Life is a process of wandering between gains and losses.

Which one do you care more about when it comes to gain or loss?

In other words, the desire to obtain and the fear of losing can hold your heart?

Well, for me, compared to the desire I want to get, what I care more about is the fear of losing.

Because the feeling of loss is so unforgettable...

When you have it, you may feel nothing, and everything is taken for granted. But when you suddenly feel lost, you will understand why you are afraid.

What you want to get is not worse than what you are now even if you don’t get it. But if you lose it, you may lose it forever and will become a regret.

Just like, if you want to become a billionaire, even if you can't become, it won't be bad. But if you lose important relatives, it means that no matter how much money you have, it will not make up for this regret.

The real gain and possession is not lost.

There are many couples in life who always feel that the other person doesn’t love them, so they break up. But when it comes to the moment they break up, they will understand how important that person is to them.

Last night, I dreamed again.

I dreamed that my dear had sex with a man I didn't know. I felt heartbroken and very uncomfortable until I woke up...

Fortunately, it's just a dream.

But this dream made me know how much I love my dear. Even if she allowed me to be "stricken by my wife", my heart still cared about her very much.

Therefore, being afraid of losing means paying attention.

Today, I found the WeChat account I lost because of going abroad, and many memories filled me.

It has been almost four years since the end of August 2015. Fortunately, many WeChat friends still haven't deleted me from my address book.

Well, it's lost and regained.

I sent a WeChat account a message that took four years to say, and I felt a little emotional.

After that, Brother Hong, who was in college, soon had a WeChat call with me.

We chatted happily for more than ten or twenty minutes, and it felt as comfortable as we were still in college. I missed that college time so much!

How great would it be if I was in college and had the same mentality as me now! Then, I would learn a skill, cultivate art, cultivate sentiment, create interpersonal relationships, and cherish that love...

The reason why "if" is so beautiful and attractive is that it is an illusory and unreal "if".

The experiences of these four years are really deeper than those of my past twenty years.

Between gains and losses, I have experienced more of the taste of life.

Perhaps, people have to experience more losses in order to learn to grow and understand the preciousness of possession.

There are gains and losses, and there are losses and gains and losses.

If you see through it, your life will be easier.

When you lose your "importance", maybe God will shed a meteor-like tears in the sky, but you just didn't see it.

If you live your life well, there will be a perfect possibility in the end.

God likes to joke, so can you, right? (To be continued)
Chapter completed!