Before getting off work in the evening, I asked Xiaowen a question, mainly to ask her to summarize her previous relationship in one sentence.

She thought about it and said a very heavy-tasting sentence: "When I think of him, I feel like I've eaten it."

I thought she would say some sentences with connotation, but I didn't expect she would say sentences that were equivalent to dissecting the connotation.

OK, it really looks like her personality.

Well, when talking about her story, I have to go back to a certain overtime night...

That night, the manager was not in the office, and only me, Miaomiao and Xiaowen were working overtime.

Well, Xiaowen is a girl who likes to talk very much. When we were a little tired of working overtime, somehow, she talked about the topic of love...

It was from that time that I realized that the smile on her face was really not as innocent as I saw, and it turned out that there was a lot of sad past...

Well, she is a divorced girl and has a daughter over two years old.

Oh my God, if she doesn't say it, I can't imagine it...

Moreover, her willingness to tell us about her past means that she has already seen that past, which is not simple.

Xiaowen is a good-looking boy. She likes handsome boys, but not handsome.

According to her description, before she met her ex-husband, she had several boyfriends, some of whom were quite rich, but she just couldn't find the feeling of being in love, so she didn't understand.

Until, she met her handsome ex-husband...

Well, the two of them played together when they were young, but they were not very familiar with each other. Unexpectedly, they arranged for a blind date and met again later.

When they met again, Xiaowen felt an inexplicable sense of intimacy when he saw him. Simply put, it was the feeling that fell in love with him at first sight. However, her ex-husband had no interest in her at that time, and she felt that she was colder.

It is rare to meet someone who has feelings for her. How could Xiaowen miss the opportunity? She tried hard to chase her ex-husband. As long as her ex-husband was happy, she would be willing to do anything.

Well, her mentality at that time was like the mentality of some little girls in idol dramas. Generally, when she finally realized the reality and looked back, she would feel that it was very childish. But that was also part of her growth.

Xiaowen told me that as long as she likes a boy, she will constantly create opportunities to appear in front of that boy, so that the boy will feel for him and confess his love to her.

Well, her ex-husband made her succeed.

I thought everything was beautiful, but reality always slapped the face without mercy.

Her ex-husband values ​​brotherly feelings more, and regards brotherly feelings more than anything else, and more important than her own wife and daughter.

So, Xiaowen will feel very upset.

However, she still loves her ex-husband very much. Every time she quarrels, she keeps silent and doesn't want to argue with him. As soon as she goes out, she always puts his face first and has never done anything to harm his face.

But her ex-husband didn't know how to cherish her, and thought it was natural for Xiaowen to like him, so he even hit Xiaowen several times.

When Xiaowen said that her ex-husband beat her, Miaomiao and I were both surprised and despised her ex-husband. Well, the man who beats his wife is not a man at all.

What’s even more outrageous is that one of the first time I hit Xiaowen, when Xiaowen was pregnant for several months!

Miaomiao couldn't help but curse: "Scumbag!"

But even though Xiaowen was beaten, she still continued to be kind to her ex-husband foolishly.

Until Xiaowen's classmates gave up their daughter...

Well, I thought that when I gave birth to a daughter, he would love this family more, but not, my daughter's birth is still not as good as his so-called brothers...

So, Xiaowen's heart has begun to become so tired that she can't bear to love him...

So Xiaowen began to change his attitude, almost ignored him, and gave all his love to his daughter.

At this time, her ex-husband was a little uncomfortable and began to be jealous of Xiaowen's classmate Xiaowen only treated her daughter well and often ignored him.

From time to time, the two will quarrel about this.

Later, her ex-husband also began to change his attitude, from that kind of coldness to that kind of kneeling and licking...

When I gave you my best, you turned a blind eye to take it for granted. Until you were tired and didn't want to love you anymore, you shamelessly begged me to love you. Is this love or love?

The fuse will always ignite, blowing up the vulnerable "love".

