This email expresses the sentiments of many professionals.

Just like what bosses often like to say to their employees, work hard and you can realize your dreams. What are your dreams? My dream is to lie at home and not work.

But there is no word 'demolished' posted in front of my house, and there are not many houses where I can securely collect rent. I am not a rich second generation, and I am the one who buys lottery tickets and contributes to the prize pool. How can I not work under such circumstances?

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After reading the email, there was a lot of discussion in the live broadcast room.

[You are so right, I have this problem]

[Crying, I feel like it’s me you’re talking about]

[I’ve been leaving my job for half a year, and I still haven’t found a job yet]

[I want to start my own business, but I don’t have the capital]

[Nine out of ten startups this year will lose money]

[It’s difficult. I used to want to open a breakfast shop by myself, but unfortunately I couldn’t get up in the morning, so the idea was stillborn]

[Don’t give up, work hard and you’ll be able to break even (funny)]

【What? Can you save money while working?】

[Yes, I have worked for three years and I already have enough money to buy a toilet]

Yuanjia has encountered a lot of psychological counseling related to work. Even when he just graduated, he had the same troubles.

Whether he should stick to his dream of working in the psychological counseling industry or follow his parents' advice and become a teacher in school was something that troubled Yuan Jia for a long time.

There are a lot of chicken soups on the Internet. Capitalists will tell you that work is to realize your own life value, work is a kind of practice, and you must love your work...

For people who have not yet entered the workplace, they will feel full of motivation after listening to it, but for those who have been working hard in the workplace, these are all nonsense.

When you work seven days a week, twelve hours a day, and receive a salary of several thousand dollars a month, and look at the rising housing prices, reality will be like a toppling mountain, weighing you down, and you will be breathless in the dead of night.

You will ask yourself: What is the purpose of work?

Yuanjia read the letter and said: "Your problem is not that you don't know what you want. After reading the email, I know that you know what you want, and like most people, you want a copy."

More money, less work and a job closer to home.”

[Haha, the teacher is right]

【More money, less work, a job close to home, please introduce me!】

"Then why is there such a phenomenon that 'you know what you want' but you are still confused and don't know what to do? A friend in the live broadcast room just mentioned it, because this kind of job does not exist, and there is no place for it.

On your head."

【It hurts】

[Please teacher be gentler]

Yuanjia continued: "I can't improve your work ability, but I can help you understand one thing, and that is how you should view your work."

"The first type is that you treat work as your life. Of course, if you can do it, you won't have so many worries. When you treat work as a part of life or even life, you will naturally delve into it.

, will work hard, even if you have just changed positions, you can adapt in a very short period of time and quickly become the pillar of the department. These people are workaholics, and I admire them very much."

"I had a senior student in college. During her senior year as an intern, she did everything. She could design, hand-draw, cut audio, write copy, typesetting, and do operations. She already became a company during the internship period.

An indispensable person, she was directly promoted to department manager after receiving her diploma. Do you know what her signature is? 'Please exploit me as much as you can and make me a valuable person!'"

【Awesome】

【666】

【Look up to the boss】

Yuan Jia smiled. He wasn't lying. The senior he knew before was really so scary. Her mind never thought about things other than work.

[Teacher Yuan, let’s just say the second one, you can’t learn this kind of thing]

"The second one, I will tell you, you have to completely separate work and life. Work is work and life is life. Don't get involved, otherwise you will be asking for trouble."

"The only purpose of work is to obtain the means of survival. It is not your life. It is just a means. It does not need to be given meaning, let alone expect to gain a sense of honor. If there is, it is to obtain more benefits."

"Ignore what your boss says. You know very well that he is trying to get you to work. Don't associate work with your life. Colleagues are colleagues. Treating them as friends will only bring trouble to your work."

"The trouble you are having right now is just because you have confused work and life. You want to take care of work and live a leisurely life at the same time, so you subconsciously look for a job with 'more money, less things to do and close to home', and every time you change the job

When dissatisfaction is brought into life, it reduces the quality of work and affects the happiness of life."

