Many times, people will fall into a "three-question" model: Why choose this path? How to go? How long does it take to go?

Most of the troubles and confusions are hidden in these "three questions". The more you see through, the clearer the future will be. However, there is no absolute clarity in the world. Even if you see through, there will always be times when you see through the fog. Therefore, instead of "three questions", it is better to "one heart and one move", that is, act with one heart and one mind.

Personally, I often fall into the "three-question" mode. Why choose this method to shine? How can this method shine? How long will it take to shine after choosing this method? I look forward to a bright future too much, and ignore the indispensable and possible boring process, troubles and confusion, pain and happiness.

So, I won't ask...

Back to February 20, 2017, I started the filming with a new aunt...

In fact, this is just a very ordinary cooperation, but for me, it is unusual to induce some thoughts or memories from cooperation.

The aunt can be said to be a newcomer or an old employee, because she worked here a few years ago and is very familiar with many old employees.

Well, I forgot where this aunt came from, but she looks very consistent with the aesthetics of the Tang Dynasty, and she also has a strong aura. Every time she speaks loudly, she is domineering! She and her husband are very compatible in figure, because when they stand together, they will tell you, well, they must be a couple.

Her husband is the director of the quality department, known as Lao Du. I have never spoken much, so there are not many descriptions about him. Or it can be said that I have no interest in men, so I don’t know much about them.

I know, you are more interested in women, aren't you?

Ouch?! Not bad!

Especially for aunts, right?!

Go and hold your head with your feet! I'll push you to your lungs!

My aunt's surname is Zhang, so she should be called Aunt Zhang or Sister Zhang, but I call her Miss Zhang. It's just because she humorously called me Mr. Liu. Therefore, she returned to her body with humor.

Our beginning comes from the three major philosophical issues of life. Well, who are you? Where are you from? Where are you going in the future?

There has been an answer about "Who are you?" She is Miss Zhang and I am Mr. Liu.

Then, the answer to "Where did you come from?" crosses geographical boundaries and returns to the source of life.

Where did I come from? When did I come? Well, I came from a flooded river in the twelfth month of 1992. The reason why I was able to live was because my great uncle and aunt heard the crying from the flooded river and discovered me, thus raising me. So, I am so mysterious. Hahaha...

Where did she come from? I didn't ask, and I knew it without asking. However, she talked about her son who was one or two years younger than me. Her son would also ask his parents a philosophical life question like other people's children: "Mom, how did I come from?"

The answer she gave was so natural and true: "I was born."

Then there was no more. It seemed that her son did not have the spirit of seeking the roots. You should know that children with strong curiosity would ask naively. For example, when a child learned that he was born by his mother, he would continue to ask: "Mom, how did you give birth to me?" There was even "Why am I in my mother's belly?" The child's curiosity is so great that you don't want to say it, and there is nothing they don't want to know.

Therefore, in order to overcome this awkward or difficult process, many parents usually plant a kind lie. Well, just like my uncle and aunt planted a kind lie I would like to believe in when I was a child - it rained heavily one day and the river flooded, and I was pushed by the river.

Although it is a bit like the exaggeration of the TV plot, when you grow up, you feel a kind of humorous warmth and happiness when you look back at these kind lies.

Ms. Zhang's choice to let her son know what he wants to know is also a method that is conducive to the child's cultivation of correct views.

She also talked about her son's love, and I only had one question about this: "Do you have any requirements for the wife your son is looking for in the future? For example, where do you hope she is from?"

She replied seriously: "I have no requirements for this, as long as my son likes it. After all, that's the one who lives with him, and it's not with me. It's good that they both live happily. I also have my life, so I don't have any requirements for my future wife..."

Her answer made me think she was very special. After all, most male mothers would have some requirements for their daughter-in-law, such as where they hoped to be from, what jobs they hoped to do, and who they hoped to have at home.

Finally, the answers to "Where are you going?" are a combination of ideals and reality.

She said she would work here for a while first, and if she could accept the salary limit and environment here, she would continue to work. And I said that it was unknown, at least I could not do without this job for the time being, nor could I consider doing other things. However, when I had a new direction to pursue my dreams, I thought I would leave.

