On the road to the future, what do you think is the happiest thing?

I think the happiest thing I like and the people or things I pursue can be recognized and supported by my family!

After returning from that big trip, I called home one day in advance. Because I felt safe all the way, I wanted to call home.

The person who answered the phone was Uncle. Uncle happily asked me if I had a happy trip. It sounded like, Uncle should have known from my sisters that I went to Bali.

Then, I happily talked about how I took a plane to Bali and what I had gone to Bali.

Uncle listened and laughed happily.

In the past, when I went on a small trip, I didn’t like to tell my family how much it cost, because my family didn’t agree with how much I spent. So when my uncle asked me how much it cost, my heart was in a knot, afraid that my mood would be swept back. But I still said that I used several thousand yuan and thought my uncle would say that it was so much money, but my uncle said it was worth it! This was simply a little miracle!

I was stunned for a moment, and then suddenly felt better!

Uncle also smiled and said that our three sisters wanted to go a long time ago, but I didn't expect that they would go first.

I felt very happy listening to the uncle's tone of laughter! I said that I would go together if I have the chance in the future.

After chatting for a while, I went to Auntie to chat with me again.

Similarly, my aunt and uncle responded happily to my trip.

Aunt said that I am young now and have not yet gotten married, so it would be nice to have a chance to play.

This is really different from before. My aunt didn't agree with me going to play far away, for fear that I would encounter danger. But that time, my aunt actually agreed that I went to play so far away. Sure enough, it seemed that she was keeping pace with the times!

No matter what, I can get the recognition of my family, even if I didn’t have diving or parasols on my trip, it was too worth it!

Before the big trip, I was afraid that my uncle and aunt would be worried, so I didn't tell them that I was going to Bali. I just said that I would go on a tour with a group and would not go far.

Think about it, after I went to high school, my uncle and aunt had to decide many things myself. Whether it was choosing a university, major or job, they respected my choice. This was the warmest freedom for me.

In terms of emotions, I have recognized and opposed the partners I like, but I also respected my final choice. As long as I liked, they all support me. Therefore, when it comes to love, the only one who can hinder the man is myself.

What about my dream? Will my family agree with it?

Well, because my dream is virtual, and I can't find an entity to compare in reality, so I can't say it really exists. However, it really accompanies me to grow up. So, as long as my family does not oppose my favorite lifestyle, it is to identify and support my dream.

On the road to the future, you must have the love of your family to continue with true happiness!

Time continues to go.

Time is like water in a sponge. As long as you are willing to squeeze, there is still a lot.

Time is like water in the ocean. As long as you are willing to drink it, you will not be able to finish it.

At that time, I was waiting in line for my hair to be cut. Waiting was a boring process. If I let it be bored to the end, it would be wasting my life, although nothing was in vain for me...

So, keep writing.

The night before, Lao Xi talked to me about life. Well, this kind of topic actually pops up from time to time to harass the brain, after all, reality is cruel.

Lao Xi said that after I return to China, I should choose a direction and keep going, and don’t change. Otherwise, I will become a useless waste like him at that time.

The words I have said in detail are worth thinking about, such as choosing a direction and keep going. After all, it is difficult to specialize in a mixed manner. However, it is not easy to choose a direction? I was not sure which direction is suitable for me, so no job can be done for a whole year. Even the last job I was more confident in doing was broken because of the job I went abroad, so I was still trying...

As for the sentence he said after, he lived like a useless man, I don’t agree with it. His monthly salary is tens of thousands, and he is almost buying a house worth more than 700,000 yuan, but in his consciousness, he still feels like a useless man. His negative energy is very large! The feeling he gives me is that he has no mental fatigue and no vitality. If he is not careful, he can easily be infected by his negative energy...

Because he once walked through high places, but now he can't walk through that high places, he feels very unacceptable. Men love face, especially middle-aged men.

Almost all the apprentices he brought out before lived a prosperous life, but as their master, he lived a worse life than them, so his heart was extremely unbalanced. There was a regret that was deeply in his heart and was always tormenting him...

He felt that college students were useless to go to Cambodia! When he said this, it should be untargeted, but it indirectly affected my mood.

He also gave an example that it is useless for someone to leave his family and go to Cambodia to develop. Even if he gets tens of thousands of dollars a month, what if he gets a monthly salary of tens of thousands a month? If his family feels physically unwell, what can he get in the end? I ask you, what can he get?

Every time he asked, his tone became heavier. I felt particularly embarrassed!

If I answer him, it would put me in a situation of arguing with him. But if I nodded silently, it seemed like I was forcing me to accept his point of view again. I hate both of these feelings very much! So, when chatting with others, I hate the most about these serious and meaningless topics. If I want to talk about these, I might as well not talk about it, and it would be fine to go to read the book by myself.

Later, as I talked about what if I went to work in the United States? His attitude changed immediately! He said that it was different. He made a lot of money in the United States, and it sounded like he knew he was rich.

At that moment, I thought he was ridiculous!

He said that no matter how much money he earns in Cambodia, as long as his family has any physical discomfort, nothing will be useful. In other words, he focused on his family. Then, what he agreed should be to develop around his family and to take care of his family frequently.

However, after changing to the United States, his view was not valid. First of all, he felt that working in the United States was good, so wouldn’t it mean that working in the United States was to leave his family in China to develop? So what is different from going to Cambodia to develop? Then, he felt that he made a lot of money in the United States, so no matter how much money he made in Cambodia, wasn’t this a contradiction? Finally, we can conclude that what he really cares about is still face! He was very dissatisfied with the fact that people who were worse than him were before lived better than him, so if he had many complaints in his heart, he always felt that he was useless!

I feel that there is no happiness to live with this mentality.

How many people envy his monthly salary, but he only sees the so-called "achievements" in his eyes, and has no intention of feeling what he earned at that time. In fact, how sad...

However, everyone has their own way of living. He has his outlook on life, and I have my outlook on life. Not forcing others to accept their own outlook on life is a kind of respect for others.

Therefore, if you walk your own path, you can think about other people's opinions, but you can't mess around.

After cutting my hair, I returned to the dormitory and continued writing. Before I knew it, it was dark...

Time is like water in the ocean, and even if you don’t want to drink it, it will evaporate.
Chapter completed!