The time after dinner is the most leisurely time of the day.

Yuanjia started the broadcast relatively early tonight, starting the live broadcast before eight o'clock.

Like many psychological counselors, the income from simply doing cases is really limited. Many psychological counselors work part-time. In addition to their own jobs, they receive some online psychological counseling, or work as a small anchor on FM radio.

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The two days of live broadcasting have been quite rewarding for Yuan Jia, and they can be regarded as a long-term side job.

After the continuous and stable live broadcast, the audience in the live broadcast room gradually stabilized. Especially some girls who had nothing to do at night, just like watching TV dramas, lying on the bedside watching Yuan Jia's live broadcast, listening to him and

The audience chatted.

"Hello, Teacher Yuan, I have fallen in love with a boy recently. On the surface, he seems to have a very good personality, is easy to get along with, is kind and polite to others, but he just feels distant, and I feel that I can't use my strength.

What is the reason for this?"

After reading the letter, many viewers in the live broadcast room started discussing it.

Interestingly, many people say that they also have such a personality.

They seem to be easy to get along with, but when they actually come into contact, they will unconsciously distance themselves from each other.

Yuan Jia analyzed: "It can be divided into two situations. The first one is that he knows very well what he needs, or what he wants in his heart. You like this boy, but he doesn't like you.

So it’s normal to have a sense of distance.”

"The second type is a more objective sense of distance. That is, he is not just like this to you, but other people he comes into contact with will also unconsciously distance themselves."

"In this case, there is often a scar in his heart, like a barrier in his heart."

"Many times, what we think and what we do are different. Under the surface of seemingly being easy to get along with, we may be hiding our true inner thoughts. This is called defense in psychology and is often a subconscious behavior."

"Such people are relatively quiet and introverted. They may have often needed to take care of their parents' emotions when they were young, which will cause a lot of psychological consumption. If this habit is retained, they will subconsciously distance themselves from others when they grow up.

distance, it will be easier for you."

"If you really like him and want to be with him, then try your best to make him feel comfortable when you get along with him. Only people who will not deplete his inner energy will bring him closer."

After listening to Yuan Jia's words, the audience expressed that they were quite right.

[I was like this when I was a child. I didn’t dare to cry in front of my parents. The more I cried, the more they beat me.]

【My boyfriend is like this too】

[I think this kind of character is quite mature]

[Maturity is often accompanied by cruelty]

The popularity of the live broadcast room is steadily rising. The number of online viewers tonight has exceeded 8,000. In the area of ​​good looks, Yuan Jia can be regarded as a slightly famous anchor.

Because I haven’t signed a live streaming contract with DouNiao yet, the platform didn’t give me a big recommendation, just an inconspicuous recommendation slot in a small corner.

Yuan Jia guessed that DouNiao would definitely contact him to sign a contract if the live broadcast effect was maintained like this for two or three days at most.

Gardenia will definitely watch the daily live broadcast, but after Yuanjia told her about the gifts last night, Gardenia did not dare to give so many gifts anymore. Only when she saw many girls saying they like Teacher Yuan in the live broadcast room,

She just dropped an aircraft carrier.

"Hello, Teacher Yuan, I'm a girl. I can't help but act when I'm in love. Sometimes when I quarrel with my boyfriend, he is actually very angry and will put down his temper to comfort me. But I have

A very bad habit is to ignore him. If we are outside, I will walk very quickly without talking to him. I know this is not good, but I just can't get rid of this habit. Am I too willful?

"

After Yuan Jia read the letter, he was stunned and shook his head: "I am a breakup master. You yourself know this problem very well. If you ask me for advice, then I suggest that you either break up proactively or do it until the end.

, he broke up with you."

"You don't care about him that much, you just like to see him hanging around you."

After a pause, Yuan Jia added: "If your boyfriend has any questions that he would like to consult, I will be happy to help him answer them."

[Yes, why do people have to keep accommodating you]

[If you know you are wrong, you should correct it]

[She probably wants Teacher Yuan to analyze that she likes Zuo but she can’t control it]

[If you really can’t control it, then break up]

[To be honest, I used to be like this too. After breaking up twice, I forced myself to change.]

…

Tonight's live broadcast was relatively long. Yuan Jia broadcast for two hours until ten o'clock in the evening.

Yuan Jia’s fan following has also exceeded 30,000.

[Did Teacher Yuan forget what he promised yesterday?]

[Sing for us if your followers exceed 30,000!]

【Sing! Sing!】

Yuan Jia looked at the barrage and said with a smile: "I am a psychological anchor, not a good-looking anchor. I really can't sing well."

[What? Teacher Yuan turns out to be a psychological anchor?]

【Sing! Sing!】

【Teacher Yuan, I want to request a song!】

[Pink Lady: Send out the plane x1]

[Dream in Huanxiang: Send out application card x10]

…

The audience wanted to hear Yuan Jia sing, so they bought gifts one after another.

[Gardenia: Send aircraft carrier x1]

The barrage is quiet.

Yuan Jia said seriously: "What song do you want to listen to, Gardenia? I can sing two!"

[So you are such a teacher Yuan]

【Unlocked】

【Looking up to rich sister】

Yuanjia opened Kugou and looked through his playlist. In fact, he sang quite well, but he listened to less music after work, and most of the songs he knew were old songs from the past.

When I was in the first year of high school, before the lunch meeting time, the class would arrange for a classmate to come on stage to perform a talent show for everyone. For fifteen minutes, they could sing, dance, and talk about cross talk.

At that time, all the classmates in the class loved this program. After all, it was a rare source of happiness in the day. Even if the students on stage sang tunelessly and everyone burst into laughter, they would not really be discriminated against.

It's just that this form of performance is nothing to ordinary people, but for Xu Nanzhi at that time, it was really a hurdle that was impossible to overcome.

In the days leading up to her taking the stage, she had trouble sleeping and eating, and even kept crying in the middle of the night because of the thought of this matter.

Fortunately, Yuanjia helped her out and sang a song for her that day, and Yuanjia went up by herself the next day.

From Xu Nanzhi's point of view, performing on stage for two consecutive days is simply unimaginable.

If it weren't for Yuan Jia at that time, she wouldn't know what to do...

In the live broadcast room, Gardenia sent a rare message.

Gardenia: "I want to hear snail~"

Snail...

Yuan Jia can sing, and it seems that the song he sang on stage at that time was Snail. It has been ten years, but he can't remember it clearly.

"Okay, then I'll sing Snail. What about another song?"

Gardenia: "It's still a snail~"

"Then I'll sing it twice."

The audience in the live broadcast room looked forward to Teacher Yuan's singing and fed them with small gifts and bird food.

Yuanjia adjusted the microphone volume, chose the accompaniment of Snail, cleared his throat, and started singing.

Xu Nanzhi didn't look at the screen on her phone. She was sitting by the window sill with her little bear in her arms, looking at the night sky and listening to Yuan Jia's singing, as if she could see the past.

Should I put down my heavy shell?

Looking for where the blue sky is

Drifting gently with the gentle wind

I don’t feel any pain from the injuries I’ve experienced.
Chapter completed!