Chapter 57: What I can't let go is regret
Yuan Jia was already ready. When he heard the doorbell ringing, he got up and went to open the door.
Standing outside the door was Miss Wang Yalin, who had made an appointment for consultation at two o'clock. As usual, Yuan Jia quickly understood her emotional state through observation.
Wang Yalin was wearing a knee-length dress, with a thin face and no makeup. She was supposed to be a young and beautiful girl, but now her face was sallow and her lips were pale and chapped.
Before she looked up at Yuan Jia, her eyes were empty and without any expression.
Very few college students of her age have experienced the pain of losing their mother, and the incident happened suddenly, leaving her as if in a dream and at a loss.
"Hello, Miss Wang."
After listening to Yuan Jia's words, Wang Yalin's distracted eyes focused and fell on Yuan Jia's face. There was still no expression. It was not that she was hiding it well, but that her heart was empty.
She opened her eyes slightly, and her dark eyes were as gray as dust. As she spoke, her cheeks sunk in, and she seemed to have to use a lot of force to make the sound come out of her throat: "Hello, Teacher Yuan..."
"Please come in."
Yuan Jia didn't say much and took Wang Yalin to the office to sit quietly.
While she was adjusting her mood, Yuanjia brought her a glass of warm water.
"Thanks……"
"Tell me about your troubles."
Yuan Jia's voice is very penetrating, but it does not make Wang Yalin nervous, but softly invades the body and mind.
Wang Yalin began to talk slowly. Yuan Jia did not ask her to talk about recent events, but asked her to start from her childhood memories.
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"My mother is very good to me. I am the only daughter in the family. She often tells me that she wants to see me in a wedding dress..."
Wang Yalin began to choke, and her eyes instantly turned red, but she held back tears.
"It's okay, you can trust me completely and don't have to suppress your emotions."
"She has a very good personality and can get along with everyone. When we were in the dormitory in high school, she was afraid that I would not eat well at school, so she often cooked and brought food to her. She also made a lot of extra dishes and asked me to share them with my roommates.
She is a really good person..."
Wang Yalin couldn't control her emotions, and big tears fell down her cheeks.
Several times I couldn't even speak clearly and just cried.
"She has high blood pressure, but I never took it seriously before. I am an irresponsible daughter. I should take her health more seriously and spend more time with her. I regret it now.
When I think about not even seeing her for the last time, I feel so distressed that I can't breathe..."
"I often think about how desperate she must have been when she fainted in the kitchen. No one was around her to help her up. She must have been thinking of me at that time, but I was still playing around in school.
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Wang Yalin cried so hard that she choked on her own tears and kept coughing.
She even thought about going on a hunger strike to feel the pain of her mother's last moments of life. She deeply regretted not being with her.
"I hugged her photo and hid under the quilt and cried. I didn't dare to let my father see it. I knew that he was in greater pain than me, but he still wanted to take care of my feelings..."
"But I really can't get out. In the past few days, I have been dreaming about her every night, dreaming about her talking to me. I really miss her. I have imagined that I would die in an accident more than once, hoping that she would come and take care of her.
I left together, but before I had time to repay her, she was no longer there, and I felt like my heart was empty. I felt really uncomfortable, very tired..."
Yuan Jia can sympathize with Wang Yalin's pain. He experienced this kind of grief in his dream last night.
Most people are not actually afraid of their own death, but they are afraid of the death of the person they love most. When the person they love most dies, the living people left behind will often suffer immense pain.
It is not an exaggeration to say that your hair turns gray overnight.
"It's fine……"
Yuan Jia patted her shoulder gently. He only said this comforting word from beginning to end, but Wang Yalin's mood gradually stabilized.
A tap on the shoulder is a small force, but it has a huge soothing power.
"Have you seen Coco?"
Wang Yalin's mood improved a lot. She sniffed and shook her head gently.
"It is said in "Coco" that the person who dies does not actually leave, but lives in our hearts and memories. If we forget her one day, then she has truly left...
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"I will never forget her, never...Teacher Yuan, what should I do?"
Yuan Jia said softly: "I have also been sad because of the departure of my relatives, and I have cried helplessly at night. Later I learned to observe myself, and I found that my emotions were part of missing her, and she was because of me.
Missing me continues to live in my heart."
"Every time at this time, I quietly allow myself to miss her for a while, recall her expectations for me and what she said to me, and I can feel the warm love surrounding me."
Wang Yalin listened quietly. No one else had ever said Yuan Jia's words to her before. He didn't ask her to let go, but asked her to recall and feel this love.
Wang Yalin could feel Yuan Jia's understanding. Although he didn't speak much, she seemed to be able to feel Yuan Jia's emotions from his eyes, expressions, movements and the rolling Adam's apple from time to time.
He has also experienced such pain.
This is something Wang Yalin cannot feel in the eyes of the other three psychological counselors. They are more like sympathetic listeners, while Yuan Jia is an empath who feels the same.
"Close your eyes and feel the part of your emotion that misses her."
Wang Yalin closed her eyes and felt it quietly according to Yuan Jia's words.
The tears fell, this time not because of sadness, but because I felt the warmth of love.
Seeing that Wang Yalin has gradually entered the state, Yuanjia plans to conduct hypnotherapy.
"Come to the lounge with me and I will give you hypnotherapy."
"Teacher Yuan...is it effective?"
"Your mother is actually always living in your heart. Maybe you can see her again and tell her what you want to say to her."
Meet her!
Yuan Jia's words aroused Wang Yalin's expectations. She nodded vigorously, got up and followed Yuan Jia to the lounge for hypnotherapy.
Through the consultation just now, Yuan Jia already knows that the biggest reason why Wang Yalin can't let go of her mother's death is actually regret and regret.
I regret that I didn't love her properly, I regret that I didn't get to see her for the last time, I regret that I still have many, many things I want to say that I couldn't say to her...
He has already reached empathy with Wang Yalin, Wang Yalin trusts him very much, and the prerequisites for hypnosis have been met.
If Wang Yalin wants to get over her grief, hypnosis is the best way to treat her.
Let her see her deceased mother under hypnosis, let her finally feel the warmth, let her fill up all her regrets, say to her what she wanted to say but was too late to say, and even fulfill her mother's wishes and wear
The wedding dress stood in front of her.
People suffer because they want to do something but cannot do it.
After doing what she wanted to do and letting go of her obsessions, there will naturally be no grief and regret, but her mother will become a precious memory that will remain in her heart forever.
Wang Yalin adjusted to a comfortable sitting position under Yuan Jia's guidance.
"Then let's get started..."
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Chapter completed!