Wake up and thirsty. Looking at the 54th empty bottle of mineral water after living in the "Heart World" that I had drunk all the "Water of Life" by me, I sighed...

Quietly, I picked up the 55th bottle of mineral water and prepared to unscrew the lid to give a comfortable "baptism" for my bitter throat.

The fingers of the left hand wrapped around the lid of the large mineral water bottle with all their strength, and the fingers of the right hand pressed the "throat" of the large mineral water bottle with all their strength. After the action was completed, the fingers of the left hand were twisted instantly!

I never expected that the "creator" of the large mineral water bottle was so ineffective!

Not only was the lid of the large mineral water bottle not twisted, but the "neck" of the large mineral water bottle began to softly bend in. A part of the "water of life" seeped out from the small gap of the lid and flowed on my bed, wet me. Because I was sitting on the bed and twisting the lid...

A burst of nameless fire instantly burned from the bottom of my heart! I'm going to do it! Who made such a garbage thing?!

Complaint is a dangerous poison. It is silently distributed in every meridian in the body, as if nothing is wrong. But once you encounter something that has an inexplicable impact on the heart, the "poison" that seems non-toxic will instantly react in the human body, provoking the angry nerves of the human brain, thereby causing anger and body damage to the human body.

I know, I shouldn't have this kind of emotion. Well, take a deep breath and exhale! It's okay, just twist it again.

Slow down, after the same preparation, apply force again!

Well, I only felt my left finger rubbing against the cap of the large mineral water bottle... However, the cap was not unscrewed by me, and some of the "water of life" still seeped out and continued to flow on the bed. The case repeated the incident and wet me...

I felt that my heart was getting more and more angry! I felt like I was about to throw the bottle of water to the ground and was about to kidnap me!

At this time, another person in my heart said, "I know that the quality of this brand of mineral water bottle is so poor, why do you want to buy it again?"

A light flashed through my mind, and my pupils dilated a little.

Yes, I know that the quality of this brand of mineral water bottle is so poor, but why do I still have to buy it again and again? Since I bought it well, why should I complain?

Well, it seems that this is really the case. People are often easily lost by the influence of their environment and emotions...

For example, work. Before choosing a job, you usually understand the nature and requirements of the job in advance, whether it is in your own interests and whether you can accept it reasonably. Some people start a new job without understanding the new job, and thus complain, which is understandable. But some people clearly know the situation of the new job and are determined to work hard, but they gradually regret it during the struggle, and start to complain about the environment, nature, requirements, and benefits of the new job. They always feel that the new job deceived themselves and made themselves step into a pit. However, there is already a pit, and they know it, but they still choose to start. Who can I blame in this way? Simply put, I saw a fire pit in front of me, and I still jumped in even though I knew I would be burned after jumping into the fire pit, and when I felt very painful after jumping in, I started to scold the people who created the fire pit. Therefore, people are sometimes very strange.

For example, marriage. Before having a marriage, there will usually be a period of love that is well-understood. Those lovers who have not gone through a period of love that is well-understood and have a very painful life after having a marriage. This is understandable. However, for some lovers who have already passed a period of love that is well-understood and have a very painful life after having a marriage, it is unreasonable if they are not happy and have a very painful life after having a marriage. Just like the man may find it difficult to accept the woman spend money indiscriminately, the woman will find it difficult to accept.

The man is not hygienic, etc., these are generally in the heart of the love period when he is well aware of, but he still walks into the marriage hall together without mind, which proves that those are not important. But why do those little things that were originally not important start to become so grieving after marriage? Since these little things are really unacceptable to me, why did they have to be together at the beginning and enter the marriage hall that hopes to "hold your hand and grow old with you" together? Therefore, people are sometimes strange.

Looking at the lid that cannot be opened, I didn't plan to twist it hard, but used my nails to cut the connection between the lid and the "neck" of the mineral water bottle at the perimeter of the lid. Then, after twisting it gently, the lid left the "neck" of the mineral water bottle...

