Do you love yourself?

Well, I love it.

But, is my love really love?

What is love?

Personally, if you love, your heart is at least happy. No matter what kind of pleasure is sweet, comfortable, bitter, and painful.

If you love someone, when you see that person happy because of you, your heart will be very happy and comfortable. When you cannot love that person directly and can only keep a distance, you may be lost, but when you know that person is still happy, your heart will be equally happy, but this kind of pleasure will be mixed with some bitterness and pain. After all, that person's happiness does not come from you.

I think it should be the same as loving yourself.

Be kind to yourself, you will be very happy. Be tough to yourself, you will be very depressed.

But some ruthlessness is just to force yourself to be excellent, just like parents are strict with their children, just to make their children better.

However, what do you need?

Is it pleasant or excellent?

Which one is love for oneself?

Do whatever you want. It will be very pleasant, but it is also easy to indulge in it, turn into spoiling, and eventually waste yourself.

But I always force myself to do what I don’t want to do, and I restrict myself from all kinds of restrictions. Although I have become excellent, I can’t feel real happiness. I am always depressed in my heart and indirectly ruin myself.

Too indulgent will ruin the future. Too restrictive will ruin life.

One is to live too crazy, the other is to feel that you cannot live, like a machine.

So, even if you love yourself, you will be lost.

I don’t know how to grasp the degree of loving myself.

Just like, some people don’t want to stay up late and have to cherish their bodies, but they still keep going as they always do; some people want to become excellent and learn new skills well, but not long after, they can only play whatever they originally did.

Force yourself to sleep, but you can't sleep, and then you will be more depressed. Force yourself to learn, and the more you learn, the more impatient you become, you start to hate such new skills. The starting point is obviously good, but if you are not careful, it will become worse.

Sometimes, it is difficult to love someone.

I thought it would be easier to love myself, but I didn’t expect it to be the same as it would be.

It just fits the 2019 Internet buzzword - it's so hard for me!

I think that I can do whatever I want, love the happiness of the present; and forcing myself to do what I don’t want to do, love the beauty of the future.

However, the two complement each other.

A person must feel happiness in the present before he will have expectations for the future; at the same time, a beautiful future cannot be without the efforts of the present and the restraint of a lot of indulgence.

Therefore, loving yourself not only makes you feel the happiness of the moment, but also limit yourself from being indulgent because of excessive happiness. When it is time to work hard, you must work hard.

Loving yourself seems to be the same as loving your own children.

Whether a child lives a happy life depends on whether he can bring them happiness; whether a child becomes excellent depends on whether he can educate and cultivate them well.

And you are just a child deep in your heart. However, people always have to grow up and take responsibility, and the children in your heart can only be hidden deep in your heart.

However, in some relaxed and happy moments, the children in their hearts will be revealed.

So, love yourself, just like loving your own children.

When you should be teased, you should be teased. When you should be coaxed, you should be coaxed. When you should be strict, you should be strict.

Of course, many people are not married yet and don’t know what it is like to love their children...

But, people's imagination is rich, you can imagine.

What will you do when your child is unhappy? What will you do when your child is naughty? (Except for those who don’t love children)

And what to do is the way you love yourself.

At this moment, I was circulating the single Faye Wong’s Cantonese song "Love Letter to Myself".

Well, this song is the song I liked for the first time when I was in the second and third grades of elementary school.

Not only does the melody sound, but the lyrics are also well written. After all, it was written by Lin Xi.

This song is best for people who don’t know how to love themselves, and it is very suitable for listening to fall asleep.

Well, likewise, I'll end the lyrics of this song:

Lala, comfort yourself,

Remember happy things attentively;

Lala, love yourself,

It is the truth picked up on the earth.

Write, this noble love letter,

Use your own words to be my heavenly book.

If you don’t love each other, how can you give your lover the benefits... (To be continued)
Chapter completed!