Zhu Bamei ran to Ye Yuran and said, "I seem to understand! If I want to stand upright in front of men, I have to take care of the profitable business myself and not leave it to anyone."

Ye Yuran smiled. She looked at Zhu Bamei, then at Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei behind Zhu Bamei, and said: "There is a saying called 'The economic base determines the superstructure'. Maybe you haven't heard of it."

, but that’s probably what it means. Whoever holds the financial lifeline of the family has the final say in the family. Before, you thought the world was unfair, but we opened a course for female celebrities, and women have to work hard to learn things and improve their abilities.

, but men can enjoy the benefits without doing anything, but the world is so unfair, because the 'economic lifeline' of this world is in the hands of men, and all the rules of the game are decided by men..."

"If you want to break this rule and let women speak, women must work hard, catch up, and strive to stand on a parallel line with men before they are qualified to speak."

"The reason why your sisters-in-law can talk at home is because I gave them money and the financial resources of their houses. If your brother wants to eat, he has to look at your sister-in-law's face.

The waist will naturally become stiff."

"Of course, don't think that in our family, you sisters-in-law have the right to speak, so they can show off their power. You must know that men still have the final say in this world. In other words, only you brothers are willing to speak at home.

'Give' this step, and be willing to 'let' your sister-in-law take the lead, so that your sister-in-law can be like this. If your brother is not willing, even if I give things to your sister-in-law, your sister-in-law may not be able to hold on."

…

When talking about the latter part, Ye Yuran's face became serious. She didn't want Zhu Bamei, Lin Sanmei, and Lin Simei to simply think that by winning a few businesses, they would be able to straighten their backs and follow

The man shouted.

The rules of the game in this world are made by men. Within a limited scope, Ye Yuran can let women be the "head of the family", but within this scope, it is men who really call the shots.

So once you step out of this range, it is still men who are exposed outside.

The three people who were originally happy felt as if someone had poured cold water on them when Ye Yuran said this, and their hearts were chilled.

——No, after talking for so long, aren’t we back to the starting point?!

——Is it possible that I can only watch like this and do nothing?

It's like the darkness before dawn. Before being woken up, everyone was confused and it didn't matter. Suddenly a few people who were woken up found themselves unable to do anything. It felt really bad.

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Looking at the three disappointed people, Ye Yuran laughed again and said: "Okay, don't be downcast. Although the rules of the game in this world are made by men, how to play within the rules of this game is not entirely for men."

It has the final say. You can look at your third sister-in-law. Although she is married to your third brother, do you dare to say that if she holds the Xu family’s dowry in her hand, she will not live well in the future? "

Zhu Bamei still liked Xu Yujin, the third sister-in-law, and nodded: "Probably not. Not to mention that the third brother is not a confused person, but the third sister-in-law herself is also a clear-minded person. As long as she doesn't do anything stupid and has so much dowry in her hand,

, I will definitely have a good time."

"That's because your third sister-in-law has a clear mind. She knows what she wants, and she also knows how to make her life better under the rules set by this man." Ye Yuran said with a smile, "You can't see in a woman's eyes

Only love, love, and the like, place everything on a man, be happy with a man's joy, get angry with a man's anger, and treat yourself as a man's accessory. Otherwise, no matter how much you pinch in your hands,

Things will still not be happy."

Although Ye Yuran didn't say it explicitly, Xu Yujin did not pin all her joy, anger, sorrow, and joy on Zhu San, but that was probably what he meant.

Zhu Bamei looked surprised: "Mom, aren't you angry? Although I am also a woman, the third sister-in-law... the third sister-in-law married the third brother. She is already married to the third brother, and she still doesn't regard the third brother as her 'God'. And

Those other thoughts, are they..."

A little unoriginal?

Zhu Bamei thought that Xu Yujin married Zhu San because Xu Yujin really fell in love with this man and had to be this man.

Forgive Zhu Bamei as she still has feelings and love in her mind. After all, she is still just a little over ten years old girl. While she is thinking about gains and losses, she also does not forget to think about the so-called "love".

"Why should I be angry?" Ye Yuran smiled and said, "It's not that your third sister-in-law doesn't like your third brother, it's just that when she liked your third brother, she kept a small part for herself. A woman in

When you like someone, remember to like yourself and maintain your independent personality. That is a truly successful woman. And the woman you third brother likes is also that kind of woman."

Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei have reached the age where they want to see each other. Ye Yuran did not hide it, so he made it clear about the things between men and women, and picked out some things he could say to them.

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Ye Yuran told them not to think that men only like women who are "obedient and obedient". If she really goes along with them and relies on them in everything, they will not take this woman to their heart.

There are many women in every country who regard their husbands as their first priority. Ye Yuran can just pick out a few and "attack" them to death.

Ye Yuran couldn't say that Liu's mother-in-law was such a person. She only talked about the woman who was beaten half to death by her man last time, but was still sent back by her mother-in-law's family to serve her husband's family and live a miserable life.

After talking about the other party, he took himself as an example: "Look at me and Old Man Zhu again, how dare he do that to me?"

Zhu Bamei didn't need to answer. Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei quickly shook their heads: "I don't dare."

——Let’s not talk about whether Uncle Zhu is that kind of person. With Aunt Zhu’s fierce temperament, even if Uncle Zhu wants to resist, he is probably no match for Aunt Zhu, right?

——Who in the entire Zhujia Village doesn’t know that Uncle Zhu was crushed by Aunt Zhu?

"Then why doesn't he dare?" Ye Yuran asked.

Zhu Bamei, Lin Sanmei, Lin Simei: "..."

I dare not accept this.

Ye Yuran smiled, not to ask them to answer, but to ask them to understand that this is how it is between men and women. Only if you dare to resist, men will not dare to "do whatever they want" to you, and will not treat you at all.

You take it seriously.

Ye Yuran also knew that her example was a little inappropriate. She also picked out Zhu Da, Zhu Er, Zhu San, Zhu Si, and Zhu Wu one by one to let them understand that different couples have different ways of getting along.

It's true, but it's generally like this - women can't really obey men in everything.

Only a woman who "remembers to like herself" and treats herself well can attract another excellent man, allowing him to learn to be kind to her and live a smooth life.
Chapter completed!