With Huihui's enthusiastic participation, the dinner appointment originally scheduled for tomorrow at noon was simply changed to now, and it happened to be almost dinner time.

"Mom, there is no need to cook for Huihui and me tonight. We will eat outside."

"What are you eating outside?"

"Just with a friend, we'll go back later, that's all."

He did not dare to say that he was with Zhao Shiyin, otherwise he would have to face interrogation after returning home.

Yuan Jia hugged Hui Hui and got out of the car with Zhao Shiyin who had not yet recovered. This area happened to be a commercial center and there were quite a few places to eat.

"What does Teacher Zhao usually like to eat?"

Yuan Jia looked at the dazzling array of restaurants and walked around all afternoon, and now she was really feeling hungry.

"I can do it..."

Zhao Shiyin smiled and followed Yuan Jia half a step behind on the right.

Judging from her stance and body movements, Yuan Jia also knows that she is not a particularly independent person, which is also a common trait of most ordinary girls.

If you ask her what to eat tonight, she will say that she listens to you. When you take her into the noodle shop, she will pout and say that she wants to eat pizza.

So when you encounter this situation, you must change the way of asking and ask her: What do you don’t want to eat tonight. She really doesn’t know what she wants to eat, but she still knows what she doesn’t want to eat...

"Does Teacher Zhao have any taboos?"

"Well, just don't make it too spicy."

That is, it is best not to eat spicy food at all.

Yuan Jia opened Meituan, quickly eliminated the spicy restaurants nearby, and then chose a Cantonese restaurant.

Jiangsu cuisine is similar to Cantonese cuisine. They are both light, but slightly sweeter. They are both from southern Jiangsu, so the taste is not much different.

After confirming the restaurant, Yuan Jia took Zhao Shiyin there with him. It was not far away and only took about ten minutes to walk.

There is a big difference in the way girls and boys think.

Usually when a boy invites a girl to dinner, he will proactively determine the time and place of the dinner date. If the relationship is unusual, he will also bring his ID card and plan whether to go for a walk or watch a movie after the meal. The itinerary will be accurate until after the movie is played.

Is the dormitory closed? What should I do if the dormitory is closed... The arrangements are properly made.

When a girl invites a boy to dinner, she will ask you what to eat, where to eat, whether it is far, how to get there, and finally the bill and payment, and what we should do next.

Of course, this time it was more impromptu, so Yuan Jia took the initiative to choose the restaurant and order the menu. Zhao Shiyin actually enjoyed this process of not having to use her own brain, and Yuan Jia was really good at communicating and would not make her feel embarrassed at all.

Most boys on a blind date will take care of themselves before meeting a girl, think about topics that the girl may be interested in, and prepare several itinerary plans.

Counting Zhao Shiyin, Yuan Jia has been arranged for blind dates three times, and she is not unfamiliar with this. After all, the other party is not the girl he likes. They are just going through the motions and ending the blind date naturally and harmoniously. If possible, he can

Make a normal friend.

Maybe he was too good. My mother asked the introducer several times about the girl’s reaction, and they all said they were very satisfied with him. However, Yuan Jia didn’t have such thoughts about the girl, which really made Yang Hemei very angry.

"Teacher Zhao, take your order." Yuan Jia took the menu from the waiter and placed it in front of Zhao Shiyin.

The three of them sat at a rectangular table. Yuan Jia and Zhao Shiyin sat opposite each other. Huihui sat in the back with Yuan Jia. Her calves were not long enough to reach the ground, so they were dangling in the air~

"Just order it. I like the dishes you mentioned before."

Zhao Shiyin gave him the menu again, and Yuanjia started to order. She chose a nourishing soup that was suitable for girls. She recalled the food photos that had appeared in her circle of friends and ordered two dishes that she might like.

Food to eat.

It's not that I have any intention towards her, but that I respect her.

"Huihui, what do you want to eat?"

"I want to eat this pig's trotters, this little cake, and these ribs!"

Zhao Shiyin likes children very much. Huihui looks pretty and super cute. She also has two missing front teeth and looks very funny.

"Huihui, what grade are you in this year?"

"First grade!"

"Did you see a lot of little animals when you went to the zoo today?"

"There are so many! The big elephant is so big..."

Yuan Hui tried her best to open her arms and show how big the elephant was, making Zhao Shiyin giggle.

The three of them chatted, and soon the dishes were served, including four dishes, one soup and a small dessert.

Yuan Hui began to immerse herself in eating. She couldn't chew the pig's trotters, so Yuan Jia tore off the meat bit by bit and gave it to her.

It is said that gentle boys are the most popular among girls. Looking at Yuan Jia and Yuan Hui, Zhao Shiyin felt that he was very gentle. If he also has a baby in the future, he must be a very good father.

