Chapter 45: Walls Have Ears
These things flashed through my mind quickly, but I couldn't be sure.
Li Chengyou could only look at the girl, hoping that the girl would keep her promise and tell him the real answer.
After thinking about it for a while, Li Chengyou glanced at the girl's fresh outfit and said, "Why are men so lustful? In fact, it's the same as why you girls like to buy all kinds of clothes, all kinds of bags, all kinds of accessories, and all kinds of brand-name cosmetics."
The girl said angrily: "How can this be the same? It's just..."
Li Chengyou interrupted with a smile: "Why is it different? Isn't it all because I like it?"
"Well!"
The girl was stunned.
Li Chengyou said with a smile: "You girls always like to say that women dress up for the sake of men. But frankly speaking, men rarely pay attention to what women wear. They even say what kind of lipstick to wear, whether to polish nails, and whether to polish eyelashes."
Men who don't grow up don't care about it either. In the eyes of men, a woman's face and figure are more important. As for clothes, as long as they are clean and good-looking.
You don’t even need to buy so many clothes. You only need three or five pieces to change, as well as bags, accessories, cosmetics, etc. Is it necessary to pursue famous brands?
But why are you women so obsessed?"
The girl was speechless and speechless.
Li Chengyou smiled again and said: "Perhaps you will argue that I am confusing the concept. Men's moral stains are a hundred times worse and more deserving of blame. But in all fairness, aren't they all the same in essence? Aren't they all following their own nature, because they like it?
?If a woman has no money, she can only control herself even if she likes clothes, bags, accessories, etc., because she has no conditions to satisfy her desires.
But if they are rich, how many women can control themselves?
Same goes for men.
Of course, if you don’t have any conditions, you can only be single-minded, but isn’t it normal for a man to be lustful if he has the conditions?
Just like you women are crazy about those clothes and bags."
Smiling, Li Chengyou said again: "I wonder if you are satisfied with this answer?"
The girl opened her mouth, not knowing how to reply.
After a while, he defended himself: "Not every man and woman is like this."
Li Chengyou nodded: "I admit it." He smiled again, "But what I meant was the majority of men and women. I am one of the majority, and the man... who betrayed you and broke your heart should
They can also be classified into this majority."
"I didn't..."
When the girl heard that Li Chengyou had exposed her deepest secrets, the girl opened her mouth to deny it, but when she raised her head and met Li Chengyou's smiling eyes, she could no longer say the following words.
After a while, the girl whispered: "Actually, I don't know...whether it's considered betrayal or not."
Without waiting for Li Chengyou to respond or even asking if he wanted to hear it, the girl took the initiative to tell her story.
"Actually, I am in unrequited love for the other person..."
After the words came out, the girl seemed worried that Li Chengyou would despise her, so she quickly added: "But that person also clearly gave me a hint."
What could Li Chengyou say? He could only nod lightly.
The girl continued: "But there are many girls like me who mean a lot to him. I didn't know it at first, and I made lunch boxes and left them at his door every day, but then I realized that I meant a lot to him.
,I am just one of so many women."
Li Chengyou squinted his eyes and understood.
It turns out that the female licker failed to lick the male god, and she grew hateful because of love.
But it's none of his business, and Li Chengyou doesn't care.
But now I have to comfort the girl first and get the answer out.
Nodding in agreement, Li Chengyou said: "Listening to what you said, this man is indeed quite evil."
The girl asked in surprise: "You think so too?"
Li Chengyou solemnly said: "Of course. I don't deny that most men are lustful, and I don't deny that I am one of the majority. But I have always believed that food and sex are part of human nature..."
The girl interjected: "I know this sentence, Confucius said it."
Li Chengyou twitched his lips: "Confucius never said this, it was Gaozi who said it."
The girl asked curiously: "Who is Gaozi?"
Li Chengyou: "...a man."
He didn't bother to explain to the girls that Gaozi was one of the thinkers of the Warring States Period. It wasn't a waste of time. The girls didn't necessarily want to hear it and were willing to listen to these popularizations.
Li Chengyou said: "It is the nature of men to be lustful, just like there can only be one male lion in a lion group in nature, and there can only be one male horse in a horse group. The male's instinct is to occupy more females so that his genes can continue. But
Humans, after all, are different from animals. Humans have the foundation of civilization and the influence of integrity. So I have always believed that there is nothing wrong with men being lustful, but they must be lustful and have self-awareness."
The girl asked: "What do you mean?"
Li Chengyou said: "Just like the boy you like, he obviously doesn't intend to accept you but still gives you hope, and deliberately conceals and deceives you. This kind of behavior is what I object to."
When the girl heard this, she couldn't help but look at Li Chengyou strangely, and suddenly remembered what Li Chengyou said to the girl named Jiyun that night.
After mutual confirmation, the girl suddenly realized that Li Chengyou was indeed who he said. Although he was lustful, he was lustful in a certain way.
At least Lee Seung Woo was honest with the girl named Ji Yoon and didn't cheat.
After coming back to his senses, Li Chengyou's voice continued to be heard, and he only heard Li Chengyou say: "...It is natural for men to be lustful, and there is nothing wrong with it, but the prerequisite for lustfulness is that you must meet the conditions. You cannot violate the law because of lust, let alone force women
.If a man has trouble even having three meals a day, or can barely get enough food and clothing, then the first thing he should do is to solve the problem of food and clothing, live a good life, and take care of his family.
If he cannot even do this, then he is not qualified to satisfy his own nature.
Just like a woman who has no money must control herself and not indulge her desires to buy brand-name clothes and bags that are beyond her ability.
The same goes for men.
After all, even if they are animals, even male lions and stallions, the premise that they can monopolize so many females is that they provide protection for the lions and horses. It is their ability to make females willing to follow them.
That’s why I say that it’s okay for men to be lustful, but they must be lustful and have self-awareness.
Now that you have the capital and conditions, women are willing to follow you willingly. Whether it is an exchange of interests or a relationship, as long as the woman is willing and not forced, I have no objection to the lustful man.
Because that's the kind of man I am.
But I also despise such a man who deceives you and takes advantage of your feelings like the boy you like."
Having said this, seeing the girl's expression soften, Li Chengyou looked at the girl and asked: "I think I have explained it very clearly, right? I wonder if you are satisfied with this answer?"
The girl raised her head and looked at Li Chengyou with complicated eyes. After a long pause, she finally nodded.
have to say.
Li Chengyou's scum will return to scum.
But as he said, although he is lustful, he is lustful to a certain extent.
At least he practices what he preaches.
And this is beyond most men.
Women often care more about whether a man is sincere or not. In the word sincerity, truth comes first and sincerity comes last. And the so-called truth means don’t lie or hide. In other words, even if you lie or conceal, at least
Don't let women know.
Women are not afraid of being deceived. What women are afraid of is that you cannot deceive them for the rest of their lives.
At least the girl was convinced by Li Chengyou.
Although she knew that Li Chengyou was a lecherous man, she no longer despised him as she did at first.
After a slight hesitation, the girl looked at Li Chengyou with embarrassment, hesitated again, and hesitated: "A few nights ago, in that park, I overheard the conversation between you and that girl named Jiyun.
"
Li Chengyou: "..."
What the hell...!
Depend on!
Chapter completed!