Chapter 64 Emergence Thirteen
National Day was coming soon! I was very excited! Even though I didn’t have a holiday there...
National Day is not only the birthday of the motherland, but also the first anniversary of my four sisters' marriage, and it is also the day when I was there for just one month. Well, it's not bad! It's worth celebrating!
Huh, it's almost a month old. Am I familiar with it? Do you have any feelings? Do you like it? Also, are girls beautiful? Huh, sorry, this is not the point... Is the money enough? This is the point... not enough!
OK, let's get back to the topic.
When I first got there, I even ate very restricted when I was eating, but at that time, it was obviously different... I could eat as much as I wanted, as long as there was food and soup.
Although I have not dealt with all the interpersonal relationships in the office, I have communicated with the main characters and have been constantly deepening my understanding...
Similarly, I have communicated with many people in the factory because of running errands. There are only a few people who have not communicated with me. Some have higher levels and are not yet communicating, while others have no job contact with me and almost no communication. However, I have some understanding of most of the key people.
These interpersonal relationships are crucial to my future work development! Huh, I didn’t deliberately want to have a good relationship with anyone, I just let it go. Any colleague asked me to run errands to find whoever I asked me to run errands to find, so I said that the interpersonal relationships in my factory are all caused by running errands!
As for life and diet, I think it's pretty good! It's not much different from China. After all, the dishes in the canteen are mainly Cantonese cuisine, and if you are in the dormitory during holidays, Brother Peake and Sister Lily can cook too!
Oh! There is also a brother who is very close friends with Brother Peake. Well, he is also from Guangdong. Because his English name is the same as Brother Ken in my office, I call him "Laoxi"! The Cantonese accent... We often eat together for a few people, and it feels good!
As for the local geographical location, I was still not familiar with it at that time. Because I was building roads outside, it was difficult for me to go out by myself. I usually took the company car, so my familiarity was not high.
However, after leaving the city, I can still buy things by myself, go shopping, etc., but the premise is that I have to have money.
The last thing I think is the communication with the locals and their curiosity about their customs.
The marriage customs over there are usually women marrying men to their own homes, which is the opposite of men and women in our country. They are women marrying men. This is closely related to the historical reasons of Cambodia. To be honest, when I first heard about it, I really felt a little drunk. However, it is also that good.
In the factory, many female workers who just saw me usually look at me. When I look at them, they can't help laughing and speak their language... Although I can't hear it, I know it's kind-hearted.
Just look at me and I look at you. Many local aunts and girls know me a little. Sometimes if you ask them for help, the efficiency of completing tasks can be greatly improved. I did not know them deliberately in order to complete the tasks myself, and I was not so planning.
I want to know them because of my personal personality. I think it’s so interesting and funny to communicate with them! We are like two mute people who can’t speak sign language, and they can also be my lucky stars in the factory. If I communicate with them, I won’t feel inferior. Because, they often joke with me like this: “I love you!”
Some of the little girls there are also very beautiful! Very elegant! After all, there are many mixed-race children in Cambodia. When some little girls smile at me, I will have the illusion: Oh my God! My other half has not grown up yet...
Haha, kidding!
For me, living like this in a month is pretty good...
Time continues to go.
Sometimes I think about it, wouldn’t it be interesting if my job happened to be my favorite hobby? In the past, I was looking forward to finding a job that matched my hobby, but I didn’t look for it...
The reason is, first, I didn’t know what hobbies I had at that time; second, the distance between reality and fantasy was too far.
Later, I forgot which celebrity's mother said something profound to me. She said: "I don't want my son to regard his hobbies as work. In that case, he will easily get lost in the busy work, and the hobbies will gradually deteriorate and thus not be able to get happiness and progress."
Gradually, I think what she said makes sense. Indeed, hobbies are easier to make progress in a relatively casual environment. The cumbersome work will disrupt the mood of hobbies unless that person’s hobbies are very much loved by him!
I am, if I want to turn my hobbies into tedious work, I think I will soon get tired of my hobbies. Because in an environment that is not conducive to the progress of hobbies, hobbies are not hobbies at all.