Her ex-husband’s monthly salary is not high, and Xiaowen, who had given birth to a daughter, also went to find a job to earn money for her daughter’s milk powder after she recovered.

However, her ex-husband used the milk powder money Xiaowen earned for her daughter to eat, drink and have fun with his so-called brothers!

This made Xiaowen unable to bear it anymore and had a big fight with her ex-husband. Her ex-husband got drunk and beat her again...

How happy is such a marriage? How can it not be painful?

Before getting married, Xiaowen was a girl who paid great attention to dressing up. After getting married, she gave her whole body and soul to this family, making herself look like an aunt. Not only did she not get love, she also suffered more pain. Her heart was as sad as if she was about to break...

Well, women should learn to love themselves and then love others. Simply put, love yourself and love others.

The fuse that really made Xiaowen decide to divorce her ex-husband was that her ex-husband had a jump into the river, and it was good that she was fine...

She felt that such people who do not know how to cherish their lives must not be together! Even the basics cannot be done, so how can they love each other?

When she said that her ex-husband jumped into the river, Miaomiao and I were surprised again, which was really unbelievable.

I asked her curiously: "In what year was your ex-husband born?"

She replied: "In 1992."

I can't understand: "I'm the same year as me, but a person three years older than you is so childish?!"

She nodded and replied, "Yes! It's so childish!"

Well, finally, after experiencing the river jumping incident, Xiaowen divorced her ex-husband and became herself again.

Well, the child is raised by his ex-husband, but he still often videos with the child.

The only connection is just for the daughter you love and has nothing to do with others.

Love is like this, and friendship is also bad.

When she was in high school, she was friends with a not-beautiful girl. No one else liked to talk to that not-beautiful girl, but Xiaowen took the initiative to become friends with her and often helped her.

Naturally, Xiaowen sometimes says something to let the unpretentious girl know. It is normal, but the unpretentious girl deliberately says bad things about Xiaowen behind her back.

Well, Xiaowen also learned from other friends. Later, Xiaowen ignored her.

After a while, the unpretty girl came to apologize to Xiaowen and admitted that she was wrong. She hoped that Xiaowen would forgive her and continue to be friends with her.

Well, Xiaowen's classmate softened his heart. For her apology, he continued to be friends with her.

Well, Xiaowen really treated her unpretentious friend very carefully. Not only did she introduce her handsome good friend from her ex-husband to meet her, but she also matched them up.

Her ex-husband's handsome good friend had no feelings for her not-so-looking friend, but because of Xiaowen's persuasion and help, she got together very well later.

However, when Xiaowen's classmate quarreled with her ex-husband (the day before the divorce), these two people not only did not help, but also watched jokes and even spoke sarcastic words.

At that time, Xiaowen saw clearly that the two people were so ugly, and she felt that she was blind and would match them up.

From then on, Xiaowen blocked them.

Even the unpretentious friend told Xiaowen through other people that she hoped to continue to be friends. However, Xiaowen never wanted to contact her again.

It would be fine if you stabbed the back once, but there were even those who stabbed the back in front... It would be better if you don't want this kind of friend.

Well, this is how Xiaowen spent his youthful years, and now he has only found himself back.

When she is at work, she will sing songs from time to time or make lovely laughs from time to time, making people feel that she is still a carefree little girl.

Just like the sentence she often sang: I am still the boy in the past, without any change...

Yes, her mentality is really strong!

Because she is always trying hard to find a handsome guy, and she also said with expectation: "I really want to fall in love!"

People who seem simple may not be simple at all behind the simplicity.

Her optimism really makes me admire her!

Well, fortunately, I am also an optimistic golden dragon.

Fortunately, it's okay...

OK OK, it's late at night, it's time for me to sleep again...

I hope that everyone can encounter more beauty and live comfortably!

Well, let Dreams take me to wander...

Good night. (To be continued)
Chapter completed!