Chapter 173: Real Parenting
Xu Dabao pursed his lips, lowered his head and said guiltily: "I was wrong."
Since he chose to believe her, he should defend her when others raised questions, and he could tell that she was really angry because he did not defend her.
Does this mean that she is still very important in her heart? She cares about the thoughts and opinions of her eldest son?
After getting this promise, he didn't complain about her venting dissatisfaction with him, but was actually a little happy, because this proved that she cared about him.
Seeing Xu Dabao admitting his mistake, the anger in Su Xiaoxia's heart disappeared immediately, "Dabao, I didn't mean to blame you...forget it, let's not make trouble because of this matter."
After finishing speaking, Su Xiaoxia put down the third treasure, then looked at the second treasure, and said with complicated emotions: "No matter what others say, you should ask your heart. Do you really think that I am the kind of person who will abandon you?"
Dad and your people?
"If you really think so, then I have nothing to say; but if not, then you shouldn't listen to others.
"You are still young, so you may not know what I mean, but sometimes, when it comes to something, you should not just hear it through hearsay, but rather see it with your eyes and feel it with your heart.
"Er Bao, although you and Dabao are twins, you are far inferior to Dabao, and your temperament is far less calm than Dabao.
"I want you to change your temper and stop being suspicious. Even if you are suspicious, you must have solid suspicion. I... don't want your sensitivity, suspicion and impulsiveness to become your fatal weakness in the future."
After finishing speaking, Su Xiaoxia sighed deeply.
What she said is actually traceable. In the original plot, Erbao is the one who is particularly impulsive.
Especially after becoming a general, he acted completely regardless of the consequences. He was a reckless man. Coupled with his paranoid and dark character, he did a lot of bad things and made many enemies.
Although the current second treasure is a little annoying, it is not impossible to lead her back to the right path, so she will tolerate the children of the original owner and the male protagonist again and again.
Except for the daughter San Bao, whom she really likes, she doesn't feel very strongly about Xu Dabao and Er Bao. She just feels that the Dabao and Er Bao are very pitiful. She really sympathizes with the two brothers...
After listening to Su Xiaoxia's words, Xu Dabao was stunned, and Erbao was also silent.
Although Erbao has a hot temper and is not as smart as his elder brother, he is not a fool and he still understands some things that he should know.
He could tell that she was good to him, so she took the trouble to always tell him these truths.
Moreover, her question just now made him see with his eyes and feel with his heart...
What he saw with his eyes was that Su Xiaoxia was good to them all, but he was not sure whether he was sincere or not.
As for feeling it with your heart... He hasn't done this yet. Maybe, you really should feel it with your heart...
In fact, subconsciously, he didn't believe that Su Xiaoxia would leave them, but those people kept talking and it was really annoying!
Shen Lan saw that Xu Dabao and Er Bao both lowered their heads in shame because of suspicion, so she stepped forward and said, "Your mother doesn't really blame you.
"Whether it's big or small, you can also understand that if your mother really wanted to leave, she would have left at the beginning and would not have brought the second and third treasures back home.
"Don't listen to the wind or rain in the future. Sometimes, some people will use this to drive a wedge between our family.
"What I want to tell you is that who is the most trustworthy in the world, it is naturally the family members with blood.
"Of course, the most important thing is to learn to tell the difference yourself!"
Shen Lan's words made Xu Dabao and Er Bao hang their heads lower. Only San Bao was still confused and didn't understand very well.
After a short silence, Erbao pinched the corner of his clothes and said with guilt from the bottom of his heart: "Mom, I'm sorry, I should have believed you."
Although at the beginning, he lost the bet and was forced to call this bad woman Su Xiaoxia "mother", but as he called her more and more, and now he became more comfortable with it, he found that he still liked calling her like this.
Now, he feels truly sorry.
Seeing this, Su Xiaoxia sighed inwardly: Forget it, forget it, they are all children, guide them slowly, there is still hope.
"It's okay, just remember it in the future." Su Xiaoxia raised her lips slightly, showing a forced smile, "Whether it is now or in the future, you must learn to think calmly, especially you, Erbao."
Erbao nodded: "I understand."
This small conflict was resolved in this way, and Su Xiaoxia and the children reconciled as before.
Xu Yiyun also overheard what Su Xiaoxia and the children were talking about in the yard.
After all, this place is not big, and the soundproofing is not good. He has been practicing martial arts since he was a child, and his ear skills are better than ordinary people, so he can definitely hear these conversations.
What Xu Yiyun didn't expect was that Su Xiaoxia didn't rush to explain what was or wasn't the case, but patiently guided and taught the children in a long speech.
He likes her like this, she won't just yell and act like she did before.
Only now can it be called true parenting.
He believes that under her guidance, the children will definitely become good people in the future!
But now that he has to recuperate in bed, the burden of the family falls on her...
The second day.
Su Xiaoxia got up early, but Shen Lan got up earlier than she did to prepare breakfast.
"Mom, you don't need to be in a hurry to make breakfast. Our family is not short of food and drink. Dabao hasn't gone to study yet, and there's no work in the fields. You can sleep in."
Hearing this, Shen Lan smiled and said: "Mom is still young, why do you sleep so much? Besides, I have been busy for most of my life, and I am really not used to having some leisure time!"
"What do you mean half a life? My mother is only thirty years old. She can live a hundred years in the future and be healthy and long!" Su Xiaoxia walked over and said with a smile.
"You are the only one with a sweet mouth!" Shen Lan reached out and tapped Su Xiaoxia's nose.
She didn't know why, but she felt that she didn't feel like mother-in-law and daughter-in-law when getting along with Su Xiaoxia, but more like sisters.
But Xiaoxia is only in her teens now, and she is already in her early thirties. If she looks like a sister, should she say that Xiaoxia is older, or that she is younger?
But I have to say that she likes this kind of relationship.
She has seen too many conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. They have a small quarrel every three days and a big quarrel every five days. It is really annoying and affects the happiness of the whole family.
"Mom, if you want to hear something like this from now on, I will tell you every day." Su Xiaoxia hugged Shen Lan's arm and said affectionately.
Shen Lan is a wonderful mother-in-law, one in a million, so she naturally likes her.
"Are you trying to flatter me?" Shen Lan tilted her head and asked with a smile.
Su Xiaoxia nodded without scruple: "Yes, if you flatter me more, my mother will be on my side in the future, and Xu Yiyun will not dare to bully me."
"How dare he!" Shen Lan pretended to be angry, "My Xiaoxia is so good. I can't find a wife as good as my Xiaoxia from all over the country. If he dares to bully me, I'll beat his ass!"
Xu Yiyun:......
Chapter completed!