A few days ago, I saw a saying: There are many choices in life, but no matter which one you choose, you will regret it.

Well, I think this sentence is very good.

Just like, people have joys and sorrows, and the moon has phases and waxing and waning.

Many people live in a fantasy. If I hadn't chosen this path at the beginning, maybe everything would have been better...

No, this is not necessarily true.

Each road has its own scenery or hope, and it also has its own sunken or disappointment.

"If" is beautiful because it gives people the illusion that it seems to be able to go back in time.

You can only walk this path in life once, and you can't turn back the path you have taken, but you can turn around.

For example, because my dear and I don’t have the same values, I have to often fantasize that if I didn’t stay with her and chose others, would everything be better? But if I really think like this, it only means that my heart is blind. Because it is impossible for every road to the end without any flaws, and I will always encounter an environment I don’t like. Moreover, will I choose others to be perfect? ​​No, that is all about escaping the fantasy of the present. Similarly, like many people will want to go back to their childhood, why? Because I was happy when I was a child! But, did I have only happiness when I was a child, but no pain? If I always compare the pain of the present with the beauty of the past, a fool will also choose the beauty of the past. However, is this comparison reasonable?

When I was a child, I was happy because of my state of mind, not because of time. If I really brought my memories of the present, I might be quite happy at the beginning, but after a while, I would still fall into an unhappy situation. Why? Because of this state of mind, I saw more worlds and more thoughts in my mind, and there would be no fuss about seeing happiness.

Similarly, if I don’t like my dear, I fantasize about being with other beautiful women in my mind, and it may not be as I thought. Maybe when I chose other women to marry me, we might have happiness with the same values, but we might have other unexpected troubles and pains. Or maybe, when I chose other women, I would have the result of being with the present. No one can tell. As the beginning of the article said, no matter which one I choose, there will be regrets. Instead of thinking about unrealistic possibilities, it is better to think about how to make the present better.

After the previous article, the family atmosphere during this period finally eased. As expected, I was still the most important factor affecting this family.

Of course, I also thank my sisters for their cooperation.

The road to getting married is not easy, so cherish it when you go.

Life is like eating and eating vegetables. Everyone has their own taste. Some like sour, some like sweet, some like spicy, some like salty, and some like every...

However, it is not the choice at the beginning, it will definitely satisfy you.

For example, I don’t like bitter taste. Once when I went to cook, I saw that only fried eggs were left with bitter melon. I like to eat fried eggs, but I don’t like bitter melon. But I always have to eat. So, I still ordered fried eggs with bitter melon. I thought that those bitter melons would be very bitter, but after trying them, it seemed that not only wasn’t bitter, but also a little sweet. After that, as I ate them, even the rice tasted sweet. Yes, maybe the choice at the beginning did not satisfy me, but when I really savored it carefully, it seemed that it was not as bad as I thought. Bitter melon also had the deliciousness of bitter melon.

Many times unhappiness is just a part of a process. It does not represent the whole or the end.

Life is also like riding a bicycle up and downhill.

Some roads look like they are going downhill, but they don’t feel like they are going downhill, and they are still a little tired when riding. Some roads look like they are going uphill, but they have a feeling of going downhill, which makes them extremely easy to ride.

Sometimes, you think you made the right choice, but reality may tell you that you made the wrong choice. Sometimes, you think you made the wrong choice, but reality may congratulate you on the right choice.

Therefore, life is not necessarily what you see now, it is just a part of the road.

Only in the end can you know what your life is like.

What is choosing the right and what is choosing the wrong depends only on what your heart uses as the criterion for measuring right and wrong.

What kind of life you want also depends on your choices and actions.

Therefore, most of what you feel at the moment comes from your own choices. Whether you are happy or not, it is created by yourself.

Click! Change drooling mode...

Huh, it has been almost two weeks since I updated. During this period, I have spent the 25th anniversary of XDS on December 12, 2020, and the first anniversary of XDS on December 16, 2020.

We should have to write something, but we put it aside because we were too busy. But now, those two days have passed and it feels wrong, so there is no comment to write.

Then why am I going to update today?

Because today is the winter solstice, I have to get off work early. At the same time, December 21, 2020 is also my birthday in the Gregorian calendar. Well, I wish myself a happy birthday in the Gregorian calendar! Hahahaha!

I hope that when I grow up one year old, I will work harder! Get rid of procrastination! Get rid of laziness! Learn to persist in writing! Complete the small goal of 10 million words as soon as possible! Finally, grow up quickly!

Evolve! Working Golden Dragon!

Ahhhhh! A revolutionary evolution!

Funny Golden Dragon! Cool!

This chapter is over, happy winter solstice!
Chapter completed!