When eating, Zhao Shiyin still paid attention to her appearance and ate slowly and leisurely, and the dishes Yuan Jia ordered were just right for her taste.

The two of them made a tacit agreement not to mention the blind date, and just ate and chatted like ordinary friends.

It's just that Yuan Jia's thoughts may be different from hers. After all, this meal will be eaten sooner or later, so some hints must be given to her.

"Being a head teacher is very busy. In addition to daily classes, he also has to deal with various notifications and various information statistics... he needs to summarize and report every week. Sometimes he has to participate in city education training on weekends, mainly for some students.

When I don’t obey, I get a headache..."

Zhao Shiyin said, "But sometimes I am moved by the students. Last time I was sick, the students in my class brought fruits to the dormitory to see me. I felt very relieved."

Yuan Jia nodded to express his understanding. The conversation between the two basically focused on work, which was also the direction Yuan Jia intentionally directed the conversation.

"Dr. Yuan, thank you very much for Liu Yuan's matter. She sent me a message today and told me not to worry about her. She will come back to class next Wednesday."

"That's good."

Zhao Shiyin planned to ask Yuan Jia about it.

"Dr. Yuan, what do you think about puppy love? I found that this happened to some students in the class, but I just don't know how to deal with it."

"for example……?"

"Just the past two weeks, when I was about to take a break, a girl in my class called me. She talked to me for a long time, mostly about a boy in my class."

Yuan Jia put down his chopsticks and listened to her quietly.

"She said, teacher, do you know that Zhuang Zhiren is very kind and cares about his classmates. He is the last one to leave the classroom every time. He is responsible for closing the windows and doors and wiping the blackboard. But he is too honest, and there are classmates in the class.

After bullying him, Zhuang Zhi quarreled with them after a night of self-study, and even got violent..."

"I didn't know about this at all, so I asked her for details. After hearing this, I was very angry. I told her that I would deal with the matter tomorrow."

"But she said, teacher, can you not talk about their fight? Zhuang Zhi doesn't want the teacher to know about it. If you mention it, teacher, Zhuang Zhi will know that I told you..."

"I asked her, what should the teacher do?"

"She said she didn't know either. She didn't want the matter to be revealed, and she didn't want those people to continue to bully Zhuang Zhi, so she was particularly troubled."

"She spoke in a soft voice. She kept talking about Zhuang Zhi over and over again. She said a lot of things. In the end, I didn't even know how to deal with it. After all, it was in the past, so I suppressed it for the time being."

"Later I found out from another girl in her dormitory that she had always had a crush on Zhuang Zhi, but Zhuang Zhi actually didn't know."

After Zhao Shiyin finished speaking, she sighed and said helplessly: "Dr. Yuan, did I speak a little confusingly? Not only do I not know about these things between them, but I also don't know what to do if I know about it."

Yuan Jia basically understood the ins and outs of the matter. He picked up the teapot and poured a cup of tea for Zhao Shiyin. He smiled and said: "Actually, it's nothing. You can pretend that you don't know about this and just be an observer."

"But I am a teacher..."

"Have you read the book "The Catcher in the Rye"?"

"I've seen it."

"Holden's ideal is to be a catcher in the rye, watching over the running children. Only when they run to the cliff, Holden will catch them and prevent them from being harmed."

Yuanjia continued: "Many times, the teacher is not a gardener who uses rules and regulations to restrain the growth of saplings. More often, he should be an observer."

"Observer?"

Zhao Shiyin didn't quite understand. This seemed to be somewhat inconsistent with what she had always believed to be a teacher's responsibilities.

"When students don't cross the line, as an observer, you can tolerate their little secrets, understand the little mistakes they often make, and be proud of their success and kindness. You don't need to get involved in everything."

Listening to Yuan Jia's words, Zhao Shiyin fell into thinking.

What Yuan Jia said does make sense. Just like what she just said, because she didn't know how to deal with it at the time, she suppressed it for the time being, and this was already the best result.

The conflict between Zhuang Zhi and those classmates did not reappear. The girl also confided her troubles, and she and Zhuang Zhi still got along with each other the way she wanted...

What would have happened if Zhao Shiyin had handled this matter at that time?

Maybe those students who made mistakes will be punished, but it may not be the best outcome for Zhuang Zhi or the girl who came to talk to her.

"Dr. Yuan, what if, what if they go astray? How can I persuade him to change his mind?"

"You know, many times when I receive visitors, they will tell me all kinds of opinions, some of which are biased and some of which are immature."

"But I never wanted to change their views. I just taught them another new way of thinking about problems. In the process, they will slowly summarize their own mature ideas about the world."

"Only in this way will they not reject you and let you see your true heart. Both you and them will benefit from this."

Seeing Zhao Shiyin thinking, Yuanjia did not disturb her.

"I'm going to the bathroom. Huihui, please don't run around here."
To be continued...