"Goodbye Qiao Sansan!"

"Goodbye Yuan Fei!"

At eight o'clock, Yuan Jia drove Qiao Shanshan home on time, and Yuan Hui also followed her. She sent Qiao Shanshan home and stroked Duobao's big dog head again, giggling happily.

After going downstairs and getting in the car, Yuanjia started the car and drove home.

Huihui poked her little head out of the back seat.

"Brother, you bought a new car, do you want to take me to play with it?"

"Why do I have to take you to play with me when I buy a new car?"

Huihui sat back on the back seat, bumped her butt and said, "But if you don't want to drive the car, then why buy the car?"

Huihui spent time with her brother, and she could always come up with a million reasons to take her to play on weekends.

If the stupid sister could focus on her studies, she and Qiao Shanshan would not be at the bottom of the class...

At half past eight, Yuan Jia started tonight's live broadcast.

Fans have been waiting for half an hour.

[Teacher Yuan is late]

【Apologies for not singing two songs?】

[Students from Class 2 came to visit]

It has just started, and there are already a lot of comments. With its popularity on the Internet these days, the number of followers in Yuanjia's live broadcast room has exceeded 500,000, and the average number of online viewers in these two nights was more than 20,000.

There were so many private messages in the mailbox that Yuan Jia couldn't read them at all. He could only take a cursory look at the email titles and select some more representative letters for live broadcast explanation.

The most cheerful audience to send out barrages were the students of Yuanjia.

Since learning that Teacher Yuan is a psychological anchor on the live broadcast platform, students have come to join in the fun almost every night.

Compared with the more professional psychological knowledge in class, the more down-to-earth and more realistic interpretation of psychological problems in the live broadcast room made them feel that they gained a lot.

Students at Soochow University all know that the school has a celebrity teacher recently, and many people come to stay. Even if they are not interested in psychological questions and answers, they will come to listen to Teacher Yuan sing.

"I'm late tonight because I have something to do, so I'll sing a song for everyone first." Yuan Jia said with a smile.

[Gardenia boss comes out to request songs]

Classmate Xu Nanzhi came out happily and requested songs.

Gardenia’s 35th song request trumpet: “I want to hear courage~!”

Gardenia secretly sang this song to Yuan Jia last night.

I love you-

The unnecessary crowding -

Spend the rest of your life -

Just to be close to you-

Even one centimeter-

As soon as Yuan Jia finished singing the song, the fans started showering with small gifts.

【It sounds so good that I cried】

[Teacher Yuan, please play another song]

【It sounds nice】

[This voice is so gentle]

【I am pregnant】

Yuan Jia picked up the freshly squeezed orange juice he had just bought on the table and took a sip, moistened his throat, and said with a smile: "Let's sing again when the live broadcast is over. I have received many letters from classmates recently, including many classmates in Sunan.

Come to me for offline consultation, thank you very much for your support."

The email reading session has begun.

"Teacher Yuan, I have been an introvert since I was a child. I have always been inconspicuous in the crowd. In fact, it's not that I have low self-esteem. I just feel that everyone doesn't care about me, or I feel a little transparent. I like reading very much.

, whether it’s a book or a prose, I can always appreciate the various aspects of the world in books. It’s not that reading can improve a person’s aura, but I always feel that I am still very weak, so I am very confused.”

【Cultural Person】

[I like reading, but I don’t know if that counts as liking reading]

[People who like reading should be quieter]

There was a lot of discussion in the barrage.

Yuan Jia finished reading the letter and took a sip of freshly squeezed orange juice. He rarely drinks tea or coffee in the evening, but likes to drink a little juice or eat fresh fruits. Over time, he feels that this is very good and very healthy.

I learned this habit from my friend in college who liked to keep fit. Whether it is studying or socializing, it will always change a person subtly.

Yuan Jia put down the cup and said: "I have read the letter. In the letter, you mentioned a very key word - aura."

"I wonder how everyone understands aura? Many people should associate 'aura' and 'temperament' together."

