Think quietly, how should I start...

Quietly, quietly...

Well, won’t you start a good start like this?

Just like I was always thinking about when my baby would come to this world, think about it, and then one day I came...

Many things, let the flow be, and when they should come, they will naturally come. If you don’t worry too much about the beginning, the beginning will naturally appear.

It was mid-July 2018. Well, Xiao Shi's belly was already quite big, but to others, her belly looked only about five months.

Without comparison, there is no embarrassment.

Many pregnant women who are closer to Xiaoshi's pregnancy week have their belly several circles larger than Xiaoshi's belly. Even if some pregnant women who are not as pregnant as Xiaoshi's pregnancy week, their belly still looks bigger than Xiaoshi's belly.

Because of these comparisons, Xiao Shi sometimes wonders whether the baby in her belly will be very small and light...

And I would smile and comfort her: "No, your belly doesn't look bigger than their belly because you are smaller than them. Their belly may be just because they have more amniotic fluid."

She would look at me in confusion: "Is it?"

I will still smile: "Of course."

In the late stage of pregnancy, the baby will be more active in his stomach...

For example, the baby will kick Xiaoshi's belly.

For several nights, Xiao Shi and I stared at her belly quietly to see if the baby kicked it.

We were surprised when we saw something like a foot bulge and slide on her belly, just like we were having fun when we were a child.

Then, the happiness in our hearts will make us unable to help but touch the foot-shaped thing with our hands, and a special warmth arises naturally.

However, every time we touch it, the baby stops kicking it. It seems like he is having fun with us adults.

It doesn't matter, you'll have enough touch when you're born in the future.

There should be another memorable part during pregnancy, that is, taking photos of pregnant women.

Xiaoshi always wanted to go to the studio to take a group of pregnant women's photos, but she didn't come for various reasons.

And I only took a photo of me kissing Xiao Shi's pregnant belly, which is also a relatively memorable photo of a pregnant woman. The angle of the photo is pretty good, but unfortunately, there is only one.

Later, I bought a pregnant belly sticker online, which had several cute expressions. I originally planned to stick it on Xiaoshi's belly and then take photos for her, but what we didn't expect was that the baby was "struggle"!

It was already the end of July 2018...

That day, we planned to go to the hospital for prenatal examination, and then we went to see the new movie after the prenatal examination...

On the way to the hospital, Xiaoshi happily described what toys to buy in the future after the baby was born. She always liked the toy fitness stand where the baby kicked the keys and used his feet to make sounds when he fell asleep. I said at the time that the baby would buy in the future after the baby was born, and it felt quite creative.

We have great longing for the future after the baby is born, but we never expected that the baby would start "struggling" more than two weeks in advance...

When she went to the hospital for prenatal examination, Xiaoshi's prenatal examination doctor told her that she had to go through the hospitalization procedures immediately because the baby was about to come out and had already opened one finger and might have given birth that afternoon or evening!

Xiao Shi said that she doesn’t feel anything. Can she wait until she feels it and is hospitalized?

However, the doctor told her very seriously: "When you feel it, it may be too late."

So, Xiao Shi came out and told me all this.

Well, it's so sudden!

I had planned to go shopping, watch movies, and so on, all of them were in chaos. At that moment, I felt a special tension covering me, and my emotions were very complicated. I couldn't tell whether I was afraid or excited...

The first time I encountered this situation, I didn’t know how to deal with it, so I called and asked my family about my opinion.

After the communication, the second sister excitedly told Aunt the news, and heard that Aunt was very excited at the time.

Afterwards, my second sister took the time to take the bus to the hospital to accompany Xiaoshi, and I took the bus back to "Xintiandi" to get the luggage needed for Xiaoshi's hospitalization.

Because I didn't expect the baby to come out so many days in advance, I haven't even started preparing the list of items to prepare for giving birth to a child before. Oh my God! Sure enough, it makes sense to prepare for the future.

After hurriedly packing his luggage, he rushed to the bus to the hospital.

By the time I arrived at the hospital, it was already evening.

The second sister had already completed the hospitalization procedures for Xiaoshi, and Xiaoshi also changed into the hospital's medical clothes.

It turns out that it can be quickly changed from one state to another.

Suddenly, I felt a little uncomfortable.

After the second sister went back, Aunt called me to ask if she wanted her to come to the hospital to take care of Xiaoshi.

I said, no, just take care of her.

Because Xiaoshi has already opened her finger, the nurse asked Xiaoshi to sleep in the ward closer to the delivery room. If Xiaoshi is about to give birth, she can quickly advance the delivery room.