"I can't improve your work ability, and I can't teach you how to make money. I can only teach you how to make choices, and determine your own heart first."

[I am working the night shift and watching Teacher Yuan’s live broadcast and feel very happy]

[You can’t have your cake and eat it too, you can have it both ways]

[I like watching Teacher Yuan’s live broadcast, it’s not chicken soup, it’s very real]

Yuan Jia chatted with fans for a while about the topic of work, and then moved on to the next topic.

The live broadcast room was very popular, and it even made a small recommendation in the district. During the one and a half hour live broadcast, more than 8,000 people watched it at its peak, and Yuan Jia's fans already had 15,000 followers.

There are a lot of bits and pieces of rewards. Many fans who don't like to watch game anchors come to Yuanjia's live broadcast room. Most of them are female fans. They listen to him chatting with fans and watch him read emails. If it happens,

When I saw that similar troubles were solved, I fell in love with this good-looking anchor even more.

Yuanjia reminded the audience: "I'm really not a good-looking anchor."

[Want to hear Teacher Yuan sing]

[Yes, Teacher Yuan, please sing a song. Your voice is so nice, so your singing must be really nice]

Yuan Jia then set a small goal: "When we have 30,000 fans, I will sing a song."

Unknowingly, the time came to half past ten, and it was time for Yuan Jia to end the broadcast.

"Everyone, go to bed early. Don't stay up late. It's good for your skin. Drink more hot water. Remember to cover yourself with a quilt when you sleep."

The same words spoken in Yuanjia's mouth have different effects.

[Teacher Yuan is so considerate!]

[Does Teacher Yuan have a girlfriend?]

[I think Teacher Yuan is very understanding, and I want to marry him!]

【Want to marry!】

So another large reward appeared in the live broadcast room with special effects covering the entire screen.

[Gardenia: Send aircraft carrier x1]

The live broadcast room became quiet...

It seems there is no chance...

…

After the broadcast ended, Yuan Jia went to the bathroom to wash his face, returned to the room, put on loose pajamas, lay down on the bed and turned on his mobile phone.

Yuan Jia: "Why are you giving me so many gifts? It's too expensive."

Gardenia: "It's okay, I like watching your live broadcast, it's just a little pocket money..."

Yuan Jia: "..."

Gardenia: "You don't like it..."

Yuan Jia: “I really like it.”

Xu Nanzhi has no idea about money. Rich women like her can spend hundreds of thousands just buying a beautiful dress or bag. These rewards are really just a little pocket money.

, and Gardenia basically spends nothing.

In the dead of night, the two of them were lying on the bed at the same time. Gardenia turned to the left and Yuanjia turned to the right. The light of the screen was imprinted on the eyes, like a bridge across time and space.

Gardenia: "What are you doing?"

Yuanjia: "Lie on the bed and look at the stars outside the window."

Gardenia: "I also like the stars very much. I think they are like me. They hide during the day and only sneak out at night when everyone is asleep..."

Gardenia: "But I feel that even the stars can do things, but I can't do them well..."

Gardenia: "I often can't control my depression and cry when I wake up at night. I must be very useless. I can't even take care of my own mood..."

Yuan Jia looked at the words sent by Xu Nanzhi quietly, he could understand her pain.

When you suffer from depression, even the smallest disturbance can make you feel depressed and depressed.

Yuanjia: "I'm listening."

Gardenia: "Yuanjia...if, if one day I fail to reply to your message in time, it's not because I don't like chatting with you anymore, but because I don't want to come to you with helplessness and sadness. I'm afraid this will not work."

Sincerity.”

Yuan Jia: "We are friends, so you have to share your happiness and your unhappiness with me. How are you feeling today?"

Gardenia: "I'm very happy today. I went to the balcony to paint, and even walked to the steps. I also had a good meal..."
To be continued...