Blind date, acceptance or rejection?

For me, let it be...

I heard from others that most people who can go on blind dates are the kind that no one wants, because good things will result without blind dates. I don’t express any right or wrong views on this...

I went my own way directly on this statement.

Well, I have already started to set foot on the starting point of the blind date avenue, and I am almost at the beginning. It seems that I am the kind that no one wants...

Oh, I didn’t expect me to be so bad. Fortunately, I am a 2B optimistic talent! As long as I treat myself as a treasure, I am a treasure, the treasure in the blind date world.

I also believe that there are many treasures in the blind date industry, and it depends on whether I can meet them.

At that time, I talked to Ying on WeChat about blind dates in the car back to my hometown.

She said that she had met several times and met strange men, either she was not tall enough or she loved money as life...

Hahaha, I can't understand her thoughts because I haven't had a blind date yet.

During the two days in my hometown, my aunt asked someone to introduce her. I heard that there was a rural girl one year younger than me. She was pretty white, cheerful, smart and clever. She was injured when she was a child, had four stitches, and left a little scar... The aunt who introduced the girl asked me if I would mind.

Actually, I really don't care much about this. What I care about is the feeling.

At first glance, whether there is a natural feeling, of course, this is just the first impression. This does not determine whether I like a girl, but the natural feeling will increase my favorability.

The second feeling is the most important thing! After a period of communication and familiarity, the feeling arises from the heart. If this feeling touches my heart, it is what I like.

After I didn't mind, I left my QQ for the aunt. After that, I don't know whether the girl added me...

I think even if you don’t feel together, you can be friends. Besides, this is not the kind of friends who are friends after breaking up.

Now, in addition to continuing to make myself stronger, I want to continue to make myself stronger. I am a living treasure! Those who get me will live a happy life!

Blind dates are also a waiting process for me. I wait for the person who understands me and I understands her, and then we will move towards the future together.

In fact, there is no need to overreject blind dates. It is not necessary to choose any one of them when you are asked to go on a blind date. You can really watch them with your heart. Perhaps, the person who is really right is in it.

Sometimes I also fantasize about what kind of happy scene would it be when a blind date becomes a love story?

The moon that night was so hazy... I learned the words of the philosophical beast and said, "I watched the astrological signs at night, and I calculated my fingers, well, the marriage will come soon."

Time continues to go back to work.

"I think you have no future here. People as educated as you should go to work in the office, so why do you do chores like now? You are not like us. You are not only young, but also free, and you can choose good jobs. We have old people above and young people below, so we have to do this job." The fat beast said these words to me for no reason.

After hearing what he said, I was stunned for a moment. A big rock in my heart hit hard on the already calm sea of ​​heart, causing layers of huge waves, and ruining peace...

This is indeed a big blind spot in my heart. I long for a future, but the work I did at that time did not seem promising. I could easily fall into this contradictory dilemma.

Huh, it was almost a year since Xidesheng. July is the confused and unstable July.

Just in July of the previous year, I gave up my second job without saying a word - self-departure.

At that time, I made such an impulsive choice because I could not get rid of that contradiction.

What does it mean to be self-departure when the time is not yet ripe? It means that I betrayed myself, I made myself break my promise, and promised what I wanted to do but failed. It will take several months, and it will not complete the task I gave me, but...

So, I was punished. If I had left my second job without impulse, I could have paid off my debts in October the year before. However, the separation of July, the depravity of August, the indulgence of September, the restart of October, and it took almost a year before I could pay off my debts.

I feel so heavy with my debts on my back. I can't feel free. There is always a chain in my heart that binds me. I want to fly, but I can't fly...

So after having that impulse, I warned myself that before being impulse in the future, I should remember this lesson!

Then why am I impulsive? That kind of contradiction is one reason, and it is the influence of interpersonal relationships. In layman's terms, there may be impulsive thoughts due to others' self-righteousness or intentional persuasion...

Therefore, the fat beast's words made me feel that impulse again. Of course, I had not yet escaped that contradiction at that time.

However, I understand myself. If I can't make my heart stronger, then no matter what job I change, there is no future.

Perhaps, in the eyes of the big beasts, I went to college and was a very educated person. But that was just from their own perspective. You should know that from the perspective of both college students, I was not very educated and had not even graduated from college.

Brother Wild Beast felt that the job we were doing at that time was to do odds and had no future. Indeed, if we were working with such a mentality, I think there was really no future. Because, without light in our eyes, how can we see the future?

That's right, the work we did was relatively grassroots, and it seemed like we were doing chores. However, the world was originally a whole composed of many parts, and each part had the meaning of each part. The same is true for work. It is impossible for everyone to only sit in the office, and there are always some positions that require people to do. Moreover, not everyone likes to sit in the office.

Yes, although I have been to college and have not been in the office, I can find the happiness I want in my job.

Although the future is important, it is very sad to see the future only in your eyes and ignore some essential things.

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. I have always been like a snail, step by step, and every step I have been steady. I have not been ambitious, nor have I thought of reaching the sky in one step. That is not realistic at all, nor does it mean that I want. It’s like playing a game and having a blow-up shot all at once. What’s the point?

If I want to have a future in the work I was doing at that time, I needed to accumulate strength and wait for an opportunity. That opportunity came sooner or later, maybe one month, half a year, or seven years, or eight years. However, that did not affect the accumulation of strength. Imagine that when the strength you accumulated exceeds the ability required by that opportunity, you will find that you can also create opportunities... So, while I accumulate strength, I race against time. And plant the seeds of hope in my heart.

Even though I say that, the future is unknown. Who can see what happens in the future? So, unlike before, I don’t rely too much on a job, what I care about is the growth I get at work!

And the reason why the contradiction cannot be escaped is because it is not strong enough in its heart and cares about other people's opinions.

Huh, but then again, my motto is still my own: nothing is in vain.

I have indeed grown a lot in this year that I have experienced particularly because of impulse.

Sometimes, I can't help but smirk and say to myself, "I'm so impulsive!"

It’s good to listen to others’ words, because there may be many unexpected surprises in other people’s words! (To be continued)
Chapter completed!