy."
Bi Luochun's words made Fang Zhiqiang more and more confused. He couldn't figure out what Bi Luochun meant by "insatiable greed".
"You are not only greedy for the other person, but also for how much the other person can give you. You are even greedy for reputation and what others think of you. To put it simply, you have done something that makes others feel wrong, and you still want others to
He has a good opinion of you, so I think he is a scumbag." After Bi Luochun finished speaking, he turned to look at Fang Zhiqiang.
Sure enough, Fang Zhiqiang was speechless at this moment. Bi Luochun's words greatly exceeded his expectation. Things that he had never thought of were actually explained clearly by an outsider.
Looking back now, every word Bi Luochun said is so true.
Whether it is Wang Yaxin or herself, as Bi Luochun said, it is indeed greed, too much greed!
"Actually, sometimes, things are not that complicated. Just like when I was chasing Yanzi, I just wanted Yanzi to agree to me. I am not greedy for anything else. As for whether she will be good to me after agreeing, others
For me, I don't care at all what they say about our affairs, because at that time I just wanted to be with Yanzi." Bi Luochun continued.
Fang Zhiqiang couldn't help but nodded. If he and Wang Yaxin had the same thoughts, maybe the two of them would have been together long ago.
The car continued to drive forward, and Fang Zhiqiang was completely unaware at this moment that the sky outside was gradually getting darker and there were fewer and fewer street lights beside them. They had already driven out of the West Fourth Ring Road, which is the western suburbs of the Pearl.
"As for you and Li Xiaoxiao, I know you had a lot of conflicts before your divorce, but for any couple, how can there be no conflicts at all? Yanzi and I are always inseparable when we are good, but when we quarrel,
They all hate it too
But you and Li Xiaoxiao are not like that. You are both the kind of people who are not good at venting. You like to keep everything in your heart. In fact, this is not good for you.
It will be very hurt emotionally, I
My understanding of Li Xiaoxiao may be limited, but you and I know very well that you used to talk about everything in front of me. In a sense, you were actually a very talkative person, but with Li Xiaoxiao, you just
It's like he has completely changed from before
This can be seen in the several misunderstandings that have occurred. Sometimes you don't like to explain. Even if you realize that the other person is angry, you still choose to remain silent. In fact, at that time, if you have a big fight, you may end up having a big fight.
Both of us can feel relieved."
Bi Luochun's long speech made Fang Zhiqiang feel like he was enlightened. He used to think that these words would not have much effect even if he said them, but now he realized that people always appear plausive when persuading others. It is indeed because the bystanders are clear, and
Their suggestions can indeed solve many problems for me.
"Finally, let's talk about the company. In fact, for me, as long as my current life is a little better than before, it will be fine. Think about the time when I had nothing before, and then think about my current living situation. To put it bluntly,
Even if Huaqiang fails, even if we all end up reduced to ordinary people
, isn’t it still the way it was before? You said this yourself at the beginning, the worst thing is to change back to the way it was before. For us, we have nothing to lose, as long as you use the reputation, money and status you have gained in the past few years,
Think of it as a gift from God and you will be relieved of everything, right?"
Fang Zhiqiang agreed with Bi Luochun's remarks on relationships, but Fang Zhiqiang disagreed with his views on company issues.
"Lao Bi, you don't realize that the company is not yours and mine, nor the company of any one person, but the company of our entire team. You are right. For us, the worst we can do is change back to the original
It looked like that, but later when I was at Mingda, I already realized that once the company collapsed, not only would we lose everything, but also
With so many employees in our team, they will lose their job opportunities, and it will even bring a huge blow to their lives. Think about when we were in poverty, the most feared thing at that time was being fired by our boss.
Once you lose your job, it feels like the whole world is about to collapse." Fang Zhiqiang said seriously.
Bi Luochun nodded after hearing this, and then said: "That's what I said. In fact, it depends on what you think about this kind of thing. If you can think like me, even if it doesn't work out in the end, you won't be able to do it."
