As a family husband who suffers from "severe control of his wife" and a non-professional dad with half a dad's diploma, I often think that I am such a person...

The second night in Shenzhen is Monday. Logically, my dear has to work overtime until 8 o'clock and usually doesn't rent a house.

However, she temporarily decided to take leave that night and not work overtime, so there was a follow-up.

At that time, it was around 6 o'clock in the evening, and she suddenly sent me a WeChat message saying that she would not work overtime that night and asked us to have dinner first and then cook noodles after she came back. She wanted to eat noodles.

I replied happily, waiting for her.

Afterwards, a misunderstanding arose.

Well, the reason for the misunderstanding is that the signals from my phone and her phone are not synchronized enough.

I asked her where she was, but she didn't reply to me for a long time.

Afterwards, she replied to my other words.

I asked her where she was, but she replied: Haven’t you asked?

I was puzzled at the time and asked, but I didn't reply to me.

After that, I received her latest location.

Afterwards, she asked me what dishes to eat tonight.

I said there were scrambled eggs with tomatoes.

She asked me if I had any raw tomatoes, and if there was one, I would leave one for her to cook noodles.

I replied, the tomatoes have already scrambled eggs, is that OK?

She said, yes.

Well, the fuse has been buried.

Then, it was close to around 7 o'clock in the evening.

She may have sent me a WeChat message, but I didn't hear it. After all, my phone is indeed entering the old age stage.

Then, the phone rang.

I was about to pick it up, but she hung up.

At that time, I remembered that she forgot to bring the key, and probably wanted to call me to open the door.

But, I thought again that she had just called her and died shortly after, and it is very likely that someone else had opened the door.

But to be on the safe side, I asked Auntie to help you open the door downstairs.

At that time, Auntie had finished her meal, but I hadn't finished her meal yet.

So, the next step is the conflict that broke out due to misunderstandings!

My dear, who was angry as soon as he entered the door, was filled with dissatisfaction with me, and asked me: "Why did you send a message to you, but you didn't reply? You didn't call you, but you didn't listen?!"

I apologized: "sorry, my phone is too trash. I didn't hear the message when it came. At that time, I was about to answer the call you called, but you hung up..."

The angrily Aries is terrifying!

She replied very unhappily: "What?! You just replied to me, but I told you, how could you not see it?"

At that moment, I had guessed that the mobile phone signals between us should be insufficient synchronization, which caused this time difference in receiving the information.

With a sense of injustice, I opened the WeChat chat record with her and let her see it. There were only three messages she sent in the end, which was a relatively long time difference from the previous message.

But, she doesn't believe it.

She just wants to make her temper explode to the end: "Anyway, my mobile chat history is not like this!"

In other words, she just wanted to count these misunderstandings on me.

With the beginning of a temper outburst, there will naturally be some other words.

Well, she said angrily, aren’t there any raw tomatoes?

I replied: "When did I say there were raw tomatoes? I said I had already scrambled eggs."

She was dissatisfied: "If you have the ability, read the WeChat chat records!"

I replied: "Okay."

Throughout the whole process, I didn't have the same anger as her, but I was a little surprised. Why can it be counted on me if it wasn't my fault...

Fortunately, I said that she just had a hot temper occasionally, but after all, she was a good wife.

Well, when she is angry, she is completely unreasonable and cannot sing against her. The more she sings against her, the greater her anger will become. Even if she knows that she is wrong, if she doesn't let her go, she will naturally keep her anger.

So, when she is angry, just let her go, and after her temper is vented, she will naturally reflect rationally and reflect on whether her behavior is excessive.

Slowly, she will understand.

Well, the conflict caused by misunderstanding disappeared after more than ten minutes.

The greatest hero is Ziyu.

When Xiaoshi eats noodles, Ziyu will carry a stool to sit opposite him and signal Xiaoshi to pick up some noodles for her to eat.

Well, Ziyu loves noodles very much.

Seeing Ziyu like the noodles she cooked so much, her anger naturally dissipated.

At the critical moment, my daughter saved me.

After that, it was fine, and a terrifying storm passed like this.

My dear later said, didn’t you buy a new phone? Why don’t you install it and use it for a new phone?

Well, when she said such words, it proved that she also believed that it was my cell phone signal that caused this misunderstanding.

So, understanding is really important.

I said, "I know you're coming back, so I'll let you tear it down by yourself when you come back."

Well, it was the new phone she bought for me, and it was also a new one.

