Chapter 329 Vision for Future Family Life(2/2)
However, with Zhao Heng's income as a doctor, it would probably take ten lifetimes to buy a manor and villa in Beishi.
But with the precedent of developing software, perhaps Zhao Heng can do some more economically beneficial projects in the future.
"You agreed?"
Xu Manni was a little surprised. She originally thought that Zhao Heng would not agree to her suggestion.
"The elderly have an elderly lifestyle, which is different from ours. If we are forced to live together, it will take a long time for both parties to adapt and get used to each other, which is not necessarily a good thing."
Zhao Heng said that he had seriously thought about this matter. If his parents lived with Xu Manni in the future, one of them would definitely have to endure and change more. Zhao Heng only hoped that both parties could live well.
"I didn't expect you to think so carefully."
Hearing Zhao Heng's words, Xu Manni was moved. She knew that Zhao Heng really made such a decision from the perspective of her and her parents, truly considering both parties.
Of course, in our country's tradition, a large family should be together, reunited and close to the United States and the United States, but this ignores the different lifestyles of the two generations.
In recent decades, society has undergone great changes, which has resulted in the lifestyles of the two generations being very different, although they are only about twenty or thirty years apart.
This is completely different from the previous era when social life was similar for decades or even hundreds of years.
Therefore, the previous lifestyle of a large family and a family is somewhat unsuitable for today's social family.
"The days are going to be long in the future, so naturally we have to think more carefully."
Zhao Heng said.
Family life is very trivial. Now we should try to reduce or avoid the troubles as much as possible. Zhao Heng's parents are only less than sixty. Zhao's father and mother Zhao are both in good health and mental state. Now medical technology is developed, maybe
They can live to be over ninety or even over a hundred. In this way, they will have at least forty or fifty years to live together.
After living together for such a long time, it is impossible to say that there are no conflicts.
If you live separately, you can minimize this conflict, which is beneficial to both parties.
Moreover, Zhao Heng believes that deep down in his heart, his parents may not be willing to live with a native of North City like Xu Manni for so many years.
Lifestyle habits are not something that can be changed easily, and from Zhao Heng's point of view, there is no need to change. It's good if everyone lives in his own place and everyone is comfortable.
"It's so great that I found you."
Xu Manni was very happy and said that she had seen too many indigenous women from Bei City looking for men from outside the city, and then the man's parents came over, and it ended up being a mess.
Moreover, the final outcome of this kind of thing is not very good, either he is forced to divorce, or the man sends his parents back to his hometown, and they basically stop interacting with each other in the future. In short, it is not a good outcome.
However, not everyone is like Xu Manni and Zhao Heng, who can prepare a separate house for the elderly to live in Beishi.
If parents can live in a separate house and be close to their son, then they will definitely be very willing.
But how many people can have such conditions?
For most people, it would be eight lifetimes of their ancestors' blessings to be able to buy a house in Bei City, let alone prepare a house for the elderly.
"Since I'm so good, how do you want to reward me?"
Zhao Heng smiled and said.
Many people think that family marriage is not just that, they just have to live with their lives.
This idea is wrong. The more families and marriages require management, some people show their best sides outside, but bring their worst sides home.
If we look into the reason carefully, it is just that many people subconsciously believe that there is no price, or the price is very small, for hurting their family members and dumping garbage on them.
To be honest, many people, if they bring even half of the arrogance they are at home to work or society, they will probably be beaten up within three days.
"What reward do you want?"
Xu Manni looked at Zhao Heng, smiled and said.
The two have been officially together for less than two months, but Xu Manni feels as if they have been together for a lifetime, and they already have the feeling of an old couple.
"How about I go to your place tonight, and then we try the one that didn't work last time."
Zhao Heng thought for a while and said.
He is only twenty-five, a time when he is in his prime of life, so naturally he is very enthusiastic and likes to explore certain things.
"Why do you men like that? Is that really that good?"
Xu Manni did not refuse, just smiled and said.
"I think all men will like it. If you say you don't like it, you probably just can't say it out loud."
Zhao Heng smiled and said.
"Okay, as long as you like it, I'll prepare something later and bring it over tonight."
Xu Manni nodded. The joy of the boudoir lies in exploration. Moreover, both of them are studying medicine, so they are quite bold and open-minded in certain matters.
Chapter completed!