Chapter 59 Learning is boundless~~
After coming out of the 'I understand you' psychological consultation room, Wang Yalin did not choose to go home immediately. She walked slowly, feeling the sun on her body.
The afternoon sun was a bit heavy, and after hiding in the room for a long time, the skin that wasn't exposed to the sun was a little red.
Wang Yalin did not hide from the sun, but walked slowly, feeling the warmth she was surrounded by.
Unknowingly, she arrived at Soochow University. Because of her depression during this period, she had taken a leave of absence for a long time.
She walked in and didn't meet any classmates, nor did she take the initiative to find anyone else.
Without any destination, I just walked slowly under the sun to the track and field, then sat down on the lawn and stared blankly.
Yuan Jia was right, she would think about a lot of things these days. Sitting on the lawn in a daze, her thoughts had already drifted away.
She recalled going to Palm Beach with her good friends during the summer vacation before last. The warm and soft sand kissed her feet, the sunset dyed the sea and sky red, and seagulls flew high in the sky.
She remembered her father who would always hold her hand every time she crossed the road when she was a child.
She remembered her mother who cooked porridge for her when she was sick and then sat by the bed and fed her one bite at a time.
She thought of her best friend who was always acting like a lunatic. When she got tickets to Jay Chou's concert, she would jump up and down excitedly with her in her arms...
The past life was like scenes from a movie, playing in her mind frame by frame.
At this time, when I think about the memories of my mother, my heart is no longer so painful, but I feel surrounded by warmth.
She learned the method Yuan Jia taught her and accepted everything.
Whenever she misses her mother very much, she quietly allows herself to think about her for a while, as if she is in a world full of love.
Life will gradually get better...
"Yalin? It's really you..."
Familiar questions came from the side, and then the two girls ran to Wang Yalin, took her hand, and sat on the lawn with her.
"When did you come back? Are you getting better recently? We are all worried to death..."
Seeing her friend's anxious and concerned eyes, Wang Yalin came back to her senses. She held her friend's hand with her backhand and said with a smile: "I'm fine."
"That's good!"
The two friends were talking to Wang Yalin, and the topic revolved around some of their beautiful memories.
They were quite surprised. They had always felt that Wang Yalin was not too nostalgic, but today she talked about so many things from the past.
"Haha... Am I a little weird? It seems like I am the one talking and you are listening."
"No, but Yalin, you still remember everything that happened when you were so young. It's amazing..."
"I just suddenly remembered it today. I may have forgotten it in a few days."
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After Wang Yalin left, Yuan Jia stayed in the office to sort out the visit records.
This consultation took more than two hours, and I received 300 consultation points and 200 thank you points. Yuanjia charged 1,200 yuan, including psychological consultation and hypnotherapy, which is considered the standard price for his 'level', and
Compared with the actual effect it has, this price is already very low.
Comparing Wang Yalin's treatment today alone, none of the 'famous teachers' on the market who charge thousands or even tens of thousands of yuan can match Yuan Jia's treatment effect.
He will not discount or reduce prices just because he sympathizes with a certain visitor. Visitors don't need sympathy from others either. What they need is understanding and help.
Yuan Jia recorded in detail the process of using heart anchors to treat depression during this hypnotherapy session, so that he could check for any omissions later.
The entire hypnosis lasted about an hour, and Yuan Jia implanted four heart anchors into Wang Yalin.
The first is to make her feel safe and loved when she is alone and helpless.
The second is that even if my mother is not around, it will not affect the beautiful scenery in front of me.
The third one is to connect the warmth given by her mother to the warmth given by the sun. She is actually always there.
The fourth is the sentence that she said when saying goodbye to her mother: "There is a part of me that misses you. Now I leave my part behind, and you take away the part that belongs to you."
At that time, Wang Yalin still couldn't say this sentence. When she was able to say it, she actually let it go, because subconsciously, she had already said a complete farewell to her mother.
These four anchors can be very effective in changing Wang Yalin's way of thinking about how she views her mother's death, allowing her to break out of the box in which she has trapped herself.
The biggest effect of hypnotherapy, besides implanting a heart anchor, is that it allowed Wang Yalin to see her mother and let her say things she had not said to her mother.
The unspoken apology in the second year of high school, the longing these days, and the love that I didn’t have time to tell her...
This hypnosis process allowed Wang Yalin to fill up her regrets and do things she had never done before. Only then did she let go of her obsession with her mother's sudden death. She no longer suffered from this, but turned her mother into the most precious memory.
heart.
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This hypnotherapy session was also of great help to Yuan Jia. Before this, he had never formally performed hypnotherapy on a client like this.
Because I couldn't empathize with the client before, and the client didn't trust him, the hypnosis effect was very poor, and I couldn't enter that deep state, and even fell asleep.
Today, Yuanjia applied the learning results in the system into practice. It was a bit stiff, but fortunately it still produced good results.
"You still need to study more..."
Yuan Jia lamented that there is no limit to the knowledge. The more he came into contact with the vast psychological knowledge in the system, the more he felt that he knew less.
The system can give him a rich "actual psychological simulation experience". This kind of learning method is unmatched by any psychology practitioner.
Just like many people think that reading more books can help them understand life, but later they find out that they cannot understand books without enough life experience. Some songs have no feeling at first, but after more experience, they fall in love with the song.
In fact, the truth is the same. Without similar or identical experiences, there is no way to empathize.
For mental illness, only 'you' are your best psychiatrist.
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Yuanjia organized the documents, saved them in the computer, and will continue to organize them tomorrow.
The hypnosis process was quite expensive for him, and he had to be highly focused. Through Wang Yalin's subconscious body and facial reactions, he had to quickly convert the hypnosis instructions.
If he had not guided the hypnosis process well, Wang Yalin might have suffered more serious trauma due to excessive recall of bad things during the hypnosis scene.
It is now five o'clock in the afternoon, and he will go home from get off work soon.
Yuan Jia was lying relaxedly on the office chair, as soft as the little fat cat at home. Although this sitting posture is inelegant, it is really relaxing!
He picked up his phone and opened QQ.
There are many friends on QQ, but now only Gardenia is chatting with her, as if it has become her exclusive chat app.
The news stopped at one-thirty.
13:25, Gardenia: "Yuanjia, then I'm going to plant watermelons now."
13:30, Gardenia: [Picture]
At 13:30, Yuan Jia: “Come on!”
The picture is a simple drawing she drew on the chat whiteboard. It is a cartoon little girl with long hair, wearing a T-shirt and shorts. The black dots on her left hand are watermelon seeds, and the toy-like thing on her right hand is a small shovel, and then
There is also a red sun on the upper left.
Cute and adorable style of painting.
Looking at her paintings, Yuan Jia seemed to be able to imagine what she looked like. He thought it was so cute, and a smile unconsciously appeared on his lips.
Gardenia would not bother him easily by sending messages during working hours. Yuanjia took the initiative to send her a message before she got off work.
At 17:02, Yuan Jia: "I'm off work. How are your watermelons going?"
In less than five seconds, Gardenia sent over many photos.
Gardenia: "[Picture][Picture][Picture]..."
Chapter completed!