Every stage of life has the happiness that I yearn for in every stage of life. When I enter the marriage era, the happiness I yearn for the most is to be appreciated by the person I love.

Is it difficult to get the appreciation of your lover?

I don't know about other people's, but for me, yes, it's hard.

My heart is arrogant, but in front of my wife, my pride is not worth mentioning.

I am proud and feel that I am a treasure.

But I only saw myself like a grass in her eyes.

My goodness, it turns out to be so ordinary.

Mine is so ineffective.

I am not a hardworking person, but my clothes are all hand-washed, and I don’t want to use them even if I have a washing machine. Among the clothes I have washed, mine is the most, then my wife’s, and finally Ziyu’s.

When I was not in love before, I thought that after I got married in the future, I would no longer have to wash my own clothes.

Reality proves that no, this kind of "thinking" is a slap in the face. Not only do I still have to wash my own clothes, but I also often have to add two more copies.

OK, I naturally accepted it.

However, I still can't escape the routine of "I thought".

I thought it was very rare to be able to wash clothes so carefully as the head of the family, but I only saw the "normal" that was taken for granted in my wife's eyes.

Before getting married, I didn’t know how to cut meat or cook vegetables. I always imagined that after getting married, my wife could stir-fry a lot of delicious dishes for me to taste.

Reality proves that this fantasy is unrealistic.

Maybe someone else's wife would think: I want to cook a lot of delicious dishes for my husband to try my good skills.

But my wife would think this way: If you don’t know how to cut meat and stir-fry, go and learn. I’m still waiting for you to cook delicious food for me in the future.

So, I learned to cut meat and stir-fry.

If the meat is not cut well and the vegetables are not fried well, then her face will not be very good. Naturally, what I will eat will be northwest wind.

If sometimes I don’t move fast enough, have impatience in doing things, and have signs of laziness, I have to accept a soul-searching question: “What else can you do?”

Although I think I can write things, write songs, draw, and... but these cannot be equated with economic benefits, so what's the use?

Not being able to make money means wasting time.

My expertise is not enough to make money at the moment, so how can I get her appreciation?

I love her, and I gave her all my best, but my best is not what she wants.

Even if I insist on practicing biceps and abdominal muscles every day, it has been effective. However, she just took a simple look and then left me with a roll of her eyes.

Is it really that difficult to praise me?

Is it really because I am used to complaining that I can only complain?

Someone calculated her horoscope and said that she had a bit of high demands on her partner.

Well, it's not a little bit, it's very high.

But, so what?

Who told me to love her and to accept all the requests she made? As long as I can do everything I can.

When you choose to love someone wholeheartedly and without reservation, you will become humble...

The more you love, the more humble you become.

I don’t expect that one day she will understand my mood, but I just hope that I will get her appreciation one day in the future.

At least, in her heart, don’t always think that I can’t do anything, and compare me with other people’s husbands.

I am me, I have different fireworks.

Perhaps, when she finally learns to appreciate me, she will understand how much she loves her and how good she is, my dear.

How can I get the appreciation of my loved one?

For me, I can only work hard and improve every day.

Love doesn't make sense. (To be continued)
Chapter completed!