At that time, I thought that Xiao Shi might be born that night...

Because her attending doctor examined Xiao Shi, she said she had already prescribed a finger and a half...

But, that night was quiet.

Xiaoshi didn't feel any special pain, so I sat on the stool and slept beside her bed. But after sleeping on her belly for a long time, my head would be very dizzy. So, Xiaoshi then asked me to go to the hospital bed to sleep, half of each person.

Well, that was the third time in my life I slept in the hospital.

The first two times I slept in the hospital were sad memories, but this time I was happy.

At night, the nurse would come to help Xiaoshi check it out several times to understand the baby's dynamics.

The next morning, Xiaoshi's attending doctor helped Xiaoshi check and found that it had become a finger-opener again. Therefore, she suggested that Xiaoshi go for more walks, which is conducive to promoting finger-opener.

So, I walked around with Xiaoshi for the next few days, or watched TV in the ward...

Well, the baby is about to come out soon? Why is there still no movement after a few days?

Not only I can't figure it out, but the attending doctors couldn't figure it out. One night, they had already had two fingers, and they all said they would have had that night. As a result, after that night, Xiao Shi hadn't had a child yet...

We were the first to enter the ward where we were. There were at least three or four pregnant women who had been born after entering. But Xiao Shi had not yet given birth...

Xiaoshi and I were speechless. Is the time not coming?

Later, the attending doctor became anxious and felt that she wanted to get an induction injection because looking at the stomach and opening three fingers showed that she could have a child, but she didn't have a child yet. This situation can easily lead to the baby's lack of oxygen in the stomach, which will cause serious consequences over time.

I agree...

After that, I experienced a serious mental torture...

Because after taking the induction injection, Xiao Shi felt dizzy and her stomach hurts...

Looking at her uncomfortable look, I felt very sad... But I couldn't do anything except comfort her next to her...

Later, Aunt called me and asked me, and after I knew I agreed to ask the doctor to give Xiao Shi an inducible injection, her first reaction was to be surprised and then scolded me. Because she felt that the inducible injection would hurt the pregnant woman and the baby.

I told her about the situation at that time, but she still didn't understand it very much...

Before this, I told her that the hospital was a private hospital. Unexpectedly, she thought that the hospital was not formal enough, and she was given injections and charged random fees. Maybe it could have given birth naturally, but she deliberately proposed the statements such as caesarean section, which she thought was true...

She even called her father to tell her about this.

Dad immediately called me and asked me angrily: "The hospital you went to is a private hospital? If Xiao Shi couldn't give birth, tell me what you want to do?"

At that time, I was really in extreme pain and helpless...

Really, at that time I didn't know if my aunt wanted to kill her son...

Although I knew that Auntie was also worried, my tears still fell uncontrollably at that time. No one understood the helplessness, and could only struggle with pain...

At that time, it was Xiaoshi who explained to her father. She said that this hospital is the hospital where we have been having prenatal examinations, and her eldest wife gave birth to two children in this hospital. It is a regular hospital with medical insurance...

After Xiaoshi finished the phone call, she couldn't help crying when she saw me working so hard: "Dear, stop crying, I want to cry..."

So, when Xiaoshi received a labour injection and was pushed into the delivery room, my heart was very uncomfortable.

I couldn't go into the labor room, Xiao Shi called me and told me that she was the only pregnant woman inside...

What she told me the most was that her stomach hurts...

I said that I can't bear to let her be sad or suffer alone...

What makes me even more uncomfortable is that the attending doctor said that if Xiao Shi still hadn't given the bottle of delivery injection, she would continue to do it the next day.

Five hundred yuan per bottle is not what I care about the most. What I care about the most is that Xiaoshi has to bear so much pain alone...

At that moment, I really had a thought like this: I won’t have a second child in the future, and I don’t want to see Xiaoshi so painful...

The helplessness at that time was the ultimate helplessness, and I couldn't do anything...

Just when I thought the pain would keep pestering me, a turning point occurred, and the delivery needle worked, and Xiao Shi was pushed into the delivery room!

I didn't want her to face all this alone anymore, so I decided to go in and accompany the birth. The birth fee was 500 yuan.

After changing into a maternity suit, he went to Xiaoshi's side.

I know that if I am by her side, she will feel much more at ease and will be more powerful.

As she took a deep breath and tried hard, I grabbed her hand tightly and cheered up! Dear!

Baby! You have to work hard too! Don’t let your mommy work so hard!

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To be continued...