She was afraid that if I use that old mobile phone at work, if I can't wake up the alarm clock, I will cause me to be late. If I can't receive important information, it will affect my work. If I use a better mobile phone, it won't make my colleagues feel shabby...

This is the love my wife has for me in her heart. She is so good if she doesn’t lose her temper!

Well, she chose to pay in installments, which were divided into 12 months, more than 200 per month.

The new phone has a good photo function, and she knew I liked taking pictures, so she fell in love with it.

Well, although it is not as expensive as other phones worth more than four or five thousand, the new phone I bought for me is already the most expensive phone I have ever used, and it has exceeded 2,500 yuan for the first time. What's more, it's very cost-effective.

So, what you have is the best.

This is true for the wife and so for the daughter.

My dear always envy her eldest father's granddaughter. Her eldest father said she has a good horoscope and is very smart. Well, she especially likes smart children.

So, from time to time, she would compare Ziyu with her father's granddaughter, and always said that Ziyu, who was born early, was not as smart as the eldest father's granddaughter who was born late.

Well, I don't like this comparison.

Every child has his own characteristics and every child’s intelligence. The key is to discover their highlights.

My Ziyu has her own characteristics, her own style, and her own blessings.

In the past two days, Ziyu and I have become more and more familiar with each other, and they will stick to me from time to time.

I haven't helped her take a shower for a long time, and I was afraid that I could not hold her to take a shower quietly. As a result, she watched me wash her face and hair quietly in my arms. That feeling was undoubtedly a love that traveled through time and space...

Aunt helped her take a shower, and she moved around.

I helped her take a shower and she cooperated very well.

Sure enough, as her daddy, I still have some magic.

Before, she liked drinking water, and she was happy without water. Now, she still has this. Even before going to bed at night, she must drink some water before she can sleep, otherwise she will lose her temper.

Well, she is a Leo with personality!

She now likes to give things to familiar people, just like, she will hand me a lot of toys, I will take them and reply "Thank you". If I don't answer them or hand them back, she will lose her temper and scream.

She must have her exclusive rice bowl when she eats. She always uses a spoon to put some food into her mouth as much as possible. Sometimes if it disturbs her, she will lose her temper.

In the past, she liked eating vegetables very much, but now she prefers to eat meat. The food she puts is lean meat and vegetables, so she will choose lean meat to eat, not vegetables.

She doesn't like being held by adults and pissed. Every time she knows she wants to be pissed, she will turn around and run away, even lose her temper, and there is no new thing for her to play with. It is usually difficult for her to be carried by adults and pissing willingly. (In fact, from a scientific point of view, pissing is not a good thing, but part of the economic pressure brought by diapers is not a joke, so save as much as possible)

She likes watching TV very much. If she doesn't turn on the TV, she will be upset. Even if she doesn't turn on the TV, she will hear the sound of TV. Sometimes, when she hears her favorite advertising music, she will find her small stool to sit down, watch it seriously, and even dance with her hands and feet.

She likes to find some very subtle things on the crawling mat, such as raw rice grains, small sand, small pieces, etc. that fall on the ground, and she will pick them up and play with them, and even put them in her mouth.

She is very addicted to things she likes, for example, I hugged her and raised her up about twice, making her feel very fresh and happy! Then put her back on the ground, she would pull me and signal me to continue hugging her up. Otherwise, she would lose her temper unless I could find something that would make her happier and divert her attention.

Perhaps, she was really curious about subtle things. Otherwise, she wouldn't want to pull out the fibrous roots of my chin, and she would inexplicably like to play with my leg hair. I pulled the trouser legs to cover it, and she pulled my trouser legs up. Similarly, she also had the urge to pull it out.

What she most envies is that she likes to wave and say goodbye. Whenever someone says goodbye to her, she will wave and say goodbye, no matter any occasion. Aunt takes her to buy vegetables. When she sees the boss looking for money, she will naturally wave and say goodbye. When she goes to the supermarket to pay, she must get the shopping list. Once she gets the shopping list, she will immediately wave to the cashier sister. Even if I am at home, I don’t wave to her at least ten times a day. After all, even if I go to bed at night, she will have to wave to me before going to bed.

Her two characteristics are already her characteristics: drinking water and waving her hands.

She has her own goodness and her own cuteness.

The same sentence is the best one.

Although I am not currently a good husband and an excellent father, I also have my goodness and goodness to them.

Finally, follow the beginning.

It turns out that I am such a person and can’t behave like this, so that I can feel that I am useless. (To be continued)
Chapter completed!