In fact, when I can't unscrew the lid, I can work hard to leave the bed, walk into the study, pick up a knife and slash the "neck" of the mineral water bottle. Then, all the upset will be like a gust of breeze blew by.

In other words, if your heart is too stubborn, it will instead bind your heart to imprison yourself, so that you will not see the beauty, but only the pain of complaints.

Whether it is work or marriage, it is because your heart does not vent your discomfort in time in a reasonable way, thus accumulating in your heart. Over time, the original beauty becomes pain in the heart that cannot see the beauty. So, the complaints are poisonous...

If a person does not have a big direction to guide his heart, he will easily lose himself because of some small things.

However, confusion may not necessarily be bad.

In the past, every time I experienced confusion, I felt that I could never grow up. I felt that confusion was a denial of my growth.

During these few months without work, I can say that I sank into the sea of ​​confusion completely and completely felt the invasion of various confusions. The direction of work, emotional belonging, dream road, family mission, health risks, etc. were all let me go...

Last month, I really felt like I was going crazy! It seemed that there was no step I could take normally, from front, back, left, and down. Endless unknown, confused existence...

It seems that the more I resist the confusion, the more I feel I feel.

So, I gave up resistance and let confusion erode my heart. But I still do what I like to do. For example, when I want to write something, I watch TV, and when I want to go on a small trip, it seems that confusion has nothing to do with me.

Slowly, unknowingly, the confusion that had troubled me began to dissipate little by little, as if I could see a little bit of the road ahead, although I didn't see too far.

I began to think about what kind of confusion exists...

Feeling that confusion will not disappear. It will exist at every stage of life.

Perhaps, confusion is a proof of growth, and it may be possible.

Because every confusion can bring new problems, and if solved, the ability will be improved.

Just like, the first time you go to take a bus in your life, without relatives and friends, you have to ask people yourself and think about how to take a bus. In this process, there may be confusion. You may not know who to ask, and you may have some problems when buying a ticket. However, when you find out these confusions, it will be easier to take a bus the second time, and after the third time you will feel as simple as buying a bottle of water in the store.

When you are confused, you will feel that you have encountered huge problems. After you understand the confusion, you will feel that this is the case.

The greater the confusion, the more opportunities you can grow.

Therefore, when you encounter confusion, you can make your mood free. Unhappy means unhappy, cry when you want to cry, and go crazy when you want to go crazy when you want to. Never suppress the emotions that should be revealed in your heart, otherwise, one day it is likely to destroy your world view, outlook on life, and values ​​like a volcano erupts.

Or maybe, don't regard confusion as a terrifying monster. You care about confusion because it blocks your way. You want to get something, but confusion makes it messy and makes it difficult for you to get something like that. So you begin to get irritable, start to feel depressed, and start to complain and get angry...

The more you care, the more difficult it is to calm down and lose your mind.

Confusion can also be said to be a signal of tiredness in the body and mind. Why do you feel suddenly lost motivation, sense of direction, and the desire to do anything? Because, when your body is tired, your heart is tired. You keep urging yourself to run forward. You only care about what your brain wants, but never seriously think about what you want for your body and mind. Therefore, a sense of powerlessness can easily appear.

When you are confused, stop and take a break. Think carefully about what kind of state is the happiest and most motivated for you. This is much more meaningful than blindly urging yourself to run forward.

Please be kind to confusion. There must be a "treasure" that will make you suddenly realize. Maybe calm down and you will see clearly.

A few days ago, A Shen called me and told me that he had resigned.

Maybe, he is really tired... I will see the path he really yearns for after quietness.

Actually, I didn't expect him to quit. Just as I didn't expect that I wouldn't really have a job for several months.

But I don't regret the few months I didn't have a job. I believe that God will not regret resigning from that job in the future.

Because the road is always there.

But we have changed our way to move forward... (To be continued)
Chapter completed!