After all, Ms. Zhang has worked here, so she naturally has more experience in this job than me, and belongs to my predecessors. In terms of product packaging and ensuring product quality, I need to learn from Ms. Zhang.

However, when it comes to meal time, one person needs to be left to turn on the computer and the other person will go to eat first. Naturally, when two people take turns to eat, that is, one hour later (each person has half an hour of meal time), the person responsible for packing will face the challenge of stacking a large table of products that need to be quickly packaged.

Well, Miss Zhang, who is in charge of packaging, is too busy and seems a little impatient. Although I really want to help her, I need to cut small parts when I turn on the computer to get the product, so I really can't take time to help her.

In order to make our cooperation more natural, I later suggested that when she helped me pick up the machine during dinner, she would not need to cut small parts for me, just take the product and check it and pack it. She felt much more relaxed in this regard. Because the focus of her busyness returned to me, after dinner, I was facing a lot of small parts that needed to be cut. That is, I had to turn on the machine to get the product and new small parts, and I also had to take one or two seconds to cut a lot of small parts piled on the table. Huh, one advantage is that I won’t doze off.

Because of this suggestion, Ms. Zhang felt that I was a pretty good boy. That's right, I was a pretty good boy.

Seeing that I was too busy, she would help me cut a little. I felt that such cooperation was the harmony I like.

It is time to go to the hospital for the third vaccine, and I need to take leave. I said that the reasons for taking leave before needing preparation. This time, I prepared very well.

I took the doctor's diagnosis report and the time record of the injection to prevent the cold-faced boss from thinking that I was lying to him.

The reason for taking leave on the leave note is to go to the hospital for injections. I still like to take leave for one day. Although it only takes half a day to get the injection, I want to take a break. It was not easy to get a leave during the busy delivery period at that time, but I believe I can!

When the cold-faced boss came to our machine to look at the product, I handed the leave note to the cold-faced boss with a natural expression and posture as much as possible.

He took it in a little puzzled way and immediately blurted out: "What?! I asked for leave again for an injection?"

While explaining, I took out the doctor's diagnosis report and the record of the injection time from my trouser pocket and handed it to him.

After reading it, he still said lightly that it is not possible.

However, I saw the possibility. Because his tone was not very firm. After all, I was taking sick leave, and it was normal for me to be bitten by a dog to get vaccinated. If this is not agreed, if it causes other people's physical discomfort, he will be in trouble.

So, I used my trump card again!

I smiled and called him: "Dear Boss!!!"

Miss Zhang next to her couldn't help laughing: "Oh, my dear boss!"

The cold-faced boss instantly changed into an expression of wanting to laugh but not holding back. Finally, he criticized the leave I asked for.

Therefore, the best reason for taking leave is the truth that is so true that he can't resist, plus a little sincere attitude.

Usually when I work with my aunt, I like to understand their marriage, because it feels a little awkward to say nothing. So I need to find a topic to talk about. Personally, I feel that the best point to get started with chatting with my aunt is to talk about their families, such as their children and husbands.

So, when I talked with Miss Zhang as if there was nothing to talk about, I talked to her about her old Du.

What kind of existence is marriage for her?

She smiled, her eyes quietly recalling the beauty of youth as if filled with light, and describing to me the beginning of her and Lao Du. At that moment, she seemed to have become back to her when she was young, and she seemed to have regained youth. Because when a person recalls her beautiful memories when she was young, she will become young again.

Lao Du has a very good temper, and is the kind of person who doesn’t look angry when he gets angry, while Miss Zhang is a irritable and has no patience. However, they have been together for half of their lives with different personalities. Perhaps, this is the destined fate.

When Lao Du was young, he was a pretty ordinary young man with a thin figure. However, when Miss Zhang was young, she was a beautiful girl with a good figure.

Ms. Zhang said that it was Lao Du who pursued her back then. In fact, there were many handsome boys who liked her and pursued her at that time, but she accepted the pursuit of Lao Du, who looked ordinary. Because Lao Du was very honest, kind and reliable in her mind. Well, it was true that quality defeated hormones.