For example, for me, if my job is to make me paint the same painting all day, from morning to night, I think I will feel like I'm suffering. Of course, this is just for me, perhaps for those who like to draw very much.
I think my hobbies should be kept at a normal level. Like at that time, hobbies will not be boring due to work. Very good!
The job I had at that time, perhaps, was accumulated and synthesized from every job I had done in the past.
How to say it? Most of the jobs I have done in the past seem to have the characteristics of those jobs.
The first summer job I came into contact with in my life was related to clothes, and it was also the same at that time. The second summer job I came into contact with errands in a new field, and at that time I also came into contact with errands in a new field.
At that time, I could wear the clothes I wanted to wear without work clothes. It was the same as when I was working during summer vacations.
The job at that time had a bit complicated interpersonal relationships and I had to deal with other departments frequently. This was very similar to my internship and sales, and they were all mainly interpersonal.
However, that job also has its own characteristics and can combine study and work well.
There are some special things I feel in the factory that I have been unable to understand in the work I have done before...
For example, when I say "thank you" to girls who helped me complete my tasks in local language, they will feel a little surprised, just like celebrities signing their fans. No one has ever had such a special reaction after hearing my "thank you", which is rare!
That feeling is also indirectly saving my confidence and defeating my inferiority complex.
Time continues to go.
On National Day, I wish my motherland a happy birthday! Also, I wish my four sisters a happy marriage anniversary! Finally, I wish myself a happy "full moon"! Hehe! Then start a new day.
Life is an art. Although I could not live a poetic and picturesque life at that time, I had already lived it as much as possible to feel it.
I don’t have only work in my life, nor do I live for work. But I need to grow myself through work, and that’s the meaning I want.
Therefore, I usually don’t talk to anyone about the joys, sorrows and sorrows of work, but I will only write them into my things. It is a kind of natural confidence. It does not force others to listen to what I think, it is entirely out of voluntary desire. And I don’t have to care too much about whether the people who listen to me will think too much...
People who used to read the things I wrote had been missing for a long time, and maybe they were all tired of it. In this regard, I always had the attitude of letting things go, just like a gust of wind blowing by my side, bringing me a coolness. But when the wind blows, it just passes, and there is no smell of retention at all...
I have seen the passage of time, but my focus is still on my own growth, which is a rare and down-to-earth situation. Growth can make people feel at ease.
My growth is both direct and indirect. It is explicit and implicit. In fact, my selfies are also hidden in my growth to a certain extent... But if you are not careful, it is easy for people to think that it is a "show"! It doesn't matter, even if it is a "show", so.what!
At that time, the busyness of work began to increase again, which was different from the busyness when I first started working. I was busy at work and I didn’t know which part I was busy at all. I was also busy at the time, but at least, I knew what part I was busy with, so I could know it in my heart.
The interesting comparison is that my first job was in sales and I had to deal with people frequently. At that time, I couldn’t sleep well every day. When I heard the alarm clock ring, I felt that the world was dark and my nerves were very fragile!
My job at that time also had to deal with people frequently, but I slept soundly. When I heard the alarm clock ring, sometimes I felt that I didn’t sleep enough, and I didn’t feel that the world was dark and my nerves were relatively large.
So I often have something to do when working overtime at night, so I can study hard. After finishing the task, it was already very late. When I returned to the dormitory, I was in a good mood, playing songs and dancing. But when I calmed down, I couldn’t do it anymore, I felt extremely sleepy!
Lying on the bed, writing something, and then you will most likely fall asleep. You may wake up at one or two o'clock in the morning...
But I haven’t taken a shower yet! At that time, laziness would tell myself that I would take a shower the next morning. However, it felt so uncomfortable if I didn’t take a shower and sleep!
I made up my mind and walked into the bathroom. A handful of cold water was poured on my face. Well, I was immediately energetic! OK! You can take a shower...
This is how I came here for many nights...
In fact, laziness often affects a person's luck. The lazy the more you procrastinate, the more negative energy will be. However, once you do it, without waiting, the positive energy will come back!
Positive energy and negative energy can also work on a person's luck...
So, I said, sometimes the good or bad luck is just a matter of thought.
Chapter completed!