It would be too frustrating. If you think like that, then naturally, you have to be responsible for everyone. Although this will make you very tired, you will still enjoy it and be very motivated."
"Furthermore, what I said is not to let you waste your time. We will still do what we need to do, and we will not be lazy when we need to work hard. However, if the final result is really unsatisfactory, there is no need to be so entangled. After all,
, we have used up all the strength we can use, what else is there to regret?"
"As for the woman Liu Jiaying, I really don't know much about it, but according to what you said, I also think that this woman should be a unstable person. There are all kinds of people in this world. You can choose to go there.
Make friends with people you are interested in, but you can't decide
You can't decide what kind of person will approach you. For an uncertain person like Liu Jiaying, you can't choose when she will approach you, but you can choose to avoid her, because in the process of getting along with her, you can't
Find a suitable and effective way to deal with her."
As Bi Luochun spoke, he looked out the window. At this time, the sky had completely darkened, and the car had already reached the suburbs.
Fang Zhiqiang finally noticed the darkening sky around him, and then looked out the window. With the faint light, Fang Zhiqiang roughly saw that in front of the car was a very narrow country parking road, and on the right side of the road, it seemed
A ravine with no bottom visible, and a hill of unknown height on the left.
But at this time, Fang Zhiqiang was obviously not interested in this. Regarding what Bi Luochun just said, Fang Zhiqiang continued: "Actually, Lao Bi, many times your ideas are indeed good, but if you use them on me, maybe
It’s not appropriate. Maybe it’s because of the difference in our identities, or maybe it’s because you and I look at things from different angles.”
"Actually, to put it simply, it's because we have different views. You think this is right, and I think that is right. In fact, there is no right or wrong at all. No matter which view you have, as long as you can stick to your own ideas.
Keep going, as long as you can get the results you want, as long as you can experience the happiness you want, then it is right." Bi Luochun said casually.
These words made Fang Zhiqiang nodded again and couldn't help but fell into deep thought.
There are many people in this world, all kinds of people, with all kinds of views. Almost everyone has completely different ideas. For a farmer, he just wants to rain when it is time.
It rains sometimes so that he can have a good harvest. But for a businessman of a freight company, he hopes that it will not rain, otherwise it will delay his business.
Suppose that these two people are placed at the same time and place, and they will have two completely different ideas, and their ideas themselves are not wrong.
For another example, some people feel that since they are in this world, they cannot do nothing. Even if they cannot make a huge contribution to society, they must at least realize their personal value and enjoy the lifestyle and status of those in the upper class.
However, for people who think this way, there will definitely be people who think differently. They believe that the most important thing for people to live in the world is to be content and happy. Only inner happiness is the most real thing, money and reputation.
, are just floating clouds. If you spend your whole life pursuing those things, won’t they turn into a handful of loess in the end?
Neither of the two ideas is wrong originally, but if you stand on one of them and look at the other idea, obviously for you, the other idea is wrong.
It is precisely because of this that there are various evaluations in this society.
A successful person will be evaluated by some people like this: "That person is simply obsessed with money. He will make any money. He is completely unconscionable!"
And a mediocre person will also be evaluated by some people like this: "Look at him, he just eats, drinks and has fun all day long. He has no ambition at all. Compared with others, he is too promising!"
If the person being evaluated is affected by these evaluations, or even affects his own thoughts, then he will fall into self-doubt and wonder whether his thoughts are really wrong?
Therefore, the successful person may be troubled by this. Although he has so much money, he does not get the respect of others. On the contrary, in their eyes, he is so shameless.
As for the mediocre person, he was originally very proud of his current state of life where he didn't think about anything, and this indeed made him happy.
However, if he is swayed by those evaluations, he is likely to feel that he is really worthless? In such a large society, there is no need for himself. It seems that whether he exists or not will not cause any harm to anyone at all.
Any impact?
Thoughts are very magical things. Once people fall into thinking, they can't stop digging deeper, trying to dig out the deepest and most real things. But in the end, you will discover that in fact those things you
What we think of as 'reality' is just those weird thoughts after all.
Chapter completed!