[Teacher Yuan didn’t tell me, I really didn’t notice it]

【Is there any difference】

"Temperament and aura are different. Temperament is the external manifestation of the influence of your personal psychological activities, while aura is your influence on the surrounding environment and people."

"Then what's the connection between the two? When your temperament is strong to a certain extent and you pay attention to affecting the people and things around you, then you have the so-called aura."

"I believe everyone has seen people with aura, right? For example, a professor with profound academic research, or a powerful boss in the business world. They only need to appear in the crowd, and their aura will immediately affect others.

, either causing cheers or silence.”

[Haha, I think of several classic villains in movies and TV series]

"Going back to the letter just now, first of all, it is certain that reading can change a person's temperament, but this is not the role of books, but the role of your thinking in the process of reading."

"Through thinking, you can clearly know your choice, which invisibly transforms into your self-confidence, and this self-confidence is your temperament. When it is strong enough, knowledge becomes your aura.

, means that even if you are deep in the corner of the crowd, even if no one sees you, you will not feel uneasy because of this, and naturally there will be no problems mentioned in your letter."

"The meaning of reading is not how many books you read, but whether you think for yourself during the process."

[Teacher Yuan, can introverts also have a sense of presence?]

[Yes, because I am introverted, I feel like I am a little transparent]

Yuan Jia looked at the barrage and smiled and said: "Introversion will not cause much damage to a person's sense of existence. There are many introverted celebrities. What really makes a person have no sense of existence is the lack of independent thinking.

It’s mediocrity.”

【Understood】x999

"Hello Teacher Yuan, I have been watching your live broadcasts recently, including your class videos. You must be a very gentle person. I dream of becoming a person like you, but I am very distressed.

"

"Should I be stronger as a person, or should I be weaker? I don't want to conflict with others, nor do I want to be suppressed everywhere. How can I become a person like you?"

[Haha, every time I see Teacher Yuan reading a letter praising me, I feel very happy]

[Teacher Yuan, why don’t you blush a little bit]

[I am also troubled by this problem and feel that I am a weak person]

The cheeky Yuan Jia smiled and said, "Thank you very much for this classmate's recognition of me."

"Strength and weakness have always been a commonly used personality label for us. Similar to physical strength and thinness, it is a manifestation of our inner strength."

"There are two very good sayings. One is 'Smell the roses when you have a tiger in your heart', and the other is 'A woman is weak, but a mother is strong.' There will be times when our ambitions are subdued by gentleness and beauty. In fact, we

Everyone has their own masculine side and their own feminine side, more or less."

"Like the troubles mentioned in the letter, many people don't know whether they should be stronger or weaker?"

"I think it's because I have encountered certain situations in life, such as participating in a company's contract negotiation. At first, you may act friendly and weak, but then the other party becomes aggressive and makes many unreasonable demands, and then changes to strong words and actions.

When you come to negotiate, the other party actually admires you and respects you more. So many people mistakenly believe that strength must be better than weakness, but it is not."

"Whether you are strong or weak, it is all based on self-interest. In other words, it is where your bottom line is."

"Only when we accept and recognize ourselves in our hearts and stick to our own bottom line, will our appearance change because of our inner self, and others will be able to feel the 'power' in us and respect, trust and accept us more. In turn, if

We cannot even respect, accept, and recognize ourselves, so our external performance must be submissive, and others may even bully us."

"A person's strength or weakness is not a matter of unilateral generalization. As we experience more and become more mature, we will be strong when we should be strong and weak when we should be weak. This has become a continuous and stable character trait.

.”

"So, your direction is not 'strong' or 'weak', but a state of 'neither humble nor arrogant' or 'circle on the outside and square on the inside'. You have your own thoughts, your own voice, and clear boundaries between your inner heart and the outside world.

"

"Don't be strong, but be decisive; don't be weak, but be gentle and courteous."

"In a normal relationship, a greeting with a smile, a word of concern, or a little help from you can make people feel like the warm sunshine in winter or the spring breeze."
To be continued...