Miss Zhang actually understands her hot temper, and she also feels that only Lao Du can bear her awesome temper. Therefore, she truly loves Lao Du and will still lose her temper when she wants to lose her temper.

The value of marriage is that both parties can love their true partner with their true self.

Old Du generally won’t lose his temper with Miss Zhang for two reasons. One is because of his personality and he has no temper. The other is that even if he really loses his temper with Miss Zhang, he can’t afford to lose his temper. In addition to love, there is also the truth - "Pigs can’t eat tigers."

After the two got married, they had a happy and perfect figure and were far from being thin. Then, they had a son. When her son became sensible, they asked Lao Du: "Dad, why did you like my huge mother back then?" Lao Du smiled and said, "Your mother was not like this back then. At that time, your mother was so beautiful and had a good figure!"

Miss Zhang's memories are full of happiness...

When Lao Du walked to our machine to check the quality of the product, Ms. Zhang happily said to him: "Lao Du, Lao Du, hehe, Mr. Liu talked about our youth and said how you chased me."

Lao Du put up the glasses frame and replied calmly: "What's there to say?"

In fact, Lao Du also loves face in front of young people. However, Miss Zhang likes to tear face, so she just follows her.

Although a marriage with crystallization has entered a dull and passing years, occasionally a little luck can bring ripples of romantic memories.

There is willfulness, tolerance, and many emotions are uncontrollable in marriage, but all disharmonies can be moderately neutralized like liquids of different densities with their own components. The premise of neutralization is that there is love between the two parties in the marriage.

Once, because of an unsuccessful event about the rental exchange, Ms. Zhang packed it and shouted at Lao Du who was checking the products next to the machine in front of me in her hometown dialect. After all, she had already reminded Lao Du to book with the landlord, but because of Lao Du's habit of delaying the situation, the renting house he was optimistic about was rented by someone else.

Although Old Du looked like "I know I'm wrong, forgive me, wife!", Miss Zhang completely ignored the existence of me, an outsider, and bit his dignity as a man into pieces, without any room for bargaining.

At that moment, I felt very sympathetic to Lao Du's situation. After all, men love face. It would be fine if they were roared like this at home, but I would definitely feel uncomfortable when I was roared like this in front of outsiders, but I had to bite the bullet and endure it helplessly.

Auntie has always taught me by the couple who are married in a certain vegetable field. Married women try not to trample on their husband's face outside, because their husband's face is gone, and they will lose their face. It is only others who watch the fun. So, even if you want to criticize your husband's fault, you must do it privately at home and not let your children know. This not only preserves the dignity that your husband should have as a man, but also fulfills the responsibility of your husband as a wife to assist her husband on the right path and has respect for her husband, which also contains love.

Therefore, I think if Miss Zhang chooses to educate Lao Du after returning home from get off work, perhaps this will be more appropriate.

Of course, every couple has their own way of getting along. Although Ms. Zhang scolded Lao Du very fiercely, when she found a new rental house, Ms. Zhang's anger disappeared, and they would still get along happily as before. Therefore, in between, there must be one support that can tolerate and tolerate the uncomfortable feeling is love.

Although there is less turbulent passion after marriage, the calm and powerful love is soaked into the heart.

Miss Zhang once asked me a question: "Have you and your girlfriend advanced to the advanced stage?"

I was stunned at that time. This aunt is so direct! I...well...

I don't know how to answer this private Smithda question. After all, I'm very shy...ahhaha...

Seeing me being squeamish and not answering much, Ms. Zhang felt that I hadn’t had soul fusion with Xiaoshi yet, so she told me a shocking truth: “Boys should be more proactive. When girls feel “spring”, you don’t need to take the initiative the second time.”

I looked a little puzzled: "Ah?"

She smiled: "Because when a girl feels the "happiness of spring", she understands that feeling. Do you understand? She will understand. So, she will take the initiative to look for you..."

I filtered what she said in my mind in amazement, and it was clear and stern!

This world is really wonderful!

It turns out that there is still a distance between my aunt and I, smiling, worshiping... (To be continued)
Chapter completed!