Zhu Bamei said that it's not that she doesn't understand their beauty, but she thinks that yellow and white things are not bad things.

Because of these things, she can not only live a good life for herself and her family, but also have the opportunity to help more people.

I am a woman and I care about the world!

I never feel that there is anything wrong with what I do, and I never feel that I do something great, because what I do is what I can do and what I want to do.

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At the end of the flower party, the shocked Miss Li Er conveyed what Zhu Bamei said to Mrs. Li.

She looked at Mrs. Li's expression and wanted to know whether what Zhu Bamei did was wrong or right.

Because in the education she received, women should not leave the front door or step outside the second door, and pay attention to the four virtues of women's virtues, women's speech, women's merits, and women's appearance.

If you fail to do any of these things well, you are not a good wife and mother, and you are shameful.

Mrs. Li was also stunned for a moment: "Did she really say that?"

Miss Li Er nodded: "Well, she said a lot, and she said it in front of all of us. She was not confident at all, and she was not reluctant at all. Especially when she mentioned her sisters-in-law...showing up in public, taking care of the family business, everything.

It’s a good calculation.”

Mrs. Li was also shocked, because this was completely different from the education she had received in the past. It was simply shocking.

When she came back to her senses and saw Miss Li Er staring at her, Mrs. Li said vaguely that if a woman wants to run a store well, she really needs to be good at calculations and know how to read the account books, so that she will not be deceived by the managers below.

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"The human heart is the most unpredictable thing. For a short period of time, you may think it is loyal, but over time, no one knows what will happen. It is appropriate to be a little defensive."

As for the concepts mentioned by Zhu Bamei, Mrs. Li did not deny them completely, nor did she affirm them. She just told Miss Li Er that in different positions, a person's thoughts, thoughts and actions are completely different.

Miss Zhu Ba would say that because it has something to do with her life experience.

When Miss Fang and Miss Li said that, it was Miss Fang, and the same was true of the environment in which Miss Li lived.

No one is wrong or right, it just depends on where you put it.

"I know what you are thinking," Mrs. Li held Miss Li Er's hand and said, "I'm afraid it's the first time you heard such a thing and you were frightened. But you are you, Miss Zhu Ba

It's Miss Zhu Ba, you are two completely different people, and your futures are also different."

"What mother taught you is what mother has learned in her life, and it is also what every big family needs."

"You can't live without other people's eyes and mouths. Mom would rather you be ordinary and just like everyone else, rather than be that outstanding bird."

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Because, those who stand out have suffered a lot since ancient times.

A person like Zhu Bamei might not be suitable for her eldest son.

Slowly, Mrs. Li calmed down and sighed in her heart, feeling a little regretful.

In the evening, Mr. Li came back and asked her about the flower party during the day.

In fact, I just asked her whether the ones she had taken photos of before were okay after viewing them today? Is there anyone you want to continue observing?

Those who continue to observe are naturally one of the future daughter-in-law candidates.

Mrs. Li picked a few.

"Isn't it good for Miss Zhu Ba? I heard people say that her mother is wise and open-minded, and her sons are very filial and promising. I think with such a person to teach me, Miss Zhu Ba can't be too bad, right?" Mr. Li's only worry is that

His wife disliked him for having a mud-legged background and looked down upon him.

But even if you don’t like it, it still depends on when.

The Zhu family is now prospering, and it looks like it is going to be a great success. Wouldn't it be a pity if we don't hug him quickly and wait until we become his family?

What's more, the Li family has not had many heirs for generations, and Mrs. Zhu is so good at giving birth to a daughter, so I think her daughter is not bad at all.

Mr. Li is still waiting to have a few more grandchildren.

"Sigh... who told you that she is bad? With a mother like that, it is impossible for a daughter to be bad. It's just that... a girl like that has too many ambitions, so I'm afraid she is not suitable for our family to learn from my brother."

Mr. Li has a question mark face.

Mrs. Li slowly told Mr. Li what her daughter told her about the owl.

At this time, Mr. Li was dumbfounded: "This...this...how is this inappropriate? She is a dignified woman who doesn't want to marry her husband and raise her children. How could she have such thoughts? It's simply..."

It’s so outrageous!

Is that something a woman can do?

Mrs. Li was not surprised at all. Her husband was familiar with poetry and books and was well educated in Confucianism. In his mind, the so-called good woman must be "virtuous and virtuous". She must obey her father at home, obey her father when married, and obey her son after her husband's death.

model.

What Zhu Bamei said and did was indeed a bit out of line.

"That's why...I said it was inappropriate." Mrs. Li lowered her eyes and did not argue with Mr. Li.

That night, Mrs. Li didn't fall asleep, and neither did Mr. Li.

The couple tossed and turned in bed for a long time.

Similarly, Miss Reiji didn't sleep well either.

Although Madam Li had "taught" her, she also felt that her mother was right, but...

But when she thought of what Miss Zhu Ba had done, she felt a little yearned for her. How could she break it?

She couldn't help but think that she was also proficient in pen and ink, and was proficient in poetry, music, calligraphy and painting. If she went to the countryside, could she be a teacher, open a school, and then...

Miss Li Er let go of the veil in her hand in frustration, because she knew she couldn't.

"What's wrong, Qingyi? Did something unpleasant happen to you?"

Miss Rei Er looked up and found that it was her eldest brother.

"Brother, you didn't go out?"

"I'm back. When I came back, I saw you sitting here in a daze, sometimes happy, sometimes disappointed..." Mr. Li laughed softly, "Isn't it someone who has moved your heart?"

Miss Li Er glared: "Brother, what did you say?"

Young Master Li thought he had guessed it right, and he and his sister talked about the people they had met at the flower party a few days ago.

Which ones he thinks are suitable and which ones he thinks are inappropriate.

Mr. Li was a little regretful: "Actually, I think Mr. Zhu Qi is quite suitable. He has a simple personality and doesn't have any fancy ideas. If you want to marry him, I won't be afraid of him bullying you. It's a pity that he was recruited as the consort."

"Brother, the flower fair was for me that day, not for me..." After a slight hesitation, Miss Li Er and her elder brother mentioned Miss Zhu Ba.

In her mind, Mr. Li is one of the smartest people in the Li family. He is also a man, so he must have seen all kinds of things in the world.

She wanted to ask him, are there really people like Miss Zhu Ba in the world? Doesn't it mean that women should be virtuous and virtuous, so that when they grow up, they can find a good son-in-law, take care of their children, and live a happy life?

But why, in Miss Zhu Ba's world, husband-in-law doesn't seem to be important.

Miss Zhu Ba seems to want to do the same as men.

Can women really do what men can do?

Mr. Li was stunned for a moment: "Female sir? Book school? Who did you listen to?"

"Miss Zhu Ba said it herself, and so many people heard it at the time. Brother, you don't believe what I said, right? Everything I said is true... When I told my mother later, she didn't say anything
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